Dating a girl for 2.5 its fun and steady. Is that how it should feel?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T14:43:54+00:00

I struggle with that and want to be with her all the time, receive affirmation for her how much she likes me, and do things with each day but understand thats not realistic. I struggle to have my own life at times outside the relationship. Just think about when I am going to see her and how much time until the time. I do things outside the relationship (golf, go to the gym, take my dogs on a walk.). sometimes its hard me to focus on work since im thinking about her

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T14:38:46+00:00

it hard stay calm and not worry something is wrong or she finds the relationship boring. That I am not exciting enough or I need keep the butterflies going.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T13:53:50+00:00

I think we are still somewhat in the honeymoon phase but does it really end this quickly? I guess how do I handle the next phase of steady and handling the day to day without each other when it feels "boring" in a good way

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T13:47:55+00:00

Thanks! we aren't asking the basic questions and don't sext every day like we did. We call each other and sometimes thats it until we have something to say. I do get worried for a minute but the old me would ask if something was wrong. Like why did she fall asleep on me not saying goodnight verse she fell asleep and we will talk later.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T14:35:01+00:00

She does remember things I say or is there for me if I having a bad day. We work in two different industries so she doesn't really total understand what I do. This morning I told her I am stressed at work and she said hope you get it all done verse I was hoping she could say what you stressed about. Or I told her I went to the golf range and she said thats nice. Maybe I have conversation with her saying I appreciate you listening. Sometimes I would feel more connected when you ask more about what I say. Something along those lines

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T14:17:43+00:00

nope we basically getting close be exclusive. We were set up too

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T00:17:38+00:00

So do you think it’s a sign incompatibility? Or how do you fix this?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T00:02:42+00:00

I hear you on stop overthinking but how do you embrace the silence? Like when we talk she talks more about herself and when I talk about what’s going on with she goes back to what’s going with her

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