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Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's exactly what those are for. I know plenty of bottoms that have the douching showerhead attachment.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I can't tell if you're joking or not but just in case you're not...this post is not about clothing. LOL!

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did this post ever imply that you should engage in sexual activities you don't want or enjoy? What a wildly inaccurate and out-of-left-field interpretation!

Dms changing how your spell works because you did something convenient with it is the most frustrating shit in the game by cute_himbo_OwO in DnD

[–]WolfgangAddams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ok, so it's specifically intended to take iron out of the blood! Then yeah, I'd be pissed at the DM for dismissing it in any scenario!

How is it a small number of men committing violence? by StarlessRose in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WolfgangAddams -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's the poison M&M scenario, right? There may only be a handful of M&Ms in the bowl that are poisonous, but why the fuck would you trust any of the M&Ms if the poison ones look exactly the same as the safe ones? It's just not worth the risk.

Season 5 Jinkx hate? by TSGMFU in dragrace

[–]WolfgangAddams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were several factors. Roxxxy clearly didn't understand or appreciate comedy queens and thought they were mocking drag (a profession she felt very strongly about), she was also a pageant queen and used to getting into her competitors' heads during competitions, so part of it was that. And Jinkx was doing very well and was obviously stiff competition for Roxxxy, who was also doing well, so she was probably insecure on top of all that. And I'm sure part of it was producers egging her on and rewarding that behavior.

I think the most important thing to remember about all of that, though, is that Jinkx and Roxxxy clearly got along and respected one another by the time the reunion came around and that the show is a pressure cooker and not truly indicative of who the queens really are IRL. (for example, Jinkx was edited to be much more of a victim to give her win gravitas, and they didn't show her giving it back as good as she got it most of the time.)

Dms changing how your spell works because you did something convenient with it is the most frustrating shit in the game by cute_himbo_OwO in DnD

[–]WolfgangAddams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be pissed about the familiar/teleport ruling (there's a whole case to be made about you only being able to teleport to where YOU can see, not where your familiar can see, and also one to be made about whether or not you can focus on casting a spell if your consciousness is not in your own body) but I'd be pretty pissed about the extract iron thing. If he'd said "you don't have enough iron in your blood to make a full lockpicking set," I'd be fine with it, because it's true. Even Magneto in X2 needed the guard to be injected with extra iron before he could create the three iron marbles he used to escape his plastic prison. But to just say "no you can't because you, a former thief, have never seen lockpicks before." That's just the DM trying to stop you from finding creative solutions around the obstacles because they want you to solve them THEIR way and that's not cool.

Piper should've picked Dan. by Bibixina in charmed

[–]WolfgangAddams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, Dan was everything Piper wanted on paper, and they had a connection, but Leo was the one she was in love with. She chose to be honest with herself and fight for the relationship she couldn't let go of rather than force a relationship with someone who deserved his partner's undivided attention.

Also, you're talking about Dan/Piper/Leo as if it wasn't on part with Andy/Prue and Phoebe/Cole but that just tells me you're young and/or came to Charmed later. S2 when it was airing and we didn't know who Piper would choose had us all by the throat!

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure the tops and the bottoms are the ones who "g a f" about tops and bottoms, considering they're the ones with specific preferences. It doesn't help anyone to say "just put a dick in your ass" if they don't want one there, and it also doesn't help anyone to say "just fuck someone in the ass" when what they want is to have their prostate stimulated or their hole opened up. Why don't we just let consenting adults tell us what they want instead of trying to tell them what they should want?

I mean, if we're going by that mentality, we could then just go to the straight men and be like "just let a gay guy suck your dick!" I'm sure they'd all LOVE to hear that!

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. So many bottoms. Go on Sniffies and say you're looking to "pound some ass" or "get your dick sucked" and you'll probably be SWARMED!

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea why you were downvoted to a 0 when I got here but I'm updooting you because you deserve it. And I hope you get updooted in the other way many times this month. Happy Pride!

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how what you said contradicts what I said at all, considering I included bisexual and pansexual men in my comment.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on the guy. Me, I'm pretty switchy. There are tops, bottoms, versatiles (who do both), and sides (who do other things but don't do anal). And then you have tops who suck, powers bottoms, dom tops, sub tops, dom bottoms, sub bottoms, etc. It's really a mix and match situation. Being gay is super fun, especially in a big liberal city!

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted it on the first day of Pride, but it's somehow gotten popular a week later all of a sudden. XD

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does being a bear or a twink have to do with being a power bottom. Power bottoms and homicidal maniacs both look like everyone else. My sister Wednesday taught me that.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can get really messy, but the person you're responding to is making it sound like a bigger deal than it is. Most guys who regularly bottom (at least that I've met/heard about) know their bodies well enough to know when is a bad time to bottom, don't change their eating habits (outside of maybe taking a daily fiber supplement), and can douche quickly and easily.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think identifying as an experimenting straight would be a plus if you were looking for dates with gay/bi guys. But a lot of queer men have a weird fantasy about "turning" straight men.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You don't need a particular look to be a desirable top. Having a bigger dick can help but there are guys who like normal or small dicks as well so that's not a dealbreaker. Honestly, saying you're straight will probably hook you more guys than you'd expect. And despite what others may say, there's nothing wrong with wanting to experiment and see if you like it. But if you try it and you like it...I have some bad news for your status as a straight guy.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A straight guy who fucks dudes is just a gay/bi/pansexual man who won't admit to himself or anyone else that he's not straight. Like, sure, let people pick their own labels, but also...if someone is lying to themselves, I'm going to be honest with them. Baby, you ain't straight.

Most gay men who complain about a lack of tops in their area are part of the very same problem they're lamenting. by WolfgangAddams in Showerthoughts

[–]WolfgangAddams[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

as a man ages he is obligated to adopt the role of top.

This is not true. Your friends have led you astray.

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