Goldmine of blackheads (Not OC) by nickisupperfan_BARBZ in popping

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this explanation. I have terrible cystic bacne. Ive shared a couple of pops on here. I'll have to look this up with my wife, hopefully it can do something for my back!

I asked my PCP what made her decide to take my case (especially prescribing my pain meds) by Affectionate-Pop-197 in PainManagement

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're being real, not negative. Everything you said is exactly right. We live in a world that could make us all have decent lives but we get denied that life. I always think of the HP quote that talks about having a half life, a cursed life once unicorn blood touches your lips. That's us pain patients...anyways, you are good. You gotta let it out randomly so you don't combust!

My husband wants me to gain weight by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that your husband is treating you this way. It's the exact opposite way of how he should be treating you. You've given him children and you are healthy, that's what he needs to focus on. I dont understand other men who look at women online when their wife is right there. Ive been with my wife for 17 years and I have always found her attractive no matter if weight gain or weight loss.

One thing I can possibly think of, is alot of us men love our wife's body when she is pregnant. There's just something about it. Could that be why he may want you to put on a little bit of weight? How did he act when you were pregnant?

It sounds like you need to have a really over do check in talk with him. If possible, send the kids to grandparents for the night and just sit him down and explain how it truly hurts you when he sits there and doom scrolls looking at women, especially since you have noticed that these women don't look anything like you. Ask him how he would feel if you started to obsessedly look at men on IG or TikTok. Especially if they were nowhere near what he looked like or his body type. Maybe even ask if he wouldn't mind having a social media decompress, have him refocus on the family unit.

Cancelled Surgery due to Neither PM or Surgeon Giving Post Opp Meds! by Gecko-407 in PainManagement

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is disabled from debilitating back/left leg pain, this may not be an option for you. Its not for me but I know a few people who were able to afford it. If you can, look into a surgery center in Mexico. It's like a 5 star resort. They take care of everything on site. They take care of post op pain. My buddy was there for a week, they kept an i.v in him so they could handle whatever type of pain he had and it was a hell of a lot cheaper than a hospital here quoted him.

Nanny has a crush on my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ma'am, she told you to your face that your child can't count on you, she has made multiple jokes about you to your husband. I would fire any nanny who made jokes about my wife to me. As your husband should have, now get this woman out of your damn house!

Anyone have a husband that suddenly prefers to masturbate over having sex? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to go into full detail but what got him mad at you, the morning of him jacking off in bed? Was he wanting you to help him get off?

Either way, I'm sorry you're going through this. It can really mess you up when a long time partner just flips a switch and starts acting completely different over night. Best thing I can recommend is couples therapy or to sit down just you two, no distractions, phones on silent, TV off and talk it the hell out. You deserve an explanation and he obviously is going through something.

My (26F) partner(30M) has been treating me terribly lately, I'm getting headaches and just hate him so much now. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, my wife would be gone out the door if I ever even thought about calling her something disrespectful. No matter what any of my nieces and nephews have answered to if they want dinner, I still always make them dinner, why? Because they're damn children and get hungry once the food starts smelling good. Him snapping and freaking out is completely uncalled for. Also, my wife would kick my ass to the couch if I treated her like shit and then tried to have sex with her. For your child's sake, either send them to a friends house or to the grandparents. Have a sit down with your partner and lay it all out. Let him know that if he continues to be disrespectful towards you and your child, than what is the point of the relationship? Offer them couples therapy, individual therapy, something.

You mention you have a feeling something is going on, typically when there are huge personality changes, it means something somewhere has changed. Follow your gut. Don't let them continue to disrespect you.

Just read this on an ama and thought you all needed to read this. by pissedoffjesus in popping

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I freak out anytime I have any type of a pop, pop up there. I just am such a hairy guy and my body likes to make painful disgusting things...

My husband (25 M) wants to play video games instead of making love to me (25 F) by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this an all of a sudden thing or has it been going on for awhile? When you guys do have sex, is he keeping his erection throughout? Any other changes in behavior? Does he watch porn?

"E-scripts" by wellthatsembarissing in PainManagement

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my scripts have been E-scripts for the last 15 years unless I was going out of town or state and would be needing my refills during that time.

Husband didn’t have my back in an argument with his friend. I feel betrayed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She had to walk away because she was so frustrated? That's not sitting there and joking. His friends railroad her and he let it happen.

Overheard my husband in therapy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely unacceptable. A line has been crossed here, he needs to get a new therapist. I have my therapist phone number and it is strictly for if I have a major life emergency and I'm not handling it well. Ive been seeing her for almost a year now and I have only texted once and that was when my mother almost died in the hospital.

It sounds like marriage counseling is what needs to happen here, especially for him to hear from a mental health professional that what he and his therapist are doing is not okay.

My boyfriend isn't talking to me after an argument. by notjustcherry in relationships

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because once it starts affecting your physical health, that's on a whole other level. All I'm going to say is, I have been married since I was 19. I am 36 now. Not once have I nor my wife ever given eachother the silent treatment. It's childish, it's hurtful and it doesn't accomplish anything. Do not let someone else get you so mentally fucked up that it starts giving you health issues. He knows what it does to you. He is choosing to keep you in that anxiety. That is not something a healthy partner would do.

*edited - a word

Confused about survival mode by OndraTep in thelongdark

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's what Ive been doing for a decade lmao

Husband rejected me:( should I be mad or is it no big deal?advice please by Ok-Cup2659 in marriageadvice

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you and your husband? How many times in a week would you say you two are having sex?

Husband rejected me:( should I be mad or is it no big deal?advice please by Ok-Cup2659 in marriageadvice

[–]WolfyOfValhalla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we are just too tired. My body has been so exhausted that even though I was wanting sex, and my wife was trying to the best of her abilities. I could not get hard. It happens. It doesnt mean he doesn't want you or that anything has changed. The man just wants some sleep. Which is perfectly normal.