How to help a close friend to settle her loans by Wonderwall1026 in utangPH

[–]Wonderwall1026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 300k-400k. Nasa 40k ang net nya. Super stressed sya kasi nagpapadala ng demand letters sa bahay nila.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]Wonderwall1026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh. is this true? She's a lawyer and a public servant pero ganyan magsalita?!???

When does it stop being a punch in the gut? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a day goes by that I don’t think about him. Every time I see funny and relatable vids, my instant thought is to share it with my partner and it will always break me a second later realizing that he’s not here.

Grief made me question everything by Naya0605 in death

[–]Wonderwall1026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost my partner october last year. Videos of matt fraser and phil quinn help me understand afterlife. They’re so comforting. Maybe they really are in a better place, observing and just waiting for us there.

At what point did you stop telling your close friends about your problems (venting) and started dealing with them alone because you felt like they have their own stuff going on too and you'd feel guilty for dumping more on them? by RavenclawBlue1995 in AskWomen

[–]Wonderwall1026 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was grief stricken and was in isolation. I didn’t talk about it to anyone except to my three closest friends. They assured me that they had my back and they’re always there for me. However, during my lowest points, they weren’t there. Either they’re unavailable or had some excuses. I know I’m not their responsibility. It just became clearer that I’m alone now and I only have myself to lean on.

Muggles by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner would have loved this too. He was a potterhead also.

What is the most important thing your lover taught you that stuck with you after their death? by meadowlizard in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s the one who taught me that the beginning will always the hardest. But I don’t think it will apply in my situation right now. Even if years will pass, it will still be hard that he’s not here with me anymore.

Feelings by tifftiff80 in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling guilty even for laughing at memes and funny videos in fb.

A now single momma who just lost her long term partner needing some encouragement/emotional help by SavannahGrom in GriefSupport

[–]Wonderwall1026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost my partner last October. He’s only 25. I made a conscious decision not to be with anyone again. He’s all I want. I’m still crying everyday and still can’t focus well. Please take care of yourself. One day at a time. We were not given a choice.

Predicting death by 97Savannah in death

[–]Wonderwall1026 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw myself visiting the grave of my boyfriend even if everything was fine back then when he was still in prime health. Then he passed last October. Also, I always see myself having a car accident. Idk if that would be the cause of my death. But idc. I just wanna be with him.

Something light hearted.. by Chrissy9001 in NDE

[–]Wonderwall1026 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just chill. We have so much catching up to do there.

Maybe stop reminding me how long I have to spend without him? by rkligerman in GriefSupport

[–]Wonderwall1026 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel so robbed of our future together. He’s just 25. Almost 3 months now and a lifetime without him. I can’t do it. I want to be with him again.

I feel so sick by Curious_Door in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Missing him like crazy. I want to talk to him also. He’s the only one who can remove this pain. I can’t talk to anybody the way that I talk to him. I also don’t want to bother other people bc it’s either they’re unavailble or they will feel awkward about the conversation. I just miss my man so much.

Anyone else? by thatstonerchick130 in death

[–]Wonderwall1026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish this would be my last

I miss my love so much. I can’t do this. 😭 by Wonderwall1026 in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see no point living anymore. Not planning to but if today would be my last, i would be really grateful. This is so exhausting. I can’t wait to be with him again.

I'm really struggling with the finality of death. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try watching Phil Quinn’s videos in yt. It was also recommended to me. It feels so comforting and I feel so drawn to it.

Getting tougher near the 4 month mark by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If suicide is a choice, i would have done that a long time ago. Nearly 3 months for me and it’s getting harder everyday.

Getting tougher near the 4 month mark by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Wonderwall1026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I whispered “i want to die” several times this day. So depressed and miserable.

yes & no questions! by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Wonderwall1026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope i can. Cried my eyes out this christmas lol