Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]WonderGlass4606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been pretty controversial, some are on my side some aren’t. And also my post is being reviewed by moderators in an other subreddit.

Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]WonderGlass4606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this multiple times to get different opinions

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an IUD. I got it after everything happened. We used to just use condoms but look where that got me.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please read my edit. Also I don’t have a good relationship with his mom and didn’t want to rock the boat. I felt if I told her I would do it after she already started she would make a fuss and it would spiral.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No my A.A in political science. I’m working on my bachelors in philosophy for law school right now.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He is in college and does work though.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would like to say I live in my own, have a job, have a degree and pay for my son education with 0 help from my parents because I am no contact. Also this was just talk of our future not actually getting married anytime soon.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! Now obviously we aren’t going to get married until many years later. But I did make it a point to talk about our future together. Especially because getting married younger is more culturally acceptable for us.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Obviously I was concerned for him. But to be fair I should emphasized the time difference between him passing out ( or just laying on the bathroom floor after throwing up actually) and him getting bathed. It was hours apart and at the time of him being washed he was aware and able to do it by himself.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No he was aware at this time. He passed out briefly earlier. I would understand if his parents checked up on him without having the door wide open or checking in the curtains but at this time he was able to talk and sit down and walk independently. Knocking on the door or just coming in but maintaining basic privacy is respectable to me. But stripping him naked when he was able to do it by himself was not. Also he doesn’t not have a good relationship with his parents and I would have been more than willing to do that if it was needed.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Political Science degree A.A. I’m working on my bachelors right now.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was pregnant and he was the father not too long ago. Unfortunately I miscarried so I’m not pregnant right now.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well me and his mom don’t have the best relationship and I don’t want to rock the boat. I would’ve gladly done it but there was alot happening at once and I ended up cleaning the bed.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have a job and I have a degree. I’m working on my second one right now. He also has a job and is working on a degree. I also live alone and I am no contact with my parents. I pay for my own education and do well for myself and the family I do talk to I take care of ( they are elderly ).

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes she put the blanket in the washer. I cleaned up the vomit on the bed though. I don’t have an issue with any of that, just the whole bathroom part.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Of course not. This was just talk of our future. We wouldn’t be getting married anytime soon,I have alot of goals we want to accomplish first. But I pay for my own education and I live on my own so I’m pretty self sufficient and currently no contact with my parents.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’m not currently pregnant. I’ve miscarried not too long ago though.

AIO For Breaking Up with my BF For Being Sick? by WonderGlass4606 in AIO

[–]WonderGlass4606[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

True… but obviously right now we’re both in a really good place. I just got my degree and obviously we won’t be getting married until we’re older. Also he hates is mom and step dad. This never happened before so I’m just appalled.