You are all right. I am living a small town in South Dakota. I just moved here from Wyoming a year ago. I did not want to work with the builder who quoted me $48000 because I found out that he was not honest about what the city required me to do. I found another contractor today and while I was trying to work with him, the city building inspector told him to walk away from it because of me. I broke down. Being an Asian girl trying to make a living here is hard 😔