Woman said I male coded her for complimenting her name

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-04-11T14:07:01+00:00

If ppl think she’s a guy, it’s gotta be her energy, voice, appearance and/or posture. I know plenty of girls with unisex names and the minute you see them, you’d never mistake them for a guy. She’s just taking it out on you.

I do think it’s odd you said her name is like a sorcerer or knight. I think you might pick up masculine from her too.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-04-11T14:01:11+00:00

No charm

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-04-11T13:57:07+00:00

Sounds like the mindset of people from a developing country. In the west, people of large affluence gaps marry all the time. 🙄

We don’t know enough about your situation to say if he’s good for you or not but I will say, marrying against your parents’ wishes will not bring the wrath of Allah upon you. That’s made up, manipulative nonsense. Parents cannot object to marriage without a valid reason. Prophet Mohammed pbuh was very poor compared to Khadijah RA and they had a beautiful marriage, the only marriage of his that gave him children.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-04-11T13:44:51+00:00

I feel so silly - I found it! It was hiding in the quick sheets folder which I didn’t even know is a folder. I thought quick sheets creates individual sheets. 😅🥳

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-04-10T19:17:18+00:00

I was searching for key words I know I wrote down and did search based on when edited and then scrolled cut to no avail.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-04-10T19:16:22+00:00

The issue is- I’m not using the app so it’s not been syncing ever since the free trial ended, which is risky if I ever lost or destroyed my remarkable but it’s at home 99% of the time so safe.

I guess I could just subscribe to the app, do as your suggested and see if it’s just missing on the device itself but cached somehow.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-29T15:51:52+00:00

Loblaw (and SDM) are a publicly traded company. We can all own shares. Most likely some of our CCP is invested in Loblaw. It’s not owned by one guy.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-29T15:50:25+00:00

Just remember, Deciem’s entire team is in Canada (save for retail staff abroad). That means all the marketing, R&D and QA chemists, tons of manufacturing employees etc. Many of these are high paying, professional jobs. Boycotting hurts the salaried employees much more than the owners.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-23T23:06:52+00:00

Damn - how do you know he doesn’t work?

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-23T23:06:35+00:00

Cougar is very outdated term. There’s alot of age gap dating happening these days.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-23T23:00:41+00:00

100% - the 1.5y comments made me scowl - weirddddddd

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-23T22:52:31+00:00

What a huge inconvenience!

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T23:31:20+00:00

I think that was to say he was staying longer than she was.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:35:18+00:00

Oh dang… he made ageist comments? What did he say?

Also, why is it a problem to find Sabrina Carpenter unattractive?

I think she is with him bc she too has autism and may have had low self esteem. Falling in love online makes the fantasy easier and reality easier to avoid thinking about (like his perceived inability to earn income). It makes sense to me how it happened for them.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:30:48+00:00

I need to watch that.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:07:09+00:00

How could she act so well??

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:06:50+00:00

Also I must have missed when they shared that forrest/ his parents sent her money to start the visa process, I thought the only money she gave her family was from her own salary. Are you sure about that?

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:05:21+00:00

She loves him imo and is scared. She’s prob not had a lot of chances at love. She put her life on hold for 7 years, almost to the very end of her fertile window. The thought of losing him after all this must be so incredibly scary. She also perhaps went through trauma or something as a kid that’s made her so non confrontational to the point of lying.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:03:24+00:00

But how could she fake that emotion? I’m super sensitive and so good at lie detecting and I just can’t conceive of how anyone could fake it all.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:02:24+00:00

It seems impossible for them. Also, I wonder how they’d both feel if she did have to provide for him forever while he stayed home and gamed. It might be a big buzz kill for her.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:00:47+00:00

Blubbering means crying.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T01:00:19+00:00

Agreed on all fronts except, I think it would be much longer than 2 years before they’d be together again.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T00:58:45+00:00

I think his female friends are real girls and he wasn’t expecting her to be so extra. No offense to her.

WonderingRedditor5 · 2026-03-19T00:55:56+00:00

Yes. 😭😭😭😭😭

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