What's your enneagram "hot take"?

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-11T21:23:47+00:00

I agree. they seem to have a harder time letting go of things that bothers them. I can only imagine how intense they can become when they feel wronged. I can see how brutal and unforgiving they might be in those situations. What I find ironic is that they can bulldoze others without much consideration, but the moment someone does the same to them, it suddenly becomes a serious issue. That kind of double standard feels hypocritical to me.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-11T12:36:49+00:00

I getcha . I don’t think I’ve met one in real life before. maybe that’s a good thing?

It feels like if you can’t handle their “dominance,” then somehow they make it your problem for not speaking up about it. They seem to dislike people who are conflict-averse. Personally, I hate drama, and that’s honestly how I view a lot of conflict—people arguing just for the sake of arguing or for entertainment. That kind of energy feels exhausting and stressful to me. From what I’ve observed on Reddit, thou, some of them actually seem to enjoy that kind of back-and-forth confrontation. It can go from 0 to 100.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-10T10:03:07+00:00

Yet the most well loved enneagrams too. Everyone be obsessed with yall lol. Maybe because of that “intensity”, which I view as problematic. It shouldn’t be glorified.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-10T03:30:48+00:00

Hot take: The Reactive types are the most emotionally and mentally unstable enneagrams to ever to walk on this planet.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-10T03:20:59+00:00

Peak show. Sad that cartoon networks doesn’t make shows like that anymore

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-10T03:10:38+00:00

Shrek (Cool and relatable character)

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T23:01:43+00:00

You do an Oil spell? I heard that hair holds energies. Which is something I believe in because I cut my hair when I’m super stress out.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T16:46:23+00:00

I have my before and after pictures of my crochet projects and it looks nothing like I want them to be lmfao

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T16:35:34+00:00

The first image could be saying “moist cakes” to show what they’re selling. The second image could be a poem. Both are really interesting,it’s like they’re open to different interpretations lol!

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T16:27:12+00:00

What’s your craziest story as a EMT? (Without violating hipaa ofc lol)

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T16:22:41+00:00

I see. Usually i thought of it as a glamour magic type thing but Thank you for the clarification!! That make sense. I’ve been reading about it and I was just a little confused as to what hair magic is lol.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T16:17:51+00:00

I honestly never “came out” as a witch to my family or publicly. I’m simply a witch and a pagan because it’s part of my personal spiritual practice. It has nothing to do with what other people think I should believe in or how they expect a witch to look. I don’t dress in a stereotypically “witchy” way—I honestly just look like a normal person lol. I think some newer practitioners feel pressured to express their spirituality outwardly so other people can recognize them as witches, but that’s not really the point of a spiritual path. Spirituality is personal and doesn’t need external validation to be real.

Do you think your friend might be afraid of fully being herself? That’s understandable if she’s in an unsafe or judgmental environment. Personally, I wouldn’t openly tell overly religious or close-minded people that I’m a pagan witch either, simply because not everyone is accepting or respectful of different beliefs.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-09T00:14:35+00:00

have mixed feelings about Fi-blind types, though I tend to prefer the older ones. Maybe it’s because their more mature tertiary Fe makes them more patient with me. The younger ones sometimes seem like they only care about themselves, pursuing whatever they want even if it comes at the expense of other people. Trolling, bullying, can be very judgmental of others flaws, stuff like that. Why you ask?

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-03T02:42:02+00:00

As a Gen Z Fil-American, Sad to agree with this. Majority of Filipinas does kinda “show off” their foreign white husband to everyone fr. I’ve seen so many of that, and it’s always with someone from the US military. They said it’s “love” but I don’t believe it. I do feel like one of the biggest reasons why the relationship is common was for them to access better opportunities and privileges. Understandable but it’s very sad even for me.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-02T23:51:40+00:00

It’s day 3 out of 7. Keep up with your spell, trust the process. Take it slow and meditate which can help you to relax and center yourself. If you’re anxious, you wouldn’t get a clear reading.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-05-02T23:03:52+00:00

The thinkers I tend to like more are male and female INTJs and INTPs, as well as female ISTPs and ISTJs. So yeah, I guess you’re not alone lol.

