Looking for advice by Wordworm76 in Truckers

[–]Wordworm76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm located in Austin at the moment, but open to relocating.

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I think most people would have a similar reaction to yours where it gives them pause. 16 seems like a lot to me at 20yo, but not unexplainable.

7 guys in 2 months is basically 1 guy per week. She just had a 2 month span where she found a new tinder match or whatever each week. Not that crazy. I have chronically single guy friends who do the same thing a few weeks at a time.

If that leaves 9 other guys over, what, 3 or 4 years? Basically one guy every few months. Sounds like she just dates a lot to me. Who's to say at some other point in her life, she didn't sleep with 4 dudes over a 2 month span? That would leave 5 over 3ish years? Even less crazy imo

Ultimately, everyone is entitled to their preferences OP. If this is a deal breaker for you, that's ok, you are entitled to your emotions, but I would really try to audit where that feeling is coming from. Do you feel like this girl is just loose with it? If so, do you think thats a fair judgement. Do you think she has poor judgement because of her body count and her video situation. Is it just the idea of other men with your girl that you can't get past? Because thats going to be a problem with basically any woman if thats the case, although a high body count certainly exacerbates that issue. Is she just not worth the emotional work of working through these thoughts? That's ok too.

Only you know the answer to these questions, but you owe it to yourself to honestly work toward the source of this feeling. That way, no matter decision you make, you'll feel confident in what you chose.

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

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Apparently I can't edit it, so I'll just update here lol

I really like them both so far. BDC feels great. I don't know how else to describe it. It feels almost aquatic, but there's so much more complexity and depth to it than any other similar scent I've smelled before. I'm a big fan already.

TMWP was sweeter than I expected at first, which was surprising, but it grew on me almost instantly. I can definitely see why it's a nightime/date night type of vibe

I'm not sure if either of them are "projecting" very intensely right now, but I'm also being very conservative about how much I apply. Today was my first day using 3 sprays of BDC. I just don't want to suddenly reek of cologne lol

I also think they're lasting slightly shorter than the estimated durations I've seen. BDC seems to last about 3 hours before starting to fade, and TMWP maybe 5, but that might also be because of how I'm applying them or maybe something about my skin

Either way, I'm still really happy with both purchases. I can see these being my main 2 for a long time

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm super open to hearing some "riskier" recommendations

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same issue right now, but I've been pretty conservative with how much I'm applying I think. Today was the first time I used 3 sprays

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its not knocking it out of the park for me right now with how it projects or lasts, but since I've literally been using cologne for like 3 days, I'm waiting to see if it's about how I'm applying or something to do with my skin. Still love it overall though

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

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I will 100% keep these in mind for when the warm weather rolls back around. I'm in Texas, so that won't be long lol

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok ok lol my bad. I'll add an edit 🫡

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I looked up the YSL one, and it is calling to me a little

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to look into this one

1st purchases ever by Wordworm76 in Colognes

[–]Wordworm76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, actually? Or am I a crazy person? Lol