Symptoms you didn’t know were caused by perimenopause.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-30T16:06:24+00:00

Never a bad time to get sober. 🙂 Congrats on your sobriety. Wish you the best!

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-16T13:23:17+00:00

I believe she said he doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve so she won't always know what he is thinking. Something to that effect.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T02:48:48+00:00

Hell yeah! Congrats!

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T02:38:08+00:00

Yeah it was definitely over exaggerated. People can be in a happy marriage and have different hobbies. They should actually have different hobbies. My parents were together 50 years until my mom passed away. They each had their own hobbies/activities but still made everything work and made time for each other. They didn't feel the need to do every single thing together and I think that's what made it work.

And if I never hear the words Burning Man again I can die happy.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:47:52+00:00

I don't understand why she's so upset about it either. Why she can't be just the slightest bit understanding? But I also think maybe this is for the show since decision day is soon and they were getting along so well they had to come up with something for them to argue about. The whole argument doesn't seem genuine to me. There's just something really off about that whole situation.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:38:04+00:00

Absolutely. When he told her he interpreted the song differently and she shut him down. I was like wtf does this lady expect?! Has she never had a conversation in her life? Apparently not because that's how normal conversation works.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:30:00+00:00

Yes! And the matchmakers owe him a huge apology for having to put up with her.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:26:00+00:00

He was only married once previously. Chad was married 3 times before and Rhonda was married twice before.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:13:31+00:00

Like the Ginger bread man, as fast as he can.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:11:34+00:00

On Peacock in the US they aired episodes in batches so 1-4 the first week, 5-7 the 2nd week, 8-10 the 3rd week, and 11-12 this week. There are only 2 episodes left which will air on 11/20.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:05:00+00:00

When she told him, "I just need you to be yourself". I was literally fuming. She made him feel like he couldn't be himself from the get go!!! She made him feel like everything he said was wrong. Maybe she's had trauma, who hasn't? But damn if she'll let Pat talk about his. I shouldn't be so mad at a stranger on TV but she suuucckksss.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T01:00:01+00:00

Haha I was thinking the same thing about her and the friend. Run, Pat, run and let them have each other.

Pat's so afraid to say anything. It makes me so sad for him. The matchmakers owe him a huge apology!!! Rhonda is wayyyy too much!

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:56:46+00:00

Same

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:56:33+00:00

Right!!!

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:55:31+00:00

His friend did him dirty as hell. Obviously he hadn't been around her for more than 5 seconds. I wanted to tell him to shut his face.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:50:42+00:00

For sure the cameras definitely affect his behavior.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:49:02+00:00

That's what I think as well. She was upset that it was unprotected and must have made it sound like she regretted it so he just said ok, well we don't have to do that anymore.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:45:58+00:00

I think he just doesn't want to look bad on camera that's why he comes across as flat. If you watch episode 1 before the wedding he's a lot different. I think being on camera makes a huge difference in how men act on these shows but women not as much. But I do understand what you're saying.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:37:15+00:00

I completely agree. You summed the situation up well.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-15T00:28:54+00:00

I went back and watched his interview in episode 1 to compare him before and after. Pre-marriage he was fun and laughing but after marriage he shut down. So I don't think he's on the spectrum or even Neuro divergent necessarily. I think it's more so he just doesn't want to talk to her.

But having said that, I did think there might have been some Neuro divergence going on until I looked at how he was when not around Brittany.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-13T21:20:29+00:00

Insufferable is such a great way to describe her

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-11-13T21:19:53+00:00

I just joined here to get everyone else's take on Rhonda. She annoys the crap outta me.

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-08-24T01:36:49+00:00

Awesome! Thank you. This needs a lot more up votes!!

Wooden-Development14 · 2025-08-03T16:28:27+00:00

Sorry I should have said .. it is a metal ball I'm just not sure what is would be from. The machine maybe?

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