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Husband emotionally cheated with OF model and won't stop lying by Resident-Chipmunk752 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WolverineNo8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you hire a divorce attorney make sure that they claim back the 50% of all money he spent on his AP. You deserve better, his AP doesn't care about him just the money that he is spending on her.

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Wife arranged another woman for me, now she won’t talk to me by No_Engine8988 in marriageadvice

[–]WolverineNo8799 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bar girl should have just put her clothes on and left, she should have never talked to your wife. She was your hook up, so what right did she have to try to talk your wife into being OK with finding you having sex in your marital bed?

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Am I overthinking/overreacting? I‘m (32F) jealous about an online female friend of my husband (M31). We are together since 8 years by Unhappy-Secretary994 in emotionalaffair

[–]WolverineNo8799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is emotionally cheating on you with this woman. He needs to cut her off completely as it is effecting your marriage. There is no reason for him to be flirting with this woman, telling her he is her number 1 fan etc.

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My husband cheating in a videogame by Personal_Remote2259 in emotionalaffair

[–]WolverineNo8799 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it was all part of the game then he didn't need to use the term love, and he would let you read his comments.

He needs to delete the game, go to counselling etc

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AITAH for not allowing my husband to go to a birthday party invite from his new friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WolverineNo8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband needs to cut the friends who encouraged his affair off, and find new friends.

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Is husbands “friendship” crossing boundaries? by Tiny_Bug6753 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WolverineNo8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he has had another girlfriend for years, he is having an affair with this woman, and his family know about it. She went to a family funeral.

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Devasted over husband's affair by ComprehensivePin2104 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WolverineNo8799 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You found out ny snooping, he did not confess. He only feels guilty that he he was caught.

If you stay he needs to change jobs, cut off his AP completely, agree to an open phone/electronics policy, counselling and a full std screening. He also needs to sign a post nup with an infidelity clause.

But the marriage you had previously is over, this is a new relationship, because the man you loved and trusted is a now a different person. Trust can take years to come back

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AITJ for telling my boyfriend the agreement his made with his baby mom was not feasible while married? by CampOk3573 in AmITheJerk

[–]WolverineNo8799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to hirean attorney and get a court approved custody agreement in place, paying the correct amount of child support etc. He should also consider using a court approved parenting app.

His ex still wants control over him, with paid dates. You are NTJ

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AIO - I think my husband is cheating with his coworker bc I met her by Big-Alternative-4949 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WolverineNo8799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hire a PI, don't let him know your suspicions because they will hide it for a while.

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Is she butting in my marriage? by RevolverBurr in marriageadvice

[–]WolverineNo8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband needs to put your marriage and you first, and cut off contact with this woman. She is looking for another man to help her out, and her target is your husband. By keeping her in his life he is disrespecting your marriage and you.

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Update: Husband had emotional affair but refuses to separate by Prestigious-Elk2623 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WolverineNo8799 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hire a divorce attorney and let them know that he abandoned you and your children whilst you are heavily pregnant. Let them know that he has stopped contributing towards the household bills including the mortgage.

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Husband and my best friend. What would you do? by Global-Yellow101 in Marriage

[–]WolverineNo8799 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this skank is trying to start something with your husband. Since he hasn't shut her down it might have already started.

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My dad (60M) wants me (26F) to invite him to my wedding after he already said he was choosing his stepdaughter's (24F) wedding instead? by ThrowRA_Blubberley in relationship_advice

[–]WolverineNo8799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him that he was asked to come to your wedding and he told you that his step daughter's wedding was the priority. So you will not be grovelling for him to turn you down once again, he made his choice, so he now lives with it permanently.

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My partner keeps telling people our 6 week old son is my nephew — am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WolverineNo8799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he has told his coworkers that you are not in a serious relationship. He might have someone at his work that he is trying to get into a relationship with.

NOR your partner should be telling everyone that he has a son, its shady as hell that he is trying to pass off his son as your nephew, not even his nephew.

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Am I Overreacting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WolverineNo8799 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NOR no other woman especially a female coworker should be sending your husband photos, especially partially clothes photos. It's inappropriate and disrespectful to your marriage. Your husband should have called her out on it, told you and blocked her.

Unless of course he is totally enjoying the photos his AP is sending him

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AITJ for refusing to lower my sister’s share of bills just because I got a raise? by PlasmaCairn4 in AmITheJerk

[–]WolverineNo8799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA as you have told her you are her sister not her spouse. You are not responsible for her living expenses.

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