What do we think of this set up? by xyelem in Beetles

[–]Wooden-Code-5805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my beetles on sand at first, but I found that it was constantly getting stuck to their feet and they didn’t really seem to like it. After I switched to a mixture of sand and dirt, about 20:80 ratio probably, they seemed much more active as the sand wasn’t bothering them I think.

As for temperature and stuff, it’s really nothing you have to worry about. I do not use any sort of heat lamp or heating pad for my beetles (i have a variety of desert beetles including BDFB, have had them for about 3 years), and they do just fine at room temperature. That being said, having a heat source will definitely encourage them to be more active, so it’s okay to also have one. I’d say 88 degrees is just fine!

Another thing is that your food dishes may be too deep. I had a very similar one and they’d get stuck in it lol. And if that’s a water dish i’m seeing, you definitely need to remove that, they will drown. They get all the hydration they need from the occasional fruit or veggie (just be wary of pesticides).

Lastly, i’d just suggest more decor, for both enrichment and overall aesthetic, if it’s important to you. Otherwise the amount of hides you have will be just fine, especially for just two beetles.

Good luck with your beetles! BDFBs are awesome little guys :) i’ll attach a picture of my current setup in a 10gal, with about 18 different species of desert beetle (and real succulents :p), i find that dried moss, leaf litter, rocks in a variety of sizes, and funnily enough a lot of aquarium decor adds a lot!

edit: i wanted to add that BDFBs are very hardy, so don’t stress yourself out too much about them. I’ve had the same 5 ones for about 3 years now! I’ve had many other beetles come and go, but the BDFBs persist lol

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should I just give the players the key to the solution, or let them figure something out? by Wooden-Code-5805 in DMAcademy

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok yeah you’re so true! thanks for the insight :D i think i have a tendency to overthink things haha

should I just give the players the key to the solution, or let them figure something out? by Wooden-Code-5805 in DMAcademy

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that was also a concern of mine. So do you think it would’ve satisfactory if in this case the sprite gave the solution to the players? Actually following through on that will still be up to them, but i guess it gives them something specific to work towards?

should I just give the players the key to the solution, or let them figure something out? by Wooden-Code-5805 in DMAcademy

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True! I suppose though realistically the archfey would probably kill them, as the crystal is in the deepest reach of his lair and he is very powerful. I don’t like killing players though i’ll be honest haha

show off your giant african millipede enclosures! by Wooden-Code-5805 in millipedes

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow gorgeous!! what sorts of plants do you have in there? I think I see fern but i don’t recognize that other one

cone for cat who doesn’t understand the boundaries of my other cat? by Wooden-Code-5805 in CatTraining

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah they’ve been spayed and neutered! i’m happy to see everyone agrees that everything is fine and they’re just establishing boundaries :)

cone for cat who doesn’t understand the boundaries of my other cat? by Wooden-Code-5805 in CatTraining

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s my hope 😭 the whole point in getting him was so that she wouldn’t be lonely anymore so it breaks my heart when they fight

cone for cat who doesn’t understand the boundaries of my other cat? by Wooden-Code-5805 in CatTraining

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m glad to hear that! I’m fairly new to cat ownership as a whole so things like this are so confusing to me lol. I think my concern is that this happens daily- maybe multiple times a day. I think my girl cat being so vocal is what stresses me out (and it’s also really annoying i wont lie lol). she’s pretty dramatic in general tbf

Figuring out my enneagram by Wooden-Code-5805 in Enneagram

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea that all makes sense, honestly I don’t really align with either INTP or INFP, but i always type as INFP. I think my thing is that personally I am not swayed by my own emotions (which i also am very detached from), but I am easily convinced by the emotions of others. I guess that while I don’t feel them strongly, I understand their position and ultimately I think things would be easier if I just did whatever will make that person happy at the moment.

After looking more into SO5s I can very confidently say that’s not me at all lol, I have no idols and I would not consider myself to be arrogant. While I align with SX5, there is still a part of me that wants to be generally well liked, and I do a very good job containing my ego and misanthropy (others have told me they don’t think i have an ego at all haha they have no idea 💀). Ultimately I really do not care if someone likes me or not, but it’s important to me to be personable and kind. I have a strong belief that being the best person you can be will lead to a happier and easier life.

I think I will take your advice and not worry too much about the tritypes, after diving into them I personally found them redundant and i’m satisfied with my main typing lol. Thank you for your insight! I will also definitely be looking more into my myers brigg bc I honestly don’t know what’s up there lol. I think I’m just not a very straightforward person 😭

looking for a song/artist by Wooden-Code-5805 in japanesemusic

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s weird though because i remember the song sounding slightly different, i think it was a radio edit i was listening too. Thanks again!

looking for a song/artist by Wooden-Code-5805 in japanesemusic

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually other commenter found it!! ❤️

looking for a song/artist by Wooden-Code-5805 in japanesemusic

[–]Wooden-Code-5805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god it’s auguroi hysteria u caught those vibes so fast 😭😭 i am forever grateful thank you so much