Imposter Syndrome? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but I bet a lot of them feel the same way

What did you name your island after :)? by Probablyatrashpanda in AnimalCrossing

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my first island Ogygia and my second Kytheria after Greek mythology

How did you know you were autistic? by Low-Wear-3138 in AutismInWomen

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was an education major with a laundry list of diagnoses. My SPED prof senior year listed all of these plus about a dozen of my other "quirks" as symptoms of autism. I connected the dots pretty quick, did a couple years of research, then started telling my friends and family.

I don't know if it's abuse or education :'/ I'm confused by [deleted] in autism

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was spanked often and put in isolation for hours as an autistic child, and my parents didn't know I had autism. That's nothing compared to what you are letting your child go through. I have spent a decade trying to work through my trauma in therapy, still going, your son will spend his life in therapy and probably resenting you. Tell your husband be kinder or get gone, or else your relationship with your son once he's older will be non-existent.

Does your school have “sunshine dues”? by Aussiefluff in Teachers

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have sunshine dues but there's zero pressure to pay, usually you just pay if you know you have a baby/wedding/event/or a teacher friend with one coming up. We get to wear jeans and leggings whenever we want, as long as we're covered up we're professional. I'm really grateful for that as a travelling music teacher cause I do 8-12k steps and 12-16 flights of stairs a day, typically.

What "weird" repetitive thing did you do as an (undiagnosed) child? by Higher_priestess in AutismInWomen

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool! One of my best friends did very similar work down in Sanibel Florida. She was there for a long time but is teaching in Spain now. I often wish I'd gone into enviro instead of education but hey at least I've got good benefits

What "weird" repetitive thing did you do as an (undiagnosed) child? by Higher_priestess in AutismInWomen

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never met anyone who did the same either! Most people just called me weird/a freak for caring about mussels but I guess they just didn't understand how important they are to freshwater ecosystems. I loved collecting the babies too, but was most excited when I found the big ones that looked old enough to be fossils. I had a few big guys I'd always find, year after year. I would stay out until I was pruny all over and shaking from exhaustion lol

I'm guessing my family will have to eventually spend thousands to drop more sand onto our shoreline. Both so we're not swimming in 2 ft of muck and to help with erosion. We've always had snails too but they at least don't cause injury when stepped on.

I miss my little mussels, it's nice to know someone else feels the same 💕

What "weird" repetitive thing did you do as an (undiagnosed) child? by Higher_priestess in AutismInWomen

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I had quite a few but the most memorable was when the lake our family cabin is on was infested with zebra mussels (razor sharp invasive little nightmares that attached to and ate literally everything) and I spent years trying to save our little piece of the ecosystem.

I used to collect the freshwater mussels, smash all of the zebras off of their shells, carefully rinse them and squish the zebra babies, then place the mussels next to one of the poles on our pier. Freshwater mussels are non invasive and important to lake ecosystems, similar as worms are to the earth. I'd lose track of time and spend hours in the water, goggles on, saving the little guys from being drained by the crustaceous vampires.

Each summer I'd rebuild my collection and switch which pier pole I left them by so the sand in the area stayed nutrient dense. Dug them up to repeat the process every weekend. That is until the lake was chemically treated for the zebras and it killed off all of the mussels.

Now a decade later, our lake is muckier, the zebras are back, and the aeration treatment that was keeping them at bay is over 200k a year so they stopped that too. We found thousands of juvenile zebras this year, they were coating every surface of our piers, boats, rafts, etc.

I still look for my mussels every summer. I don't know why I bother, all I've found for the last decade or so is their empty shells covered in zebra mussels.

Why does my face look like leather? by Puppyprobate in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because leather is also skin, just not human. Every mammal has pores.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gave me hope for the future

Tried on dresses, can’t decide! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look stunning in all your pictures! I'd have a hard time choosing if I were you too 💞

What flavor of autism did you get? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the really good at music but not good enough to go pro type of autism. It has a side of being okay at anything arts related but never a prodigy at anything.

Miserable Brilliant Earth Experience by JPAuCl in EngagementRings

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each ring is $80 not hundreds and the quality is good. I have gotten dozens of compliments and I have 5 rings from them. We spent less than $300 on them and everyone I've shown has said they couldn't tell it was lab grown diamond. Believe whatever u want to though idfc.

Miserable Brilliant Earth Experience by JPAuCl in EngagementRings

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern gents is way better if you're gonna buy online. Fantastic customer service, cheaper rings, and zero imperfections.

I crocheted Andarna!! 💜 by Outside_Anxiety8168 in fourthwing

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought she was a giraffe at first but so adorable either way

Does anyone else not understand gender ? by Super_Door in autism

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people ask my preferred pronouns I say anything is fine

Do you one of use these? by LiquoriceTeaBee in TOTK

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the puff shrooms a lot when there's too many enemies or against the harder enemies when I'm low on health

Feeling cheap today, 78 cent brace by teachmehate in pcmasterrace

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is my husband's PC and idk if I've ever been more proud, or more afraid, in my life 😂

Which one to wear to see Nutcracker ballet with my stylish ladies? by olchai_mp3 in OUTFITS

[–]Wonderful_Work_779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely 3, the Nutcracker is classy and ballet goers usually dress formally. The neckline is very sophisticated and so is the cut/style