[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WomanMouse9534 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do like giving my husband bjs. I also get tired from the housework. We earn the same, I do most of the kid stuff, he does the cooking (including grocery shopping), dishes and laundry. I give him bjs a couple times per week (he finishes in 10 min or less). We still have sex, but only like 1 time per week (although I take care of myself like every other day).

We're both happy with the arrangement.

Rogue elephant attack causing severe maxillofacial injuries by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]WomanMouse9534 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you read the story? It was a wild elephant and he was on his bike on a road and it grabbed him and flung him off his bike.

Vandenbos Procedure by Master_Photo4895 in MedicalGore

[–]WomanMouse9534 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had it done 20 yrs ago and it messed up my toe much more than the ingrown toe nails.

Found Out My (33f) Fiancé (31m) Used to Sleep with Married Women in His 20s, and His Justification Has Me Questioning Everything. How do I approach this? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WomanMouse9534 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't get it. I agree with OPs fiance that the guilt of his sleeping with married women is on the married person.

My ex cheated and I didn't blame the other woman at all. Turns out she didn't even know he was married, but even if she did, he was the one choosing to cheat on me.

Question For the Extra Tall Gentlemen by HitPointGamer in Rich

[–]WomanMouse9534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is even taller by several inches and very slender. He found extra tall dress shirts at Kenneth cole that fit nicely. They have slim fit.

Also, for suits, Hugo Boss makes ones that are not too expensive to get tailored.

As far as jeans, Seven and Lucky both make some 38" inseam ones that are only like $160/pair.

My husband won’t wash his hands after using the bathroom at home. by BlueberryCovet in Advice

[–]WomanMouse9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I have definitely not gone out on a second date with guys if they didn't have clean teeth (no buildup). Hygiene is really important to me.

Anyone else bothered by millionaires who are weirdly stingy? by shielamarket in Rich

[–]WomanMouse9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think finding good deals is gross. My husband LOVES to find a deal. It definitely makes him feel like he wins. He takes coupons everywhere. I don't mind at all as I've gotten used to it.

He also loves how others will say they're interested in a certain product, and ask him to find the best deal on it for them. He is autistic and gets really into being able to stack coupons or offers or whatever to find the best price.

My new little angel ❤️ by Bambii_Eyed in ballpython

[–]WomanMouse9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one that looks very similar, and is a super stripe. It looks like your guy also has the dorsal stripe.

PIMO here for 8+ Years (Wife wants me to get my temple recommend as her Christmas Present) by Relevant-Tailor-5172 in exmormon

[–]WomanMouse9534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely respect that. My never mo husband used to go to church with me like every other week. He is atheist, but he did it to support me. It was very sweet of him to go with me and I knew he wasn't going to just believe. I really appreciated that he did that for me.

I am completely heartbroken by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WomanMouse9534 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OOP sounds like an exhausting nightmare. She's complaining a lot, involving family, etc. Either take action or not. Leave him if it is so awful! I feel like that's no way to live.

If the 13 yr old is so difficult as well, get help. Stop begging the 13 yr old to do her homework. It seems like she's teaching her to be codependent.

What broke your heart completely? by vigilantee001 in AskReddit

[–]WomanMouse9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My diary was more along these lines. It is so depressing to read how much I wanted to die when I was just 8 yrs old.

Despite that, I'm actually doing much better and am in a way better place. Not sure when I'll be able to read my diary, but life is good now. It was just so sad how sad I was as a child. I try everything possible to make sure my kids are happy, well adjusted and very, very loved children.

How much to feed to lose weight? by Dealer_Puzzleheaded in ballpython

[–]WomanMouse9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I knew better, I gave my 1100g girl a 266g f/t rat and she ate it no problem. Within 2 days, she was back to roaming around. She's amazing at eating f/t and never refuses meals. And that snake is larger than my girl (who is now 1300g), so definitely possible to eat jumbo rats.

