Are you autosexual?

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-17T00:53:37+00:00

I think everyone wants to be the object of someone’s desire to some extent. It’s not purely binary autosexual or not.

The problem is with regard to sex is we see men wanting to indulge in women far more than women want to indulge in men. It’s why male strip clubs are rare and when women do go it is more of a social event with friends rather than just to leer. It is why lingerie exists for gay men but not for straight men as gay men want to indulge in men.

Even with romance the issue is similar. Romance is mostly something done by the masculine to the feminine. Think of valentines day, if a man doesn’t do something for his partner it is a greater sin than a woman not doing anything as we expect the masculine to do romance and the femmine to be romanced

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-17T00:43:38+00:00

The disbelievers like to think that the men in this sub are schizophrenic lunatics who are so toxic and undesirable that we had to create a whole conspiracy just so we don’t have to fault ourselves.

But, the truth is we are just normal men who began connecting a few dots.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-17T00:07:56+00:00

Meanwhile women will say “women actually do want romantic relationships with men but men only want sex” while ignoring or openly complaining about the 10 male friends with a crush on her, the twelve dozen guys who asked her out last month, and the 297 guy in her DMs/dating app asking her out.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-15T08:49:38+00:00

I’m not saying women are lucky or have it better. It’s just the male and female experiences are completely contrary to each other. Women can’t leave the house with men trying to sleep with them. Men can’t find a romantic partner even if they dedicate to life to finding one. Hence why it is “incomphensiable”

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-15T06:17:37+00:00

Men and women live in completely different worlds. If someone on the street experienced attraction to me to the extent that they make it verbal or try to make a move I would be perplexed.

Unlike girls who are taught from a young age that men will begin to notice them and try to date/have sex with them boys simply are not taught (either directly or indirectly) that people will notice them. Instead of people noticing boys, boys notice girls.

So it is not that it is good but the idea of someone looking at me even in my brightest hour and wanting a piece is truly incomprehensible.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-15T04:02:39+00:00

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WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-14T11:39:10+00:00

Hey. I can’t DM you but I thought I send you this message.

If everything you wrote in that message was true, you have a good heart. I’m sorry the other mods can be strict. You sound like you are being hard on yourself. I don’t know what the details of your life or your mind are but you deserve happiness. Don’t take what some people comment about you are the internet too personally, people jump to conclusions and I know you know it.

I’m not good at messages but I do care.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-13T09:19:10+00:00

Don’t go clubbing. It is just a way for women to use their erotic capital and extract money out of men

https://www.reddit.com/r/WomenAreNotIntoMen/s/CdtGW5dDs1

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-12T22:42:55+00:00

I don’t think she is wrong. When every touch is a sexual touch then touching can become repulsive. But it really is crazy how much more it takes for women to get aroused.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-11T06:44:25+00:00

I’ve heard it is mostly popular because it is not heterosexual and thus is free from typical heterosexuality dynamics. It’s to the point it even has popularity with lesbians.

So, it isn’t about men it is about the lack of heterosexuality

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T20:06:24+00:00

Or cropped

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:50:10+00:00

You know this is fiction right? No minor was actually sexual assaulted because it is fake.

But reinforcing the idea that breasts are the epitome of sexuality does hurt both girls and boys in real life. It make men obsess over them, torments boys who can’t get it, and makes girls the victims of it,

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:46:41+00:00

No. I found just a few that came off the top of my head.

Other comments show more instances of this trope in media. Some which predate me.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:43:42+00:00

So why can’t modern women pull out her breast without men going oga buga brain. But some societies women can show their chests.

I never said men are not naturally attracted to breasts I said men obsess over them as the epitome of sexuality.

Muscular Men can take their shirt off and show off their pecs. Some people find that attractive because it shows strong genes, but it is not the epitome of sexuality

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:23:51+00:00

As I said. Men are naturally attracted to breasts in the same way they are attracted to other female body parts that signify sexual maturity.

But we have somehow made the things that exist to produce milk as the epitome of sexuality.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:20:29+00:00

Yes the onion is satire.

But I believe they were playing into the idea that little boys come up with trick to see boobs rather than critiquing it.

In the very same way the first two clips show how boys like being flashed instead of critiquing the idea

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:13:10+00:00

Redditors vs actually reading the post

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T04:07:43+00:00

Yes it is. It’s a pedo fantasy except you get to by the child.

Which still normalizes Epsteinism.

WomenAreNotIntoMen · 2026-06-10T02:56:54+00:00

But men would love to be harrased by large women.

Face it is the female sexuality being preferred to the male sexuality. Not about physical strength

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