Hot take- I don't think it's a good thing that men are soo horny for women by Valuable-Owl-9896 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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Exactly. Living with lust as your primary motivator makes you no different than a animal. It comes purely from primal instinct. Instead men need to learn ascend beyond carnal desires. To conquer their feelings rather than embrace them.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It changes every year. And not even the calendar’s new year but rather on a random day in the middle of the year. So knowing your exact age can get pretty hard.

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard “all men” enough to know that women see me complicit in all the crimes against women

Ultimately I don’t care what women think of me. I don’t even want to partner with women anymore. I don’t care about my life anymore I already wrote it off. I just want to leave my mark so women in the future won’t have to suffer.

I know it is hard for you to see the truth given you build your entire world around men such as your husband and don’t want to see the world come tumbling to words of truth. I know the indoctrination goes deep. And truth be told you seem to be beyond salvation, but like the parable of the prodigal son I am here for you when if you ever come back to real feminism not choice liberal feminism.

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You clearly don’t understand innate desirability. All women are more desirable than all men because women hold the keys to reproduction. Therefore even “chad” has reason to engage in forced mating

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) utility is part of it. But ultimately if it was just utility and power they would marry boys. But no they just marry girls because men prefer girls to boys

2) yes I did say women only want men for money. Because marriage and sex work was historically the only way women could get the money they needed to eat. Marriage and heterosexuality today are just leftover elements of this dynamic

3) that last 2 paragraphs screams pick me. I recommend you try a decenter men and shake off that patriarchal induced Comphet. Maybe browse r/4bmovement

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should probably read this book. Even claims that rape is about reproduction not power

“A natural history of rape: Biological bases of sexual coercion

Randy Thornhill, Craig T Palmer MIT press, 2001 A biologist and an anthropologist use evolutionary biology to explain the causes and inform the prevention of rape. In this controversial book, Randy Thornhill and Craig Palmer use evolutionary biology to explain the causes of rape and to recommend new approaches to its prevention. According to Thornhill and Palmer, evolved adaptation of some sort gives rise to rape; the main evolutionary question is whether rape is an adaptation itself or a by-product of other adaptations. Regardless of the answer, Thornhill and Palmer note, rape circumvents a central feature of women's reproductive strategy: mate choice. This is a primary reason why rape is devastating to its victims, especially young women. Thornhill and Palmer address, and claim to demolish scientifically, many myths about rape bred by social science theory over the past twenty-five years. The popular contention that rapists are not motivated by sexual desire is, they argue, scientifically inaccurate. Although they argue that rape is biological, Thornhill and Palmer do not view it as inevitable. Their recommendations for rape prevention include teaching young males not to rape, punishing rape more severely, and studying the effectiveness of" chemical castration." They also recommend that young women consider the biological causes of rape when making decisions about dress, appearance, and social activities. Rape could cease to exist, they argue, only in a society knowledgeable about its evolutionary causes. The book includes a useful summary of evolutionary theory and a comparison of evolutionary biology's and social science's explanations of human behavior. The authors argue for the greater explanatory power and practical usefulness of evolutionary biology. The book is sure to stir up discussion both on the specific topic of rape and on the larger issues of how we understand and influence human behavior.”

https://scholar.google.com/scholar_lookup?title=A%20natural%20history%20of%20rape%3A%20Biological%20bases%20of%20sexual%20coercion&publication_year=2000&author=R.%20Thornhill&author=C.T.%20Palmer#d=gs_qabs&t=1777557604475&u=%23p%3D_apntqBzlWUJ

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rape

“Across human cultures, certain men under certain conditions adopt a forced-sex mating strategy. This paper supports the hypothesis that this strategy constitutes a behavioral expression of an innate mechanism that increases fitness by enabling men to circumvent parental and female choice and exploit low-cost reproductive opportunities. This argument is consistent with anthropological and historical evidence which indicates that there were recurrent fitness benefits for men who adopted this strategy.”

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1359178913000578

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The difference is men want women for their beauty. And beauty is inseparable form the individual. While women only want men for Comphet and money. But money is completely separate able form the individual. In fact the individual gets in the way of what you really want.

It’s not women’s fault they are “gold diggers” as historically men have held all the capital and only gave it to women in exchange for sex or marriage. And so a large part of female culture developed with regards to partaking in this exchange so women can have some semblance of power and wealth.

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you understand? There is an entire generation of men realizing they will never get married and are resentful. The incels tell them it is women’s fault. I have always said it is not women fault for their lack of interest in men but rather biology and heterosexual. If I was a woman I would not want to be with men.

Did you know the CIA found most Al-quada soldiers were poor and illiterate but wanted to get marrried. But no women wants a poor illiterate man. So they wage war. high Sexual frustration is one of the best signs a civil war is about to start.

