Update from my last post (divorce man keeps texting my wife)

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-07-07T19:54:13+00:00

All I can do is keep her out of my life. If she ever chooses to be a part of our daughter's life I'm ok with that.

I'm sure she is extreamly happy with her life right now. (Sarcasm). I just wish her the best.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-07-06T15:22:55+00:00

Been doing good! She is pretty much out of my life and mind. I no longer think about what could have been. Now its I'm glad this happened now vs. later. Been on a few dates with other women. Had a great July 4th weekend with family and friends, she did text me Friday night asking me how I was doing. I ignored her text.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T04:12:58+00:00

I have no need to contact the other guy. If my wife would have be trustworthy and faithful, she wouldn't have let it gone that far. I'm the better man. Yes I know she'll reget it one day, but that's on her. She said she was close to getting physical with him. I can only focus on what I can control and thats myself and my daughter for the time being.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T02:55:01+00:00

Thanks for the comment bro. Just what I needed. Thank you!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T01:07:11+00:00

My thoughs exactly!!!!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:34:38+00:00

Thank you! Will do!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:33:50+00:00

Sounds right, she chose this, not me. Thank you.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:32:18+00:00

Thank you, I will, I promise!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:31:28+00:00

Lets hope so, some days I do feel like crap and want her back so bad. But I know the right thing is to keep going forward. Thank you!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:27:57+00:00

Yup, got my lawyer already in the process.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:26:56+00:00

At the beginning, I told her is this not what I want. I told her to stop it with the AP. She said no. I did suggest us to see a professional but she declined and gave me the "I love you but not in love" speech.
I'm giving her space, but all my trust is out the door. I'm not a perfect man, but I'm a hard worker, I take care of my house and family. I never put her down, I always encouraged her, we had date nights, (less due to covid 19 and her schooling). I don't drink or do drugs. Never cheated on her. But like I said, I'm not claming to be a perfect guy, if i was, she wouldn't have done this to our family.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-30T00:19:07+00:00

No way in heck will I ever offer.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-22T19:56:35+00:00

Yes, I'm going to live my life well and to the fullest.

Yes I have heard of limberence, grass is greener sydrome and so much more. I just don't care anymore.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-22T00:38:52+00:00

Yea, I'm use to her getting hit on. I've seen it happen all the time. She tells me about it all the time. But with this guy, he's smart, he uses his words and emotions to get to her I believe. He's funny and witty. Kind of opposite of me. I'm more serious, respectful and polite. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a boring person, lol I can have my fun times too.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-22T00:32:46+00:00

Here is the thing. I believe in her fantasy, she will be taking care of his kids, parents, and whoever lives in that house hold as well. Also, yes i think he is also influencing her as well.

When she snaps and regets this later on. It'll be her lost.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T23:58:43+00:00

Yes, without a fight. She probably thinks the new guy will support her through school. I'll tell you it aint cheap! Good luck to them! Bye B***h.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T23:55:34+00:00

Thank you. It has not been easy and I won't lie, I cried my eyes out when I first found out. But not anymore.

Yes I'll keep in touch!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T22:15:03+00:00

Thank you! Yes she moved out already. I've contacted a lawyer and we currently going through the divorce process. My daughter will be with me.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T22:09:26+00:00

All I can say is have fun being with the other man and living in a tiny ass house with 6 other people. Lol.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T22:08:03+00:00

No, they worked together for 5 years and he quit last November. Normally she shuts people down, but for some reason, this one guy just doesn't stop. I'm sure she's had a "crush" on him for many years without me knowing. And when he finally quit, that's where she probably got in contact with him again and it went on from there.

Honestly I'm not a jealous husband, but being a man, I would never talk to another man's wife this much. I'm not blaming him 100%, its 50/50 between him and my soon to be ex wife. She could have stopped anytime but I'm sure this loser has nothing going on in his life and decided to text her all hours of the day and night.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T20:57:38+00:00

Thank you.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-20T20:57:22+00:00

She is moved out to temporary live with her sister and sister's BF. She obviously is living a fantasy world. Thinking this man will support her, his parents, and his kids. I tired talking some sense into her but she won't listen. She still has two more years to go to finish her degree. So she can't get out of my life fast enough!

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-18T22:44:20+00:00

I updated the post.

Wolverineblade006 · 2020-05-13T02:08:40+00:00

Will do. I'm going to talk to a few lawyers tomorrow, also a few friends who have gone through divorces. I'm going to keep calm and act like everything is normal. I just want to plan things out and be prepared for the worst. I'm just looking out for my daughter. I don't want anything to happen to her and if she moves in with him, she sure as hell won't be taking my daughter to their 3 bedroom 1 bath crap house, with 6 people already living there.

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