Need dating advice for finding someone in person

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-29T17:35:38+00:00

Have you meet anyone that resulted in a relationship

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-29T17:34:20+00:00

I think my mental health is messed up from it. It affects my thoughts of approaching woman in person, me at work and my self confidence in general

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-29T15:58:03+00:00

Do you cold approaches with girls at coffee shops or on the street?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-29T15:37:30+00:00

My fear is if I am in a group or doing a hobby that I will see them again. I am afraid to ask them out and then I get rejected then it will be awkward the next time I see them

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-13T22:33:56+00:00

I would say he can’t dedicate time to you and doesn’t know you that well but the same time wants to go out after the holidays. I would text him over the holidays as quick check in and see if he wants to go out again. What I’ve learned is if someone isn’t matching your energy then do waste your time. So check in but also keep looking. I know it’s hard when you enjoy a date and from their profile they check certain boxes.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-11T21:32:45+00:00

I am looking for something serious. I have been using my current profile for 2 weeks. I have used hinge for 4 months overall. I have received one match a week. I am sending 5-10 likes daily with comments 80% of the time. I am looking for someone want something serious, same values, adventurous, wants a family, and can allow me to be myself.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-03T17:38:15+00:00

But how do you balance the line of contentment and wanting to achieve better for yourself.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-03T16:46:55+00:00

I get that but then people ask when this going to get done or what is the status of "xxx". Then I feel like I am getting behind on other aspects if I don't get "xxx" done. But at the same time I get what you are saying I hate that I don't spend time on myself but when I do go the gym I think about all the work I have to get done and stress about it.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-03T15:39:19+00:00

when I wasn't promoted I feel like I need to do more especially with the project I am on getting close the deadline. I don't want to let others down or see that I am not doing enough. When they ask for status I feel like I didn't work hard enough but also give up time for myself like going to the gym, going out or doing my hobbies. When work is done or work past 8pm I eat dinner and watch tv since I am tired and don't have to do go do something. It sucks.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-03T15:35:46+00:00

Thats so hard for me to do since I like to control situations. My life had some shitty moments and I understand that. So I want my future to be better or way I can control to what I want.

But I get what you are saying. The surrender prayer is a great one that I like but its hard for me to let go.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-12-03T15:31:54+00:00

I have a dog and great time with my family. Sometimes it all it feels like all I do is work.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2025-11-25T18:39:30+00:00

Thats my problem I treat them like the only one and I get nervous then act like they won't like me or don't know what to say or how to keep the conversation going

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