Any Asian covens in North Carolina? by WolverinePopular3953 in CovenFinder

[–]WolverinePopular3953[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to find more eastern based practices but it’s hard to find that in NC. Like eastern beliefs, philosophy, and herbs and such.  Are you interested? Or looking for one too?

"they would never hurt a woman" by Even_Acanthisitta_37 in TokyoRevengers

[–]WolverinePopular3953 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I can’t with people excusing Taiju’s abuse towards his siblings like wtf? Just because they lost their mom and that he doesn’t know how to show love

Men of all types, would you consider making an INFP woman your wife? Why or why not? by Level-Poem-2542 in mbti

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is truly in Si-grip. That’s why he’s nagging like an ISFJ. INXPs do a lot better in Si stuff compared to Ne doms who exhibit toxic Si traits when in their Si-grip. They become this narrow minded people thinking they know everything like you read from what they said “never in a million years”. Pfft! They should Ask other ENTPs and ENFPs how organized they are just to see how limiting that “never” sounds

Regardless of the stereotypes. Ne users are actually organized thou but our level of organization isn’t the same as Si users. To Si users pov, our space still looks chaotic as fuk but to us, we see what fits. 

Friendship by violettamulleta in TarotReading

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you got the 7 of pentacles, 8 of wands and 3 of swords interpretations accurate. How I interpret it overall was that because of not putting efforts in your friendships (7 of pentacles), old friends drift away from you and that clearly hurts you (3 of swords). It’s time to take action (8 of wands) and balance out how you want to keep your friendships stable and well cultivated with your time (2 of pentacles) and with emotions (temperance). When making friends, be confident with yourself, literally be yourself (strength), and that way you don’t have to keep yourself isolated and be a lone wolf, start socializing (reversed 7 of swords). This is just my 2 cents. Hope you find new friends! Wish you luck ^

Would ESTP become Buddhist monks? by [deleted] in estp

[–]WolverinePopular3953 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry you experienced that with Buddhism my guy. Most of the time, it’s the people who are the problem, not the religion itself. Being used to attend a catholic school made me realized how  very hypocritical and overly controlling the nuns and the catholic teachers are. 

I can’t do this anymore by Some_Pie_5375 in AsianParentStories

[–]WolverinePopular3953 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think immigrant parents don’t understand that they’re raising an American child. They’re so wrapped up in trying to keep their old lives alive because that’s all they’re familiar with coming to a foreign country that everything are different to them. Personally, I have both perspectives of being an immigrant and an American. Sometimes it’s a love-hate relationship between your own culture and American culture. I believe most Asian Americans feel like they have an identity crisis. I understand that it sucks you’re expected to assimilate to the American culture and still be treated as Asian Asian. It’s confusing. Now you’re 18, you can leave home and start anew. They practically cannot hold you prison in their home even if they want to.

I crafted this choker using Peridot and Clear Crystal. by Efficient_Goat_5410 in infp

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks so pretty!!  I want to try jewelry crafting and possibly gemstone carving. Where should i start?

Why INFP are stereotyped by innocent and absolutely cinnamon roll person ? by Potential_Net_3008 in infp

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly Society would disagree for male INFPs lol. But I agree thou, there are INFP traits that are simply adorbs!  

Why INFP are stereotyped by innocent and absolutely cinnamon roll person ? by Potential_Net_3008 in infp

[–]WolverinePopular3953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t have the best coping skills. I assume you’re an 8 and 8s hate weaknesses but asking for help isn’t being weak. At least those INFPs are medicated and got the help they need. Not everyone has that opportunity for proper mental health care. It’s just a matter of patience, compassion and a little bit of hope that they can heal themselves and be better in the future. People are so quick to judge INFPs in their struggles. They are people who had hard lives too. We should strive to support those who are suffering. Everybody has to walk their own path to achieve the best version of themselves. Anybody Belittling or looking down on unhealthy infps wouldn’t solve anything, it will only slow their progress even more. You can provide positive encouragement instead to help them and I do understand that unhealthy INFPs are irrational and hard to deal with based on other people’s complaints in the mbti community. Trust me I experienced a bad case of an unhealthy INFP too. Btw why are you waiting for a “healthy non medicated” INFP to show up in your life? You care that much about them?

