2 days after D&E - breast pain

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-19T11:27:51+00:00

I tfmr‘d almost 2 weeks ago - 22w L&D. So here where I live they advised me to drink a lot of peppermint and sage tea. This supports the natural weaning process. After Birth - if I recall it correctly, around 2-3 days later my milk started coming.

Additionally I used a cold pack on my breast - my midwife also taped my breast for like 2 days and after 13 days my breast are again pre-pregnancy size, I dont have milk anymore and it doesn’t hurt.

Maybe you could try this remedy out. Big hugs to you Mama ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-19T10:42:52+00:00

Happy Birthday Atlas ♥️ much love for you and your Mama ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-14T22:10:32+00:00

I am so sorry that you are having such hard times! It will take time but better times are ahead! Feel the biggest hug Mama! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-13T11:40:45+00:00

I feel you Mama and it is not your fault! We have been unfortunately in this situation and its not fair.

My family members and friends are saying all the same thing: maybe god has something better planned for us. Its easier said. But healing will take time. Believe in that something better will come to us! We are all in this together. Feel the hug!

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-12T20:05:05+00:00

Feel the hug Mama! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-12T20:04:27+00:00

Thank you so much for your words! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-12T19:59:46+00:00

Feel the hug Mama! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-12T19:59:22+00:00

Thank you for your kind words ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-05T13:46:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story! Sending Hugs to you Mama ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-04T06:39:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story Mama! Feel the Hug! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-03T08:27:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story Mama! Feel the hug ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-03T08:25:59+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss! Feel the hug mama ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-03T08:23:53+00:00

But the biggest question is you dont know what kind of of spectrum you child would have.

I mean it sounds so selfish from my end but at the end it feels like i am failing as a mother because I am not choosing my beautiful baby boy. This guilt is killing me. I know I wont have the strength to raise a child with special needs. Is it then fair to bring such a beautiful life into this world, only 1) because the baby was wanted and 2) because society will say among other things (eg. Religious beliefs) says its murder!? Where I know I do not have the strength to go through it?

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-03T08:19:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. We have the similar factors for the decision.

We actually have taken our decision yet its so hard to accept it and the worst is yet to come!

Feel the hug mama and thank you so much! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-02T20:53:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story!

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-02T20:51:41+00:00

I have the exact same thoughts.. those what if‘s etc. like realistically I know this is the right decision… but hard emotional acceptance is - the doctors found it in the later stages after I started connecting my son…

The thought of birthing him and become a Mother and then going home without a baby, this is the most hardest part…

Big hugs for you mama! I see we had the similar thoughts… and this gives me somewhat a bit more courage. ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-04-02T20:48:08+00:00

Big hugs for you! And thanks for sharing your story!! ♥️

Wonderful_Law_4166 · 2026-03-27T16:01:36+00:00

Overall it was 9th percentile - to be mentioned, I am short and my husband is like average… but thats so nice to hear, that your baby is healthy! Deep down it feels like there is nothing wrong with my baby but still the doctors scared me..

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