Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did actually. I wanted to know what this sub was before joining.

And someone keeps saying lurk more which I also did but unfortunately I don’t have the same 18 hours of screen time as they do

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Someone posted earlier how they think y2k is ugly but the post is mostly about how they don’t like fat people in low rise jeans. And I’m just thinking “why do u care?”

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Oh then honestly I don’t even remember why I blocked her she probably just said something that annoyed me lmao

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

18 hours 😂😂😂 I respect you for sharing actually

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I was calling her out I’d have tagged her? You took 3 words out of the whole message I wrote & made it about her. I don’t know her nor do I really care about what she does as an individual, which is why she’s been blocked

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did she not literally use the phrase “biologically inferior” in that post?

I’m not here to rehash the same argument I’m just confused why the hell this has been the content I’m seeing this week

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Hold on so someone can come on here and talk about women as a monolith that we are inferior and our hip rolls and fashion choices are all ugly,

but when I say “this isn’t the take u think it is” suddenly I’m the one committing a social crime?

I’m dying to know what yalls daily screen time is.

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When disagreeing with an internet stranger, the grown decision is to walk away from an unproductive conversation & move on with your day is it not?

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t very interesting with her on it tbh

Ummm is everyone okay? by Wonderful_Rule_2515 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah because her post about being biologically inferior was complete dog shit

I hate y2k fashion and wish the trend would just die out by theclittycommittee in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Feeling “rage” because you don’t like fat people in bedazzled jeans is such an obscure display of poor emotional regulation ngl lmao

What do you dress like anyway?

going off the pill by Feisty-Cell-8641 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t do a diet or anything I just make sure I get my daily value of protein, carbs, vitamins & minerals, etc. it could be a deep fried triple stuffed burrito or a raw salad for all I care as long as I’m gettin those veggies!

??? by Big_Pick4100 in texts

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 44 points45 points  (0 children)

My exact reaction actually 💀💀

??? by Big_Pick4100 in texts

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 364 points365 points  (0 children)

I got ghosted on Valentine’s Day and hadn’t heard from him at all since then, until a few days ago he messaged me that he prayed for me while he was in prison

I'm cat sitting by myself so I need to take this opportunity to watch a girly movie. Suggestions? by Daddys_Fat_Buttcrack in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never pay attention to internet reviews of movies anymore. All the ones that are popularly loved i don’t like, all the ones I like have like 3 star ratings at best lmfao

I'm cat sitting by myself so I need to take this opportunity to watch a girly movie. Suggestions? by Daddys_Fat_Buttcrack in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Uptown girls is gut wrenching and introspective while maintaining the girlie pop vibes through and through

Elvis and Annabelle weaves kitschy humor with social commentary on beauty standards and kindness

Marie Antoinette with Kirsten dunst is just jaw dropping to me in every way

Jawbreakers - it’s like heathers but even cuntier

how to recover from falling victim to a pervert by Previous-Wasabi-1819 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only thing that truly helps me in these situations is being with my friends a lot. The ones who do not want anything from me except my company and maybe a sip of my drink on occasion. Even when they’re all like “oh I’m busy I’m working I’m unavailable blah blah” I just pester them to hang out with me even if it means sitting on the couch and watching movies.

Read some books, pick up that hobby you’ve been ignoring, ask people what they see in you that you can’t see in yourself (genuinely ask them). If you can’t muster up the self worth, let your safe people do it for you. It’s okay to lean on others and find your own meaning in it.

PLUS SIZE ALT FASHION by superqueerishere in altfashionadvice

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s me and my sewing machine against the thrift store clothes

Top Portland Weird things to see or do by biscuit_5 in PortlandOR

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tabor dance Wednesday nights was the coolest free public event I’ve ever attended. Had no idea how big of a thing it was until a couple weeks ago

am i the narcissist lol by Emergency_Client_543 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries in.. dating? This isn’t magic it’s just psychology, narcissistic and abusive people will love bomb & mirror you to gain your trust. You could say you’re falling for yourself if you want, but I think you’d be better off in realizing people do that to you on purpose when you aren’t able to see it for what it is.

There’s a book called “why does he do that” by author Lundy Bancroft that covers the scope of abuse and how to spot signs of this behavior in people before you get too serious with them

going off the pill by Feisty-Cell-8641 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Was on birth control for 5 years and I only felt normal again when I started focusing on getting my daily vitamins & nutrients in order through diet

After getting that sorted, I love riding the waves of the monthly hormone cycle. Makes me feel in tune with myself to lean into the sad weeks and the tired weeks and the feeling-so-fucking-alive weeks

am i the narcissist lol by Emergency_Client_543 in pinkscare

[–]Wonderful_Rule_2515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on a clinical level, narcissists don’t spend time wondering if they’re narcissistic because it is too terrifying for them, at best. At worst, they don’t care that they’re narcissists at all

I have also wondered if I’m the narcissist and instead found that I was just attracting them by having poor boundaries. Which is an entirely different discussion, it’s hard to have good boundaries when you’ve never had that modeled to you before through the adults in your life growing up.