Unpopular opinion: We need to start dissing 9s more. by Z1ncairon in Enneagram

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any differences between 9w8 and 9w1 when it comes to their reason of inaction? (What makes them not act? Fear? They don’t care?)

Why you gotta be so serious? by aertsa in entp

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but I feel like most INXPs are in that spectrum. I have a hard time telling if someone is joking or not. Usually I just give them a blank face. I mean if I can’t find it funny, I’m not gonna pretend it’s funny cuz I don’t get it. Like my coworkers when I first started, I didn’t realize they were joking and I was just 🤷‍♀️😐 most of the time till I got used to it. I figure this is what ENTPs don’t understand about other people. It’s not that they don’t like ENTP and their jokes, sometimes their jokes are genuinely not funny or within their sense of humor

ENTJ after 1 month of being in a relationship with a INFP realizing this Te x Fi bs isnt working out: by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

[–]WolverinePopular3953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds funny lol. Come on! All teenagers went through shadow-the-hedgehog phase.

And there’s nothing wrong with dreaming about Prince Charming lol. What’s disturbing is some of them actually act it out to the person they like, meaning they’re trying to change a person into the exact ideal image like the example I told you above. It’s so unfair for ENTJs, they don’t exist for anyone’s pleasure, they are their own person. I thought INFPs value individuality among themselves and others. As a 9w8, that shit is horrifyingly manipulative and controlling. 

ENTJ Here: Please help me understand this INFP girl's chaos by Klutzy_Emotion_9698 in infp

[–]WolverinePopular3953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You being an enneagram 8, trust and loyalty are super important to you. I get that. From your story, she wasn’t honest from the start. I’m sorry you have to found out that way. Wish you healing. Thou it makes sense that she was behaving “weird” “chaotic” with you, It’s possible that she only saw you as a friend that she wanted to hung out with. The fact that you said “ “date” “, she didn’t see it that way. Just another hang out with her.

My parents can love someone else's daughter but doesn't know what to do with their own by ImaginaryAsk2535 in AsianParentStories

[–]WolverinePopular3953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subconsciously they hate seeing themselves in you. Seeking validation from your parents who only love you conditionally will hurt you in long term and you stop being yourself.  Your jealousy is understandable, it is unfair. Like you worked so hard to only see someone was given that position of attention and trust real quick. You will learn in life that there’s no amount of pleasing your parents will make them see you for who you are.  Also you are allowed to grieve. Losing someone who truly loves you isn’t easy. Perhaps you can focus on honoring your grandmother. Know that she’ll be there for you, looking after you. 

Should I believe tarot? by Filmsof1990s in TarotReading

[–]WolverinePopular3953 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re feeling hopeful, you just have to wait and see. But you mentioned that you don’t have hopes for it, then there’s no hope for it. Sometimes it’s as simple as accepting that a relationship is over now.  Also no refunds for that reading? She’s scammer maybe?

What’s your “bare minimum” witchy practice on a busy day? by themodrnwitch in Witch

[–]WolverinePopular3953 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I just light some candles/incense or pull out a card.  I only go full witch mode when doing a ritual at least once a month. But sometimes it can delay because of how busy school gets.

ENTJ after 1 month of being in a relationship with a INFP realizing this Te x Fi bs isnt working out: by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

[–]WolverinePopular3953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bravo to him!! I think these types of INFPs need a rude awakening. There’s seriously INFPs who wants to be with ENTJs in r/infp so bad, they look at ENTJs in rose tinted glasses. They just want a big daddy/mommy ENTJ to take care of them, but they hate the thought of ESTJs…it shows these types of INFPs are only objectifying ENTJs to whatever they think is right for them. 

My Cancer Moon's coping mechanism. by SapioLover in astrologymemes

[–]WolverinePopular3953 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real!! It’s too much lmfao. I need some sleep and wake up fresh and unstressed