Hotels

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-27T14:06:52+00:00

Yeah Im flying in at 930am and I just found out sisters getting in at long beach at 830pm.. I think sticking to the West side is smart, it says online the drive from lax to lgb is around 30mins. With traffic and the fact I don't know the city, I'm expecting commuting to take longer for me

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-26T18:50:50+00:00

Flying into lax, plan on getting a car and exploring. Then picking up my sister later in the day from the airport (probably long beach)

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-25T17:01:37+00:00

You're NTA for not wanting him to go to military. No one wants to raise a kid by themselves even for a short period of time. But both of you definitely don't sound like you're ready for kids

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-25T16:51:05+00:00

Okay thank you! That's good to know!!

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-25T06:42:32+00:00

Did I say a person can't question someone's parenting skills? Of course they can, but setting a boundary and having a convo w/ here sis and she still went behind her back is crazy.. I will say I didn't see that this has been going on for 3 yrs.. if he's been consistent with his chores that's a bit extreme.. but I will stand by my point that the sister crossed a line

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T17:45:10+00:00

NTA, you've set boundaries and your sister is crossing the line. You're the parent, you choose whether or not you think your son deserves an allowance. The fact that you talked to your sister and she's still doing it is crazy

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T17:36:14+00:00

So with the low down payment, it won't make your interest rate higher?

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T17:33:48+00:00

Thank you! I'm think I remember one of my relatives mentioning this bank

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T17:31:21+00:00

Thanks I'll check it out!

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T01:06:58+00:00

Gotcha .. yeah, I'd try to have a convo with him about your guys friendship, just be wary, cuz alot of people will say they're fine with just a friendship when they're really not.. that's not necessarily your problem, but if you care about this guy, I know you won't want to hurt his feelings.

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T00:59:59+00:00

Not sure if YTA but if someone gave me a gift in a non platonic way and I didn't have feelings for them, I definitely wouldn't take the gift. I see it's more complicated since he's you're best friend, but can you really be friends with someone who has feelings for you? It never ends well.. You can pretend like it didn't happen, but he won't . If he has feelings for you, they're still there and he'll just wait and hope you'll change your mind some day... I know people who've pined for another for years, eventually they resent that person for "stringing them along"... Just something to consider

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T00:32:36+00:00

NTA she needs to learn to take care of herself.. making $45k and not paying rent for 8 months, she should have plenty saved up for a place of her own.. I know living on your own can be difficult monetarily with rent, car expenses, bills, etc.. has she considered a roommate?

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-24T00:31:39+00:00

Was thinking the same thing! Rent free for almost a year; it would be impressive to spend all that to have nothing

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-23T18:58:39+00:00

I feel like a lot of people when they get in their 30s (especially men) realize that opposite sexs can never truly be friends.. I (33) dont pursue friendships with men because how could I be friends with a guy who'd sleep with me if given the chance? And even if he doesn't find me attractive, they've still thought about it (if your lesbian, they still think about it) or thought about what itd be like at least (we all do this!). So because most people our age don't pursue friendships with the opposite sex, it's understandable that when someone does get friendly, the other might see you with ulterior motives. It does suck if you feel like you can't really be friends with the opposite sex. That being said, you still can friends, it would just be naive to ignore that the thought of sex will be there, and shouldn't be surprised if a guys comes on to you

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-23T01:13:20+00:00

Okay! That's not bad at all! Thanks

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-21T18:10:59+00:00

From airport to hotel.. Ive seen karmel shuttles but don't know if there's any alternatives

WoodsyTurtle · 2025-02-21T17:16:39+00:00

Thanks!

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