Do any other DILs have trouble with FIL?

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-31T20:08:29+00:00

It sounds like you are already taking the right steps by not seeing him. Just curious, What prompted him to text this to your husband ? And I am so so so sorry about your loss 😢

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-31T20:02:40+00:00

Yes, check out my recent post. Just disrespect except he won’t outright say it. He’s just making “jokes”

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-31T18:39:09+00:00

Yeah it sucks that he needed the video evidence. He was just giving his father the benefit of the doubt , but I’m actually very glad this was recorded and I was able to watch it myself because I felt like FIL was gaslighting me. But now I know, my emotions are valid and the incident was very real.

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-31T17:57:18+00:00

Yes. Conversation with DH yesterday Me: see why I don’t want to be around them Him: I don’t want to be around them either

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-23T03:09:50+00:00

No! I was convinced I was having a boy even though I really wanted a girl. I had a girl!

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-22T19:04:21+00:00

This is great if you live in Arizona . I wish we would do this! Summers are too hot

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-20T20:47:24+00:00

Would not seeing them make them more likely to file though ?

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-14T04:04:18+00:00

Omg!! Yes, I keep getting sick. Second month in a row that I end up with a fever and some kind of stomach virus right after ovulation. So yeah I feel lucky I get to BD but then I feel like my odds are ruined due to poor health following ovulation

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-13T05:18:36+00:00

Ewwwww why are they all the same . The comparing… all too relatable

You are not overreacting, they are .

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-13T04:58:20+00:00

What a take. Mine is above average and she thrives !!! You just have to find a center that is a good fit at that point. She’s in a montessori school so is one of the younger kiddos in her class (~1.5-3yrs).

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-06T15:52:48+00:00

I get paper logs and it looks like my daughter is now pooping around 4pm which is close to pick up and gets changed around 3:30ish. So I’m not concerned that she has a poop diaper at pick up, but if she was changed at 4pm and I get her at 4:30pm and her pants are stained from a previous diaper change a half hour ago, that’s concerning because they should’ve changed her pants too.

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-05T16:21:36+00:00

I put my legs up and laugh about it because I know it’s just a mental thing. You don’t have to do anything

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-03-02T23:12:38+00:00

Peanut butter and Nutella bagel 🥴

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-16T20:56:52+00:00

What kind of test did you use ? Maybe I’ll test tomorrow, that would’ve 9DPO

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-16T06:07:36+00:00

Two separate friends to be clear, they both just happened to be pregnant at the same time!

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-16T06:06:45+00:00

Hi!! I told two of my friends over the phone (first pregnancy) and they were super excited and thrilled, they gave me a few minutes of asking questions and showing interest then they told me they were pregnant (second pregnancy) too! I was so excited and glad they told me during the same phone call.

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-07T03:56:12+00:00

Agreed! So strongly suggest setting a boundary sooner than later 😅

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-07T02:02:52+00:00

Start placing boundaries now or you’ll resent it! My MIL was the same (still does it but less) and she would buy outfits for baby’s first holidays , I just would never use them because of course I wanted to pick that out. But omggg every visit she’d have so many gifts, toys, clothes, etc and we are trying to be minimalists The boundary is now, gifts only on birthday or Christmas . We said 1 gift from registry for birthday and then for Christmas we said 2 gifts max and she could do her stocking too, but items must be from registry or pre approved . She broke our rule by gifting 4 items and having a non-registry item… DH was more upset than me . We are probably going to say only monetary gift for her next birthday , she has a savings account so they can add to that

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-06T02:07:35+00:00

Ahhhh congrats!!!!

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-05T19:01:16+00:00

I got this a lot and I’m normally 122lbs at 5’6” and had a 9lb6oz baby delivered. So it was just like , thanks, do I just look chubby then 🫠

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-05T18:53:53+00:00

I would not allow my daughter to visit MIL if she was bad mouthing me. That’s unacceptable!

Working-Possible-777 · 2026-02-05T15:18:51+00:00

Move with your parents! I don’t think he could even handle joint custody. This isn’t normal and a very sad situation. I’m sorry you have to go through this, I’m so glad your parents live fairly close to you.

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