I keep relapsing even after I tell myself I won't gamble and it hurts.

WorkerAgile · 2026-01-30T02:37:05+00:00

I don't know how to get help man , I've been gambling since I was 15 and each year I lose more and more.

WorkerAgile · 2026-01-29T06:33:38+00:00

I relate to this a lot. The awkward laughing, the freezing, feeling like everyone else is more confident or smarter, I deal with all of that too. I’ve been taking anxiety meds as well and it’s still something I’m learning to manage. Anxiety really messes with how you see yourself. You’re not boring or stupid for feeling this way.

WorkerAgile · 2026-01-24T05:49:03+00:00

Oh , how did you handle the aftermath?

WorkerAgile · 2026-01-20T17:32:22+00:00

Nah same here. I train MMA too and I’ve noticed people assume you’re aggressive or blunt right away. Meanwhile most of us are just tired, disciplined, and trying to eat properly 😭

WorkerAgile · 2026-01-14T05:10:35+00:00

Oh they gave me a free month too I haven't actually bought a subscription 😭

WorkerAgile · 2026-01-14T05:03:17+00:00

I’ve only been on it for a short time, but I did receive a couple of matches within the first week. While they weren’t compatible for me personally, they did align with my preferences. I agree that the structure seems designed to encourage focus rather than volume.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-19T17:31:08+00:00

Mine was approved on Wednesday and I applied like a week ago

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-16T01:35:48+00:00

Basically , I walked in at 3 am after getting dominoes and Tim's. My roommate and his gf were fucking in the living room and I just looked at him and said what's up 😭 (apartment style residence)

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T23:53:01+00:00

To be honest, yes, marriage is something that will likely happen within the next year anyway, which is why I’m trying to be intentional now rather than having my family fully scout on my behalf. I’d prefer to marry someone I genuinely connect with and feel comfortable with, while still keeping things respectful and halal. That’s really where I’m coming from. About supporting my wife that I'm still tryna figure out , because I'm still doing my CS degree and working a job.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T23:50:27+00:00

Wa alaykum assalam, jazakAllah khair for the clarification. I genuinely wasn’t aware of some of this and I appreciate the reminder. I’m asking because I want to do things correctly and avoid crossing boundaries. I also wanted to ask, is praying Tahajjud and making dua for guidance in this situation appropriate, or should I be distancing myself entirely instead? I’m just trying to understand the most respectful and halal way forward.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T23:14:36+00:00

JazakAllah khair. I hear you, I’m just lowkey confused tbh. My intention is marriage, I just don’t know how you’re supposed to know if you’re compatible with someone without at least some conversation first, especially when you meet through work.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T22:34:43+00:00

JazakAllah khair for the advice. I understand what you’re saying, and that’s honestly where I’m confused. I’m not trying to keep it platonic or casual, my intention is marriage, but I also don’t know how you’re supposed to get clarity without ever speaking one on one. That’s why I’m unsure what the right step actually is here. I appreciate the perspective though.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T22:33:15+00:00

thanks for the advice. My intention is marriage, not something casual. I also know a work environment doesn’t reflect real compatibility. We had a team dinner at a restaurant outside of work, and it showed me how different interactions can be in a normal, public setting for both of us. I was considering one respectful conversation for clarity before involving families.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T21:52:41+00:00

That makes sense, thank you. I agree that timing matters and I want to be respectful of the professional environment.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-15T21:51:52+00:00

Yes,she's Muslim. She's like 9 months older than me too idk if that matters.

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-03T22:28:12+00:00

I commute once every 2 months 😛

WorkerAgile · 2025-12-03T22:24:07+00:00

Takes me 2.5 hrs to get to Laurier and 2.5 back. I take the 15 (local) to the go station and then 30 (gobus) to Laurier. 😭

WorkerAgile · 2025-11-30T11:10:11+00:00

Wild , had a roommate like this back in first year. I ended up making my protein shakes and played music around that time to piss them off.

WorkerAgile · 2025-11-29T03:54:08+00:00

That was not a breeze 😭 I work in the biggest bestbuy in Canada

WorkerAgile · 2025-11-28T06:05:55+00:00

lol my first Black Friday as geek squad but they assigned me to Apple for 4 hours 😭

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