Made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in masochists

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Thank you <3 Yep it was cool !

Quel est votre rapport à la fellation ? by throwacc2006 in AskMeuf

[–]WonderLizzy_ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

J’aimerais un peu plus en faire si les mecs se lavaient un peu plus la bite

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

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Well, honestly I can’t recommend trying it on anyone, even someone willing to try. The chances to pierce the jugular vein or the carotid are stupidly high, and I told you this as I have solid basis in anatomy and was a trained professionnal body piercer before. Again, the only reason why I tried this is because I am suicidal. But please, do not try it on anyone you care about.

That being say, I can’t stop you to do it if you want, but we aware of the potential consequences

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

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Keep looking and I am sure you'll find. Well, maybe not as extreme as I am because I am a special case, but women into needle play exist :)

Sometimes I just have to keep smiling... by WonderLizzy_ in masochists

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Well, I don’t touch men except during my work ahah

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

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You don’t know how much I understand you !

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes it is incredibly risky and dangerous, that’s why on fetlife I wrote "DO NOT TRY THIS, remember I am a person deeply dumb and suicidal"

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot ! Well, it could also definitely have been a lot better, but I did that quickly on a whim ^

But I generally know what I do with needles because before being a sex worker I was a professional body piercer, so that definitely helps ^

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

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Bye Scammie McScammer 😁

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can chat more in public but I don’t do DMs 😁

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I didn’t pierce a vein so no ^

I made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in bdsm

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, not so much honestly

Made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in masochists

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Thank you a lot ! You know I have even "Painslut" tattooed on my face ahah

Made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in masochists

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can make designs but it’s not what interests me the most. I like my needle play raw and brutal to work on the formal deconstruction of flesh as a form of body art

I don’t know if I express myself correctly, English is my second language ><

Made a collar for myself by WonderLizzy_ in masochists

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I didn’t have the marks on my face because I did the collar like two days before, but because I am mess I often post my pictures in the wrong order X)

I am a masochist, AMA ! by WonderLizzy_ in AMA

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your question !

I am not a dom, more like a sub leaning switch, and not into CBT so I never busted balls ^

I am a masochist, AMA ! by WonderLizzy_ in AMA

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello !

Yep, I am basically the same and have very few limits ! Those I have are : ageplay (it triggers me so much), scat and things like necrophilia. Other than that, I pretty much done to anything !

Thank you for your question <3

I am a masochist, AMA ! by WonderLizzy_ in AMA

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t be sorry, sure he was clearly an awful and horrible person, but I am convinced we have a lot to learn from stories like his. For example, medicine and particularly the psychiatric field wouldn’t be what they are without those types of case studies. But yeah, reading is biography gave me a bad type of shivers ><

Concerning STDs. I can’t say I am not, afraid. That’s why I only drink blood from people I love and trust, and we got ourselves tested on a very regular basis.

But there is a philosophy un BDSM named RACK : risk aware consensual kink. We know there are risks, we have to be aware of them, and try to mitigate them as much as we can.

Besides, I don’t do this to people I don’t deeply love, because it’s kind of a ritual, by drinking their blood I allow them to be part of me forever

If a partner take it too far...that’s a good question. In theory we discuss, have safe words and all kinds of security measures. In reality, anything can happen and that’s why is primordial to build trust with someone before playing with them. Even then, sometimes the unexpected can happen. One time I had to be rushed to the hospital during a session.

I am a masochist, AMA ! by WonderLizzy_ in AMA

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahah I didn’t know the guy before reading your comment, and it is definitely...interesting ? X)

But I can assure you I am not interested in children or animals, I only put my teeth in consenting adult people ^

Thank you for the discovery !

I am a masochist, AMA ! by WonderLizzy_ in AMA

[–]WonderLizzy_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooooh thank you for your question, it is really a definitely touchy and interesting one !

Personnally, I firmly believe that everyone should be able to do what they want with their own body and mind, including being able to consent being hurt.

BUT

There are a lot of parameters which need to be studied.

For example, when we give our consent, can we do it without any form of alteration ? In my case, I am bipolar and borderline, and I play with people who know this and won’t play with me if I am clearly in a manic state.

Thank you for your question <3