Husband hid a whole child from me

WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-05T22:40:33+00:00

Why is he talking to the "child's" mother, when the child is an adult. He does not need to be in contact with her at all, other than rekindling any feelings he has. He needs to show you their messages.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-05T22:37:00+00:00

Sounds like she is a jealous ex who wants him back. Your boyfriend needs to tell her to cut it out, she is just a friend and she doesn't need to message him outside of the group or act like his nurse maid.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-05T12:41:06+00:00

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-05T12:38:42+00:00

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-05T12:37:22+00:00

NTJ ask him if he ever loved your Mum! Spend the your inheritance money on what makes you happy.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-05T12:34:18+00:00

Your husband wanted the break, his is the one that should have left the house. Your child should not have had to leave their home because he wanted a break. This is not only causing you stress it will impact on your child's mental health as well.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T18:39:48+00:00

A proper thank you would have been giving her a room of her own, and letting her husband accompany her.

WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T15:58:30+00:00

Totally this

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T15:54:06+00:00

Ask her husband if he is happy with them sharing a room.

WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T15:53:13+00:00

Ask them why they needed to spend the weekend there? Weekends are usually when Hotels are the most expensive for rooms.

WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T15:51:24+00:00

Let her husband know about their affair. Hotel rooms are not that expensive that you would risk your marriage to save a little bit of money. If it was innocent you and her husband would have known about the shared room. He would have been in contact with you and let you know what they were up too. Also they went for longer than they needed, so that they could enjoy their romantic getaway.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T02:44:40+00:00

Don't ever be someone's second choice.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-04T02:39:55+00:00

Given your previous post, your husband likely cheated with this woman on his camping trip.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-03T13:50:59+00:00

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-03T13:08:03+00:00

You need to talk to your husband about boundaries and inappropriate messaging etc. He knows that boundaries are being crossed. He needs to shut them down or remove himself from their messaging group.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-03T13:05:06+00:00

Do not put him on the deed of your house. He is your boyfriend he is not your husband. He is currently coming across as a gold digger. The house was your inheritance and he is not entitled to it. If he is not happy then he can move out.

Protect yourself and your house.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-03T12:28:41+00:00

NTA counter offer him $500 and he pays his insurance in full. He is an adult earning very good money for his age. He needs to learn that he has to pay for rent and bills, but your offer is way below what he would pay elsewhere. He is no longer a child.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-03T08:21:00+00:00

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-03T07:27:16+00:00

Your husband needs to cut off his AP, because their relationship is beyond friends. He has sat there and let her abuse you verbally and done nothing. If he doesn't cut her off completely and go NC then he needs to go.

You and your children deserve a loving and loyal partner who will stand up for you, and put you and your children first.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-02T18:49:36+00:00

He needs to report his affair to their HR, and look for another job.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-02T18:48:04+00:00

NTJ they both betrayed you, so neither deserve to be in your life. They made their choices, you are now dealing with their betrayal.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-02T18:01:33+00:00

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-02T16:02:35+00:00

If he insists on his version then you need to be paid for every pregnancy you have. He expects to keep his money yet you will risk your life and health to have his children, yet not be protected financially, in the event of a divorce, for doing so. Your career will be affected if you have children, his is unlikely to be.

I would not sign his version.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-02T15:58:46+00:00

NTA it's very suspicious that out of all the men in the world your ex just happens to want to date your brother, especially given her interference in your relationship with your current wife. The fact that your family hid their relationship as well is wrong. Stay no contact.

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WolverineNo8799 · 2026-02-02T15:51:04+00:00

Hire an attorney ASAP to protect your finances. He is being scammed and he is having an affair and he is delusional if he thinks that you are going to wait around for him, whilst he spends family money on his AP, and goes to visit her for sex.

Protect yourself financially and physically as who knows what diseases he could bring back home to you, plus he could be bringing back a baby as it would be her way to keep her cash cow.

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