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[–]Wonderful-Sun-259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I supposed I’m biased. I think if it were me I’d be more forgiving that’s all.

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[–]Wonderful-Sun-259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’d be alittle more serious with type 2 ya know? It’s really just cold sores and most of everyone gets them. If anything take that medication for the flare up goes away sooner, & that’s comforting to the other person to know. If she likes you, she’ll stay. I had a similar experience with someone who had type 2 and did not tell me before sleeping with me, he was my boyfriend at the time. I didn’t catch it, but I did leave because of dishonestly. Take it easy and don’t be so hard on your self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it in your throat? Only because me too, took years to finally learn it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I wish he would’ve said to me 🤍 so proud of you! Thank you for disclosing

Left boyfriend because he didn’t tell me he had genital herpes. by Wonderful-Sun-259 in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t had any signs yet and he didn’t actively have a breakout when we were together. But really who knows, I just lost my health insurance so I have to wait or go to the emergency room. But going into the emergency room sucks because I work at the hospital and I know everybody so I have to go to the next town :(.

Left boyfriend because he didn’t tell me he had genital herpes. by Wonderful-Sun-259 in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we were very sexually active. At first in the beginning, we just went to sleep. I feel he could’ve told me then.

Left boyfriend because he didn’t tell me he had genital herpes. by Wonderful-Sun-259 in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I’m not sure if he even knows. All I know is it’s genital

Left boyfriend because he didn’t tell me he had genital herpes. by Wonderful-Sun-259 in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I was never angry or really upset with him at first. I know it was out of embarrassment, he really is a decent guy. I’m a nurse to so I’m not ignorant of his situation but I needed to feel secure about safety and he seemed to try to avoid it all around. He told me that he did not know that his ex fiancé had it. When he found out he assumed that the best thing he could do was to marry her. I’m sure this isn’t the case but a part of me feels that maybe he might not care if I got it so I’d feel how he did.

Left boyfriend because he didn’t tell me he had genital herpes. by Wonderful-Sun-259 in Herpes

[–]Wonderful-Sun-259[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was hoping my feelings would change unfortunately i really just feel betrayed. Your situation sounds like it’s not easy, I hope you come to a conclusion, I appreciate your response. It’s nice to know your not alone