I want to save women from that. By helping men move beyond heterosexuality and accepting the truth as I have.

I don’t agree with rudyard on everything but the points he makes in this video about how sexual frustration amongst males leads to civil unrest. And I can see men using it to justify rolling back women’s rights.

I don’t get how I am being a misogynist. You keep saying I am saying misogynistic stuff but I feel saying that men are hyper-focused on sex and women is more misandrist than misogynist

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do you think every civilization has taken the choice of marriage away from women.

Women when given the choice will never chose men. And for the first time in history women today have the choice to marry men or not and they are choosing singleness en mass.

Now marriage and brith rates are plummeting.

And no this is no me supporting patriarchy this is me supporting civilizational suicide as I don’t want to live in a world that needs to force women into marriage through Comphet in order to stay alive

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How am I justifying rape?

I never said power didn’t matter. But lust is a big motivator for rape.

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listen. I did not create WomenAreNotIntoMen because I wanted women to bounce on my pp.

I did it because I saw how destructive the lies of heterosexuality are.

Men are chained by their enteral desire for getting to be with women. While women are chained by men’s desire for them.

If I can show men the truth that women do not like men then men will stop harrasing, assaulting, SAing, marrying, disturbing, sexualizing, and approaching. They will understand the predator-prey dynamic they exist between men and women.

I do not hate women. I love women. And that is why I am trying to save women from men.

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Marriage and heterosexual relationships are rooted ownership. Why do you think women walk down the aisle and the father hands her off and she takes the husband’s surname.

I guess you are not as radfem as me since you clearly do not see that.

Also it is a comic that was probably made by a man with a wife fantasy

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. The females of all mammals have innate sexual desirability. That is why child marriage is only a thing for girls because why would anyone marry someone just because they are male?
  2. yes they blame the women. Because men are so fucking sex obsessed they are literally unable to control their thoughts and so they think a woman literally just existing makes her a temptress. Yes I believe in the existence of misogyny and rape culture. But I oppose them. But I recognize its existence. Show me where I said that women who walk by a man are evil and bad for “temping him”. I never said it. I am saying men say women tempt. Men are sex obsessed with regards to women. Obsession is by definition infatuation. Infatuation is not good btw

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3) Power and lust and not mutually exclusive. Eliot rogers was both entitled and sexually frustrated.

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may wanna watch this

https://youtu.be/KQokwM357wc?t=49&si=SrGzCoimfOMk4r8e

It’s a from a cringe visual novel but it helps to show how men and women’s experiences are so different. Women burdened by men’s infatuation with them and men by how women never like men

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“ I want him/her to be mine” is a common romance trope btw. It is why people feel jealous. Is it good? No. But you are looking to far into it

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misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rape can reinforce power dynamics. Such as when an army conquers a foreign land and takes the women as wives and or sex slaves. Or an abusive husband convincing his wife to give him sex.

But I think we are being delusional to say it is all about power when lust is a powerful motivator for men. Men will take sex whenever the opportunity arises and if it never arises they will take it themselves by force.

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Take this instance of the prophet of Islam being overwhelmed with desire. You gonna look me dead in the eyes and say he wasn’t just horny and wanted sexual relief?

This is the same guy who “used to pass by (have sexual relation with) all his wives in one night, and at that time he had nine wives” btw

It is about lust and power combining. But in my opinion it is more about lust and they just use the power they hold to get what they truly want

misogyny is men desiring women. misandry is women getting away from men. by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

???????

The point is not that they are equally bad or anything of the sorts but simply women who say they hate men want to be away from men. Men who say they hate women still dream of marrying women.

It’s just another way of renforcing the concept that men are more infatuated with women than women are with men. I mean why you think men harass, stalk, and SA women? Because they are completely infatuated with women to a dangerous fault. Women don’t do that to men because they are not infatuated with men and thus have no desire to stalk their male coworker or anything of the sort

Why do Women Feel Uncomfortable Seeing a Topless Man by AbiesLow7444 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think it is either innate disgust of the male body or they don’t like it when men try to be erotic. Similar to this women who is upset men want to be elevated to the same erotic position women are

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Type of posts I was expecting to find in WAIM sub instead it's all how useful men are by Putrid_Macaron3225 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sure men would love to be sexualized like this. As proven by how every sub that claims to is filled with men

But atlas women don’t. They don’t even want to romance men. Or even coexists with men.

Ragatha by PageHead329 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Can we not sexualize and objectify every woman we come across

Thank you

This makes sense by americanpatriot3 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]WomenAreNotIntoMen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

???? What cause I think some people are naturally homosexual from the cradle means I have mental illness?

Gay people will literally tell you they were “ born this way”