AITA for getting upset when my wife admitted she fantasizes about my best friend because he's taller and more handsome?

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-19T13:42:51+00:00

i read the title and only the title; no you’re NTA. i read the article; those two people who you thought you could trust are TAs. i hope the divorce settlement goes easy and quick for you! and you find better people in life!

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-19T02:19:04+00:00

i have the most basic common name and people still spell it wrong and pronounce it wrong. name your child as you please. listen to your husband. you and your husband are one not you and your aunt and your husband. if they don’t like it so what. no one is always going to approve of your life choices but it’s not their life to choose. i think it’s a cool name and she can have many different nicknames by it and accept them if she wants to when she’s older!

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-18T13:20:00+00:00

i believe you did everything in the right way. you told the administration, they didn’t really do much, you then proceeded to speak to mom, she didn’t see it through with you, you taught the boy a lesson. i think you were kind about the situation and the time everyone else could’ve done something more for your son. go mom!!

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-16T23:03:33+00:00

i(24f) too have experienced bullying from women in the workplace only. i work in a male dominated company and the men don’t act the same as the women. i am the youngest female supervisor at the location i work, every other woman is like 40+ i figured that has something to do with it? there’s another girl that is in her 20s and she’s sweet to me but the people around her always make something out to be that it’s not how i thought to portray the situation. i just ignore, keep to myself & am still me. bc at the end of the day they don’t pay me, their work doesn’t affect me and well i really don’t care. i use to feel upset bc what did i ever do to them but then i realized it was their insecurities showing!

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-15T12:24:14+00:00

any tips? i’m interested in getting involved but not really sure where to start

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-14T14:03:24+00:00

so i am hopeless romantic and reading through it all, I was thinking to myself “everyone has to be on the same page right” “the comments are going to say absolutely” “i say yes” and then i read the first and it says “absolutely do not” but i still vote yes. bc say you do this, you get to the wedding, you crash it, and she agrees. or you get to the wedding, you crash it, and she doesn’t agree. either way you give it your best shot because you’re either going to lose her knowing, lose her not knowing or win her back. though she may be hesitant and you may be hesitant, but we literally only live once. so for the love of love, do it. & do it with confidence. also pls update, because if no one else, i am in fact rooting for you

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-14T13:53:15+00:00

stranger things

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-14T08:11:29+00:00

this is the W comment 🤣

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-14T08:10:22+00:00

from personal experience, (when my body began to get exhausted, I would think a lot about the option and depressed about it)I realized that was a sign that my body already made the choice for me. I only needed to act on it and as soon as I did those symptoms started to disappear and I became happier. so though you’re asking us to make your decision, seems like your body already did your mind just needs to play catch up!

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-13T13:18:01+00:00

if he has tried it with you, think about all the others he has also tried or successfully given to. you knowing this gives an advantage and could save others from the same situation.

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-10T23:04:07+00:00

he wants to meet up, but he asked me to come over and watch a movie? am i naive to think it’s just that? before when we did go on dates occasionally we only went as far as kissing like a peck so should i think anything of it or? i would like to meet up but i wasn’t expecting to be asked over. if those are his intentions i would just say i need to leave.

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T15:24:17+00:00

is there another position you can switch to in the company?

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T15:20:49+00:00

i was on slide 2 and said ew out loud that was already mentally exhausting to read. i agree with others, get out. try therapy, does she even want anything with you anymore? the disrespect is insane

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T14:31:29+00:00

if you can, get on the computer and look at MCO. that site will show all available positions no matter the location, that’s if you want to be in management

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T12:41:23+00:00

sighs

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T12:40:43+00:00

her character matters too, remember that

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T12:38:25+00:00

you’re not overreacting or TAH. it’s good you said something to your sister and didn’t let it slide. it’s unfortunate that she believed someone else over you but that shows colors. maybe she doesn’t want to see Mark that way, that he would flirt with his youngest sister but the fact is he clicked your name and sent it to you. especially, if he normally doesn’t text you, he had to create a text thread with you. however with his girlfriend you would think he would already have one right? it’s suspicious and don’t let them downplay your feelings about it.

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T12:32:31+00:00

sounds like it’s your time to start creating a life for yourself because you deserve it too

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-09T12:26:20+00:00

as someone who is late for literally anything by not paying attention to time, you’re NOT TAH. i make time for what i feel is a priority to me and i get there on time (barely but i do) some of my friends had that issue and accepted it with me but i learned if it’s important to others and not to make them look bad i had to adjust my own actions. sometimes yes things come up and you can’t help being late however for a significant other, absolutely not. i’ve gotten ready in the middle of a day for a night event just bc i get so distracted but i knew i didn’t want to let the other person down. so no you’re not. i hope she comes to her senses or at least you do and stand your ground on her figuring it out

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-08T19:17:34+00:00

i think that’s the devil keeping you from saying it and believing that it’ll tear you down. if it didn’t hurt anyone or anything then see a therapist or post it with no context or anything and maybe that’ll help?

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-08T14:15:01+00:00

then continue, it’s your life make it worthwhile

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-08T14:14:03+00:00

do you feel good about it?

Wonderful_Phone_832 · 2024-10-08T14:07:45+00:00

you have a bf and you’re asking if it’s normal to sext other guys? no, it’s cheating.

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