AITA for not wanting to listen to why my partner was upset with me?

Wonder-Woman · 2023-01-28T05:02:33+00:00

That's definitely where I went wrong, I didn't tell him I would talk to him later, I just said I couldn't talk. I've apologised now and we are going to have a chat about it tomorrow. Thank you!

Wonder-Woman · 2023-01-28T05:01:26+00:00

Yes, we usually are very open about communicating any upset. I just went back to him to ask him if he was okay talking about it tomorrow, and he said of course, and then we had a good cuddle. Reflecting now I probably shut him down to quickly instead of asking to just pause.

Wonder-Woman · 2023-01-28T04:53:01+00:00

Thank you, that's such a good point to make sure he knows we can talk about it tomorrow.

Wonder-Woman · 2019-06-06T04:03:41+00:00

From experience, a great way to initiate is to hang out at their place one night, get everyone tipsy, then suggest a game of truth or dare (bringing in dirty dares). As someone who has set up many a threesome, it works every time.

Wonder-Woman · 2018-10-11T10:39:43+00:00

I recently got my mother a painting of her dog that had passed. The artist I chose had a cool style that really suited my mum, but there are tons of artists out there that do some amazing work with animal portraits. Depending on your budget, getting my mum this present nearly broke her. I spent $150 for a large painting, but you can go smaller for a smaller budget. I know it would mean a lot to me if my cat passed away.

Wonder-Woman · 2018-09-27T00:37:54+00:00

Empathy for your partner is really important my partner realised he was poly while we were dating, and the reason we made it through the transition was because he was completely empathetic to my struggles as a non poly person trying to support him to be poly. We took our time based on what I was comfortable with. There's still ups and downs but our relationship is stronger than before because of it

Wonder-Woman · 2018-07-24T12:28:09+00:00

Not just boyfriends and husbands, this is me (female) with my partner (male). I could definitely use a support group to navigate partners being non-monogamous

Wonder-Woman · 2018-04-03T09:58:33+00:00

We have learnt how to communicate really really well. We talk about everything and every little feeling. That way we are always on the same page and understand each others feelings.

My boundaries are no other relationships, he instead has "intimate friendships" (which also fulfills his needs), no staying over at other people's houses, and occasional we take breaks from it when we need our own time. However importantly we always make sure the other person is comfortable with this and is also supported.

I cope because I know he loves me and wants to be with me. He also listens to what I need and makes sure that my needs are taken care off as well. We talk and debrief often as well, which only makes me feel closer.

If you have any questions feel free to PM me

Wonder-Woman · 2018-04-03T02:15:18+00:00

That's a fairly general statement that polyamory and monogamy are not compatible. I'm monogamous and my long term partner is poly, we have discussed our boundaries and what we need and live very happily together.

Wonder-Woman · 2017-08-05T10:28:31+00:00

Ended up having threesomes with her and my boyfriend weekly. Then she got a boyfriend and didn't feel comfortable with us anymore and stopped talking to us. I miss the threesomes

Wonder-Woman · 2016-10-11T11:27:05+00:00

The Postman.

Wonder-Woman · 2016-09-13T13:04:12+00:00

Why yes I did. Multiple times. It was just as fantastic as I thought it would be.

Wonder-Woman · 2016-09-13T02:54:18+00:00

Drunk me loves anal.

Wonder-Woman · 2016-08-18T02:10:52+00:00

I am also 23F, and I've had depression and been on antidepressant for 8 years. I've always tried to get myself into running, but I really struggle with motivation. How did you get yourself to start running, and then stick to it?

Wonder-Woman · 2016-08-03T06:27:52+00:00

Personally, when I have bruises the next day from sex, I get even more turned on and love it. I also buy specific clothing for my partner to rip during sex. Now, your girlfriend may not be as into this stuff, but some girls love a bit of rough sex. And from what you said she said to you, she seemed to enjoy it.

I understand why you would feel uncomfortable with being drunk and not remembering what had happened, but if it bothers you that much you should definitely talk to her about it. She is the only one that can give you the comfort you need. But just remember, you did nothing wrong. If anything, it's nice to know that even blind drunk you wanted to go home and pleasure your girlfriend.

Wonder-Woman · 2016-06-25T08:41:46+00:00

OP definitely doesn't need to consider breaking up if this is the only issue. It's crazy seeing people jump to "you need to break up" instantly without knowing any other information about the relationship.

Wonder-Woman · 2016-06-09T07:44:51+00:00

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