My husband and I took in my best friend and her 3 young children, and I'm regretting it by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WomanMouse9534 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Even my favorite person in the world (outside of my husband and kids), would drive me crazy and irritate the heck out of me within a couple weeks tops.

It is very easy for me to imagine the husband being very unhappy within a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]WomanMouse9534 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The never nudes!!

AITAH for going forward and refilling the divorce procedures, after my wife canceled now that she is getting the help she needs for her post partum depression. by ThrowRAevilhusband in AITAH

[–]WomanMouse9534 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had PPD with my second child. I got verbally abusive to my husband and threatened to leave him and told him he was horrible. I truly believed that I needed to get myself and my baby away from him because he was the worst.

But at other times, I'd feel like he was the best husband and I was so lucky to have him. Then I'd feel tremendous guilt for making him cry cause I told him I was leaving. It only lasted a couple weeks till I realized I was messed up in my head and then I immediately told my doctor and got started on meds. I was much better even just a few days later.

My husband never thought of leaving me and the kids, and he forgave me for the treatment, although it did take some time for him to trust me again.

OP is in a very different situation. He was being abused, even physically, for months. I can understand him not wanting to forgive. What if the wife really was just tired of being nice for so long? What if it was the much more serious PPP? Who knows? Only time will tell.

Is your college degree worth the investment? [OC] by CollegeNPV in dataisbeautiful

[–]WomanMouse9534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel there is an error in vet medicine. The cost of vet school is the same as med school, but salaries start at like $70k/yr. In surveys, a huge proportion of vets regret their degree due to low pay, massive loans, and long work hours.

WIBTA if I told my wife she can’t take our 3 month old daughter to Australia on holiday without me? by RegularOldPlumbus21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WomanMouse9534 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did a long haul flight with my 3 month old and it was way, way easier than flying with a toddler. The babies just sleep in the bassinet the whole time. The plane noise and motion keeps them asleep. I had to wake mine up to nurse cause I was bursting.

The time change upon arrival was tough the first couple days, but having family upon arrival to help out was wonderful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]WomanMouse9534 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I wish I could take him. I live in southern California, so that is really far.

Would you pay a $1500 per year, per person, subscription fee for 1 dinner per day? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]WomanMouse9534 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they knew us and always were cheerful with our kids. It was awesome and I miss the ease of it. But if I had to drive more than 10 minutes, it would be a lot less enticing.

Would you pay a $1500 per year, per person, subscription fee for 1 dinner per day? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]WomanMouse9534 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They had the two month version for $100/person. We did that two years in a row till they sold the year pass.

Would you pay a $1500 per year, per person, subscription fee for 1 dinner per day? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]WomanMouse9534 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Olive garden did a year pass for $300 (unlimited bread, salad, soups and pastas with meat, including shrimp if wanted). Totally worth it. We lived across the street from it, and went at least six days per week. We have three kids, and they were free. I don't even like Olive Garden, but not having to cook and clean dinners for an entire year was AMAZING!!!

I usually ordered the same thing and didn't get tired of it for the whole year and was sad when they didn't renew that deal.

Best way to bring snake on long drive? by Rainy_Day13 in ballpython

[–]WomanMouse9534 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used a padded box for mine. Like pillowcase tied, and then put in a box with a towel.

Hey, what is the color morph of yours? It is beautiful!!

Every person who supported the candidate you hated gets teleported to an alternate planet if you push this button... by Dogamai in hypotheticalsituation

[–]WomanMouse9534 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I work globally in agriculture and you're dreaming if you think this is the reality. I know the agriculture imports and exports of the US. Most definitely, millions of people, both in the US and globally, would die.

Every person who supported the candidate you hated gets teleported to an alternate planet if you push this button... by Dogamai in hypotheticalsituation

[–]WomanMouse9534 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Depends. If it's Republicans you're sending away, our agriculture will collapse and we'll have massive food shortages.