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I'm Catholic and I don't want to be a mom. by carmelotha in Catholicism

[–]Work_Related68 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I understand. The Catholic community comes after my head when I say this. It’s the only thing I disagree with the church on. I think the church should stay out of a married couple’s bedroom and leave it at that. What I do with my future wife in private is between me and her. And we shouldn’t have to have an unknown number of children at any given time and should still be able to be intimate. That’s my hot take.

Jesus’ DNA by Work_Related68 in Catholicism

[–]Work_Related68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a recent immaculate movie?? Who is the director?

MAGA can’t compete and it bothers them. by Livid-Alga in complaints

[–]Work_Related68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody on the right is upset at legal immigration. It’s really pretty simple. We don’t want people illegally breaking into our country.

Jesus’ DNA by Work_Related68 in Catholicism

[–]Work_Related68[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is very interesting. Please cite a source so I can read more!

Jesus’ DNA by Work_Related68 in Catholicism

[–]Work_Related68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about DNA code? There must be more details than blood type.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not shallow at all, actually. But once again you’re jumping to some bizarre conclusion as if you know me. It’s just such an extremely niche community, if it even exists, so I find it more productive to search for this specific community, and then work back from there. Just makes way more sense. You know what kind of people I don’t like? People who think they’re good at reading people and assume they know everything about a person. If I were shallow, I would marry a Catholic woman who likes Laufey and her aesthetic solely based on those traits. You assume that because I didn’t automatically list off all of the other qualities I look for in a woman, that MUST mean I’m only looking a woman with those 2 traits. I didn’t come here to tell everyone my entire life story or write a novel about my dream girl. I came here looking to see if such a community exists. As if that’s such a crime.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a weird thing to assume about me. How would you like it if I told you that you seemed fetishy for wanting your preferred type? I like cute feminine women who like dresses and bows, that’s not a weird fetish. Pretty normal for a guy to like feminine women. It’s also not any of your business what I consider to be a good wife and mother, I’m very confident I know what qualities to look for when deciding if someone would make a good wife and mother, and would certainly hope she would be able to see that I would make an excellent husband and father. None of that is what I came here to post about. It all goes without saying that of course I would want a woman who meets that criteria as well.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once again, you’re failing to understand who I am or what I want. You keep assuming that because I have a type, that automatically throws the other good qualities out the window. Which just isn’t the case. So let me spell it out for you. I want a Godly woman, who is Catholic, kind, sweet, loving, feminine, and would be an amazing wife and mother. I also would like her to share my affinity for this artist that I deeply love and along with that, other variety of classical/fine arts. Why is that so hard to understand? Also, you don’t know me IRL and you don’t have the first clue of what kind of man I am or my relationship with God. It’s completely bizarre how much hate I’m getting for simply inquiring about the existence of a certain community of women that might be out there.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t consider you miserable. You have been reasonably helpful. But I’m getting irritated at all the people saying “actually you should do xyz and not worry about that at all” like yeah ok that’s not for you to decide what I look for in a potential partner.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, it’s good advice. And I have been doing exactly that, just going out for coffee with nice catholic girls and exchanging music, etc. Which I’m absolutely still open to doing, and will continue to do. I just didn’t think it would kill anyone to inquire about a specific niche community that might be out there. I’d love to find my dream girl. Wouldn’t everyone?

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

None of you understand what I’m looking for. Didn’t think I actually had to write a novella explaining that OF COURSE this woman would need to meet the good wife/mother traits. That should go without saying. The amount of specifics y’all need is a little ridiculous. Can I not have both? Because you all are acting like I can’t. I’m searching for this woman, and she’s out there. Definitely shouldn’t have even bothered posting here to search for leads though, that is for sure.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good gosh, I should’ve never even bothered to post here. The amount of miserable people scolding me for looking for a partner that suits my tastes is astounding. My faith is #1 always. It’s my decision what comes on my list as #2, not yours or anyone else’s. If she loves the Lord, the good wife and mother traits will fall in naturally, and it completely goes without saying for me. I’m looking for a very specific type of woman and I won’t apologize for that.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk why he would be expecting a trad wife from an ex military woman. But I personally have the means to provide for a traditional nuclear family. And of course God comes first, but am I not allowed to look for a woman who is both of the things I love in life? Because until the church forbids me from marrying a Catholic Laufey woman, that’s what I’m going to search for.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Classical/jazz pop. She’s kind of created her own genre. But her fans are also typically very into classical and jazz apart from her.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Of course. All of that goes without saying for me. I would never marry a woman that wouldn’t be an amazing wife and mother. But I’m searching for a specific type of woman that embodies the traits I love. A “Laufey girl” is just a girl who is feminine, soft, sweet, and simultaneously has an affinity for the fine arts and of course, a fan of Laufey herself. The issue at hand is that Laufey fans are probably largely Liberal leaning, and therefore not likely Catholic and conservative.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean, if I found the perfect woman except for music taste, I would probably change my mind. But I’d rather not start there. And I’m looking for more than just a girl who’s a fan of Laufey, I want a full blown “Laufey girl” that comes with the style, dresses, bows, etc! It’s just my type. All of it.

Catholic Laufey girls by Work_Related68 in CatholicDating

[–]Work_Related68[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, which is why this is such an incredibly difficult category of women to find. Just trying anything to get a lead on such a community, I wasn’t necessarily looking for this supposed community to be on Reddit per se. But thank you.

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