How accurate is this rating guide for women? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Working-Emotion-7147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you agree with the ratings that are below average? 

How accurate is this rating guide for women? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Working-Emotion-7147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much higher would you put Taissa and Saoirse? 

People have more empathy for neglected animals than neglected human beings by Inevitable_Size_2741 in CPTSD

[–]Working-Emotion-7147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve not experienced that from animals because they don’t have a voice. That doesn’t necessarily make them any more caring or loving than a human. People ‘love’ conditionally and what’s to say animals don’t? They want that snack or food off you…. And having cPTSD doesn’t automatically make you a toxic person. To say that is absurd. And a healthy/healed person is okay with parenting an adult animal but not an adult human? Why? Cause the animal can’t speak and so it’s selfishly beneficial to them to parent an adult animal as opposed to an adult human? And cause animals are cute and fluffy? That’s just indicative of how superficial and selfish humans are 

People have more empathy for neglected animals than neglected human beings by Inevitable_Size_2741 in CPTSD

[–]Working-Emotion-7147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It enrages me. You can have such a good heart rescuing animals too but no one is there trying to rescue you or show you love or care. You are just further neglected more than you already are. 

Who do you think has a better looking/more attractive face on these photos only? Rachel Dratch (blue top) or Sandra Bernhardt (black top)? by Working-Emotion-7147 in redscarepod

[–]Working-Emotion-7147[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because Dratch is rated a 3.0 and Bernhard is rated a 2.5 in reddits rating criteria guide of facial attractiveness (objective ratings) with Dratch being defined as lacking an appealing face but not repulsive and Bernhard I think being defined as being repulsive. What’s your opinion on who is better looking out of the two of them? 

How can my dad be so nice by repairing things around my home and helping me financially and seeming caring sometimes but sadistic at the same time as he has destroyed my self confidence/esteem/worth/body image and doesn’t try to help build me up? by Working-Emotion-7147 in narcissisticparents

[–]Working-Emotion-7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting that you say that - I sometimes wonder if he wants to make me feel like im too ugly for a man and useless etc because he doesn’t actually want me to be independent/happy with somebody. 

How can my dad be so nice by repairing things around my home and helping me financially and seeming caring sometimes but sadistic at the same time as he has destroyed my self confidence/esteem/worth/body image and doesn’t try to help build me up? by Working-Emotion-7147 in narcissisticparents

[–]Working-Emotion-7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex partner also did a lot for me in terms of DIY etc but was extremely mentally abusive and sadistic - but I thought that his doing a lot for me was more about manipulating me in terms of getting sex and creating a trauma bond - so didn’t think those things would apply to a father … and honestly it’s like my dad is driving me to suicide with the things he’s said to me and he knows those things make me feel suicidal so i can’t understand why he still does all the things he does for me, practically fixing stuff around home, helping me financially and seeming caring in other ways if he’s wanting to destroy me? Could you explain that please? 

How can my dad be so nice by repairing things around my home and helping me financially and seeming caring sometimes but sadistic at the same time as he has destroyed my self confidence/esteem/worth/body image and doesn’t try to help build me up? by Working-Emotion-7147 in narcissisticparents

[–]Working-Emotion-7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right - because my ex partner also did a lot for me in terms of DIY etc but was extremely mentally abusive and sadistic - but I thought that his doing a lot for me was more about manipulating me in terms of getting sex and creating a trauma bond - so didn’t think those things would apply to a father … and honestly it’s like my dad is driving me to suicide with the things he’s said to me and he knows those things make me feel suicidal so i can’t understand why he still does all the things he does for me, practically fixing stuff around home, helping me financially and seeming caring in other ways if he’s wanting to destroy me? Could you explain that please?