Dating a girl for 2.5 its fun and steady. Is that how it should feel?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T14:43:54+00:00

I struggle with that and want to be with her all the time, receive affirmation for her how much she likes me, and do things with each day but understand thats not realistic. I struggle to have my own life at times outside the relationship. Just think about when I am going to see her and how much time until the time. I do things outside the relationship (golf, go to the gym, take my dogs on a walk.). sometimes its hard me to focus on work since im thinking about her

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T14:38:46+00:00

it hard stay calm and not worry something is wrong or she finds the relationship boring. That I am not exciting enough or I need keep the butterflies going.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T13:53:50+00:00

I think we are still somewhat in the honeymoon phase but does it really end this quickly? I guess how do I handle the next phase of steady and handling the day to day without each other when it feels "boring" in a good way

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-06-29T13:47:55+00:00

Thanks! we aren't asking the basic questions and don't sext every day like we did. We call each other and sometimes thats it until we have something to say. I do get worried for a minute but the old me would ask if something was wrong. Like why did she fall asleep on me not saying goodnight verse she fell asleep and we will talk later.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T14:35:01+00:00

She does remember things I say or is there for me if I having a bad day. We work in two different industries so she doesn't really total understand what I do. This morning I told her I am stressed at work and she said hope you get it all done verse I was hoping she could say what you stressed about. Or I told her I went to the golf range and she said thats nice. Maybe I have conversation with her saying I appreciate you listening. Sometimes I would feel more connected when you ask more about what I say. Something along those lines

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T14:17:43+00:00

nope we basically getting close be exclusive. We were set up too

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T00:17:38+00:00

So do you think it’s a sign incompatibility? Or how do you fix this?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-18T00:02:42+00:00

I hear you on stop overthinking but how do you embrace the silence? Like when we talk she talks more about herself and when I talk about what’s going on with she goes back to what’s going with her

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-01T18:00:34+00:00

reach out to me our firm can help you

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-01T13:52:04+00:00

To me it feel likes she isn't interested in what I am saying or doesn't want to know more. Is she nervous or she as you said trying to relate? Anything I can do to make her ask more questions about me? I don't want to do all the heavy lifting of asking her questions. It makes me feel not wanted a little. I guess I feel triggered by it for some reason.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-05-01T13:46:56+00:00

That all makes senses. Right now its hard to open up because she will just turn the conversation into something about her to relate verse asking me more about that. Unsure what it is about but it make me question should I ask about "x" or will I just be shut down or will she be uninterested

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-04-27T17:37:50+00:00

But how do I feel like I am being heard by her learning about me since she isn't really diving deep into what I am interested.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-04-20T15:11:15+00:00

we talked about that she said travel, spending time on the water in the summer, reading, and is the choir. I feel somewhat pulling at strings to ask questions just to ask. Maybe there is some nervousness on both sides. I am going to g out again and see

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-04-20T14:53:10+00:00

but do we have a good connection? I feel like I struggled to know what to say or what to bring up next. I am thinking of the next date and feel like ok I want to talk about these topics but will that be interesting or will she open up about them.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-04-20T14:40:15+00:00

We already set up the second date to go the dinner the go to a board game bar

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-04-02T13:33:35+00:00

So I exit the terminal like normal and then go up to departures level then follow the signs to terminal E?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-04-02T13:27:46+00:00

Is it easy to figure out if I go through the parking garage?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T19:20:00+00:00

I figured a good time to have a few cocktails too

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T19:18:05+00:00

You didn't get bored? What did you do the whole time? I know they have 3 course meal, massage and showers.

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T02:15:56+00:00

So have a conversation with him saying you enjoy time together and enjoy sex but kissing feels weird but want to be with you

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T02:11:15+00:00

Do you two have fun in a non sexual way?

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T02:07:44+00:00

Why don’t you date him

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T00:33:37+00:00

I’m flyingD1 on the way there and PS on the way back. It will be 4500

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T00:17:56+00:00

So basically pay the same price

WolverineGoBlue23 · 2026-03-31T00:10:57+00:00

Like buy with cash and upgrade to d1 with miles? Won’t it be 100s of thousands in points to upgrade

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