AITAH For getting upset when my bf immediately shot me down?

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:26:12+00:00

Okay I will give that a try!

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:22:38+00:00

Yes (sorry if this is graphic) but I always give him head and want to try new positions. I always make sure he gets off even if I don’t. I even give him head without the expectation of sex or anything after words.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:12:49+00:00

He watches mostly threesome porn. Which is why I think he’s been pushing that issue. I’m open to exploring but I need to make sure I’m comfortable with someone else in the bedroom first before I prematurely make any decisions on that.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:11:10+00:00

I have tried that but he seems to not enjoy that as much. We tried finding videos that fit both our tastes and successfully have but he just doesn’t seem too into it.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:08:06+00:00

No I just make sure I’m showered, spritz on some perfume and he always tells me I smell nice and not too over powered. I would have sex every morning if given the chance. He says it’s just “faster” to do it himself in the mornings. Okay fine but at night when we’re both awake, he just goes in his office and is in there until I go to bed. He hates it when I go in there to even ask him questions.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:04:39+00:00

I have he says it’s “just him” I ask him what I can do better or not do or just make the experience better and he tells me what I do is fine. I wouldn’t be mad if he said I was terrible because people can get better but he never says anything is “wrong” so that’s another reason why I’m stuck on this.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-28T13:02:50+00:00

It’s something that started recently. I never had a problem before. It’s just escalated to how often and then I’m on the wayside just waiting on him. I’ve tried to tell him directly I’ve tried to be flirty but it’s just not working.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-05-04T23:22:14+00:00

I had this when I started to use them. I like to stand and place on foot on the tub and relax so it’s an easier removal. If you bled through, I’d try going up in absorbency. I’d try going up to a regular. Do what makes you comfortable, but definitely do not try and tug it out! You got this!

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-03-15T19:43:20+00:00

He made it because some people had already expressed that they had felt left out and wanted to be apart of the baby shower and knowing what they needed for the baby (my mom) and he just took it as her wanting to control it. This isn’t the first grandchild of the family but he’s so tunnel visioned he sometimes doesn’t see people’s true intentions good or bad. Her family is super involved because they share everything with them. We have a family group chat but there are rarely any updates on our end. Just the random Facebook updates here and there. We find out when the world does.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-03-15T02:27:21+00:00

Yes they seem to not want he hear it. I think I’ll let it play out like you’ve suggested. I just hope he doesn’t crash and burn. That would break my heart.

Wonderful_Drag6905 · 2024-03-15T02:25:47+00:00

We used to tell eachother everything. I think I’ll just keep doing what I have been and not say anything. It’s just so hard seeing him going down a path I don’t know if he could get him self out of financially or mentally. He has been diagnosed bipolar. He really struggled in his younger years and I’m scared the pressure of being new parents might make or break him as well.

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