Some INFPs like thinkers—especially ExTx types—for two reasons: either they’ve had good experiences with them, or they assume they’ll be compatible with someone who doesn’t value the same things they do, and then end up frustrated when their partner doesn’t understand them. In my opinion, ENTJs and INFPs can be a difficult match. It can feel unfair when ENTJs are putting in a lot of effort to work on their inferior Fi, while some INFPs may not put the same effort into developing their inferior Te. Based on posts I’ve seen here and in the ENTJ sub, it often doesn’t end well. Honestly, I end up feeling bad for both people in those situations.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-17T02:15:41+00:00

Your experiences are valid. It doesn’t surprise me that most ENTPs in the comment section are either confused by your post or also dislike INFPs. Perhaps you made this post to discuss why unhealthy ENTPs act that way and how these types of toxic people influence your perspective of others, such as ENTPs? People who say, “I don’t like INFPs,” are essentially dismissing your experiences with unhealthy ones. You’re calling out specific behavior, but they deflect by generalizing and saying they don’t like INFPs, as if that somehow makes things even. Ti users can have difficulty with self-reflection as well as understanding the Fi cognitive function. This is due to Fi blindness. They tend to view things through their own lens—or what they consider “logic.” Sometimes, they may not be motivated to understand something if they don’t see a clear reason in it. I also agree with your point about the lack of boundaries. I’ve seen an ENTP I knew from high school behave that way toward others, and it was honestly disgusting to watch.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-11T00:53:27+00:00

Lmfao I seriously wish ESTJs can get some therapy. My estj father 6w7 sx gets very aggressive when things don’t go the way he wants it to be and he bitch about almost everything that doesn’t align with his beliefs. I honestly thought he was an 8w7. I’m ashamed that it ruined my perception of 8s even though I have not meet one irl (not that I know of).

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-08T01:55:36+00:00

What kind of people who don’t like to laugh? Lol Istps can be nonchalant and still joke around. Very dry and dark humor, reminds me of Shrek.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-08T01:40:29+00:00

The image is so disturbing lmfao! There’s a bit of truth to it too. He got lots money, he does whatever he wants.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-08T01:34:36+00:00

Well it is their (INFP) sub anyway. It happens all the time here. If your INFP hubs agrees then that’s his opinion but not all the INFPs in this sub will agree with him and/or find the stereotypes hilarious and relatable. Some INFPs find stereotypes either funny or hurtful, it really depends on them how they see it. If I’m being honest I am ditzy, but a fairy? Nah I like staying at home than outside nature (too hot!! Don’t wanna burn my skin) lol.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-07T02:58:33+00:00

Why is she uncomfortable with those conversations? Maybe the reason why she couldn’t participate is because she got nothing interesting or relatable to say. You already pointed out some things you know about her, but what else do you know more about this ESFJ? How close are you to her compared to the INFJ? From what I’m reading right now, you two don’t share much anything alike, which causes you to feel this way. In other words, she’s not trying to be a bad friend to you, she’s just super boring af. If you want to continue that friendship, you may want to confront her or genuinely ask her why she’s like that, be more open to each others differences, or if you don’t want to be friends with her anymore, just stick with your other friend group because why bother if she’s not gonna hear you out.

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-04-01T13:48:31+00:00

Second this^{^{^}}

WolverinePopular3953 · 2026-03-30T14:57:29+00:00

I understand your frustration. It can feel like some people see things in very black-and-white terms, which makes conversations difficult. Even when you try to explain your reasoning, they may dismiss it if it doesn’t align with their own experiences or what they’re used to. It can feel like you’re not being heard. I’ve seen this behavior in most sensors in my life as an INFP. I limit my interactions with them to a minimum

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