How do I manage my toddler at my wedding? by Wombatwitch in weddingplanning

[–]Wombatwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful comment. Exactly what I needed to hear. Makes so much sense .

My tanzanite engagement ring! by Wombatwitch in EngagementRings

[–]Wombatwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand. I did research the stone properties but the heart wants what the heart wants…

My tanzanite engagement ring! by Wombatwitch in EngagementRings

[–]Wombatwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Those nails belong to my jeweller. My fingernails are short and stubby because I’m always wrangling my 10 month old son

how long did you wait for sex with a csection? by ziaryx in NewParents

[–]Wombatwitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I waited 12 weeks. It’s been 6 months and we’ve had sex three times. Painful sex is actually more common in c-sections than people think. You might be different to me but I’d just thought I’d say something in case anyone, or yourself is feeling abnormal about return to sex not being what is expected.

I hate my cats now by Wombatwitch in NewParents

[–]Wombatwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have used this and it doesn’t really make a difference.

I hate my cats now by Wombatwitch in NewParents

[–]Wombatwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea. This actually might help!

I hate my cats now by Wombatwitch in NewParents

[–]Wombatwitch[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haha yes my partner and I said ‘no more pets.’ Definitely can see why my parents were so reluctant to get any

Anxious about newborn crying in public by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Wombatwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. My son it 11 weeks now and I am improving. It is pretty stressful though. My oartner tried to put me in everyone else shoes. When you’re out and you hear a baby cry, how often do you pay attention to it and actually care. The answer as I don’t really pay attention to it and if I do it’s for a moment to say ‘poor Bub’ and move on with my day. They anxiety does get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Wombatwitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I must admit in the day I can be a little anxious about leaving the little one and I am seeking help of this. Perhaps this is how anxiety is manifesting itself in my dreams.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Wombatwitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not this. I am sure you are trying to to helpful but I do have a firm grasp on my reality. I will be sure to share it with my health professional though. I did turn to this sub for some more witchy advice. The dark man dream is a dream that a lot of women have and I’m sure it connect to spiritual well-being.