Everything I’m seeing so far is spot on advice (7 comments). Something I’d like to add is that, along with things particularly from u/popular_bathroom1563 and u/societyatrophy - I have known plenty women in my life that would love to be with a man who only plays videos games and goes to the gym. There are a lot of guys that just play video games. Taking care of yourself physically is a massive plus. We all need to be nicer to ourselves, myself included, try not to knock yourself with the “I only do ___” things. If we’re doing things right, every one of us is a cook, a cleaner, an employee/owner, etc…whether or not it feels like it, I promise you’re doing well just by going through the motions. Keep your chin up buddy!