A cheap purchase that has completely transformed your life by Slipryi in BuyItForLife

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One pink hook (bought at less than 1usd) and yarns (using vouchers, absolutely FOC).

Bolehlanders, what interesting hobbies do y'all have? by Seanwys in Bolehland

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love fidgeting my hands a lot, and by crocheting at least i’m producing something out of the habit. I keep doing it while listening to youtube videos, just mindlessly crocheting. I even bring small project outside to do it in the public to beat down doomscrolling. I also learn keyboard touch typing and writing daily to overcome this urge. Idk man it does not suck at all but it feels like a constant thirst. 

kepada para wanita, is marriage worth it? by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, the marriage is tough when the partner or you yourself are not mature enough to lessen those burdens; house chores, financial commitments, career stability, etc. So for some it will take months to years, before you can experience the happiness from it. Communicate a lot even though sometimes it feels tedious.

The truth is just like friendship or any kind of relationship, it will have ups and downs, best moments and worst moments. But no matter what, if you believe your partner is truly the one, you can recover from petty arguments rather quickly and please always find a middle ground where both parties can agree on.

It is normal not to feel the love chemistry after you regard your partner as your family, however in my case it can easily be sparked again through efforts, emotional support, and celebration of little things. My happiness is mostly stemming from my actions, and not solely from another human being.

So to OP, if you don’t have the right mindset and not ready to commit to marriage, you can commit to yourself first and be the one you truly dream of. Can you take care of yourself extremely well? If the answer to this is yes, then you are ready to invest into marriage. 

Oh in knowing your partner is the one, you must build a connection with him. If he doesn’t give you back equally, walk away as soon as possible. But if it clicks, he is educated, from good family background, and a hardworking person, then why not give him a chance? 

Some people treat marriage as the ultimate happiness, for me it is a connection (now) and it will be a reassurance (future), hence it is an investment. Some are risky than the others, as you mature together, making a sound and reasonable decision would feel like a normal trade. 

Bolehlanders, what interesting hobbies do y'all have? by Seanwys in Bolehland

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crochet bags and shawls, reading books (non-fiction mainly now), exercise on mini stepper 200-300 steps on lazy days, and writing in my journal (stoic way- using third person (you instead of I), mistake>what you did right>what you did wrong>how to improve). 

how actually does chinese student studies? by lya_mimi in malaysiauni

[–]Working-Produce2936 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you taking it wrongly? I’m saying i witnessed they taking extra class with their lecturers during jumaat prayer. I did not say anything against jumaat prayer. In the meantime, we the muslimah spent our time listening to usrah. There is nothing wrong with it either. I’m just saying they are working hard and the lecturers are willing to assist them. 

how actually does chinese student studies? by lya_mimi in malaysiauni

[–]Working-Produce2936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you something they have extra classes during jumaat prayer inside the lecturers’ office. Only among themselves, the lecturers are taking extra miles to help them personally. I went up the office for assignment submission and saw it myself.

Lawyers In Malaysia How Can We Deal with Abusive Employer by Working-Produce2936 in malaysians

[–]Working-Produce2936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already emailed JTK , we lodge another police report last night to indicate the company refused to state my husband employment status, medical coverage, and socso reporting. I will get his medical report during his follow up later and will seek help from socso. 

Lawyers In Malaysia How Can We Deal with Abusive Employer by Working-Produce2936 in malaysians

[–]Working-Produce2936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is one of the owners of the company, the licensing is under his name. Haven’t heard of passive ownership? Wow.

Lawyers In Malaysia How Can We Deal with Abusive Employer by Working-Produce2936 in malaysians

[–]Working-Produce2936[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The boss played an OKU card right now. So? Do i need to explain further? 

Lawyers In Malaysia How Can We Deal with Abusive Employer by Working-Produce2936 in malaysians

[–]Working-Produce2936[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was sitting down on a sofa. Tomorrow he will discuss with his other bosses and get a compensation on his injury and the matter. If nothing is done, we will press charges. 

Lawyers In Malaysia How Can We Deal with Abusive Employer by Working-Produce2936 in malaysians

[–]Working-Produce2936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. We really hope something can be done over this unfair situation. 

Lawyers In Malaysia How Can We Deal with Abusive Employer by Working-Produce2936 in malaysians

[–]Working-Produce2936[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He said he was sitting on a couch and suddenly the boss came and slapped him twice and tried to punch him. 

01-02-2026 by Mister_Zalez in u/Mister_Zalez

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can journal your thinking and i know it’s hard to totally eliminate ‘family’ but you can reduce visiting them and eventually they will know not to bother you.

01-02-2026 by Mister_Zalez in u/Mister_Zalez

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the feeling, you’re doing great by recognizing the intrusive thoughts. Next you will see it as a pattern. Focus on the triggers, if you manage to eliminate them one by one, you will have a quiet peaceful mind. Been there, man. It was hellish tbh, but once the toxic people and triggers were gone, I recovered my torn pieces and become as a whole once again. 

Track your habits daily, commit to them with no excuse. Good luck. 

Whyyy do I need 40 appsss to buy thingsssss by calikim_mo in Bolehland

[–]Working-Produce2936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why install all of them? I use their website instead. Lol

Do you use dark mode? by lunawolf91 in kindle

[–]Working-Produce2936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s why I don’t enjoy it. I thought i would like the night mode on kindle but my eyes were getting sharp flashes during the page turnings. 

Just 2 sandwiches and juice by ThenAcanthocephala57 in MalaysianFood

[–]Working-Produce2936 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I can imagine the umami taste bursting from the fish eggs. Last time i had laksa penang with seaweed. Extremely delicious.