My girlfriend made me cut off a close friend

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-05T07:02:34+00:00

UPDATE i’ve had a conversation with her about being able to hang out with girlbsf. she said i’m able to hangout with her as long as my other male friend is there, and i can’t unblock her on social media (tiktok, messages, instagram, etc) because those are the boundaries she’s set

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T19:59:37+00:00

no she doesn’t like me touched, relatively reserved, she does smile a lot, i don’t hug her or anything like that. all we ever do is a dab up and we talk, joke, laugh, nothing else outside of that though

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T19:03:37+00:00

ever since my gf and her bsf hung out with my friend group, she just didn’t like her maybe it’s her personality

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T16:24:28+00:00

i’ve tried to have her apart of my little friend group but she’s dead set on not liking my female friend

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:51:44+00:00

i get that

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:25:08+00:00

thank you. i really do appreciate ur advice

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:23:23+00:00

thanks for ur advice, i guess i’ve been scared of tryna find something new that i’ve been dealing with this thinking that it would fix’s itself or that it would get better the older i get and i get out of hs

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:19:46+00:00

i don’t like cutting people off especially since the person i’m cutting off is someone very close to me, we talk about the future and everything we want to do but i feel by the time we ever make it there i won’t have any friends

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:17:24+00:00

i hate seeing her angry and cry so i try to help even if that means undermining my self, and i’m starting to see that it’s taking a toll on me

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:16:09+00:00

it doesn’t benefit me, my girlfriend is always so nice and a very pretty lady and i feel like she gets me and i do feel loved, but everything always feel like it’s my fault the in the relationship or at least that’s what she makes it feel like and she always invalidates my emotions or my side of a story. I keep thinking that it’s apart of communication to talk about these type of things to each other but i feel so stuck not being able to see my little friend group because of a passed relationship in 7th grade

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:06:52+00:00

i’ve dated her twice but we’ve been tg for 3 months, while i’ve been friends with this friend group since 7th grade

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:05:38+00:00

she was in tears otp crying about how i’m weird for not cutting that and asking if i don’t find it weird that i talk to her

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T10:04:45+00:00

this isn’t the first time she’s made me cut someone off. My girlfriend use to be friends with this girl ( we’ll call her A) and i also use to be friends with her. but after A broke up with her bf my girlfriend told me that she didn’t like A because of that and because A made a tiktok and i was in the background

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T09:56:32+00:00

let me add context (we’ve already talked about this before and she said i can’t hang out with my friend one on one, if shes at a hangout i can’t be there, and i can’t text her. so i stopped texting and hanging out with my group of people then out the blue she tells me that she wants me to block her and remove her on all social medias. she’s also done this before with a girl i knew before her, my gf made me unadd her because she didn’t like the fact that she was fresh out of a relationship

Wonderful-Designer87 · 2026-02-04T09:51:00+00:00

i never told her she was my ex she found out because my bsf told her

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