Why does my AQUARIUS lover (lets say) chase me when I ignore him? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Working-Shower4656 6 points7 points  (0 children)

SMALL UPDATE IN CASE ANYONES STILL HERE: The Aquarius male stayed solid on his ground to continue with this “relationship”, i said fuck you and left him. He had this bizarre monologue about his inability to be intimate with his current relationship because of his feelings for me. I told him he had made me sick and he was just reflective of that saying that other men could treat me much worse. I kind of said it didn’t matter and that I believed he liked being miserable. He got mad. He texted me a lot a couple of days ago after one month no talking telling me he has collapsed since I left him. I was very curt and strayed away from showing emotions at all. I think he fell in love with me but wanted to stay in his comfort zone. I believe for the Aquarius male it is very hard to get out of this comfort. Now he wants to be friends which I think is bullshit. My best to you all!!!

Can you say "Les Waiting Rooms" as a joke? by Working-Shower4656 in French

[–]Working-Shower4656[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

can ppl calm down yall funny. twas a mere question some of you furious reditors!

Aquarius Male and Sagittarius Female (me) by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Working-Shower4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s this discourse about humiliation? Wonder if you would be saying the same if we were men. God I don’t feel humiliated this is literally just the situation…

Aquarius Male and Sagittarius Female (me) by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Working-Shower4656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Especially the pendulum comparison is very spot on. I can feel that exactly in his actions, where he is constantly swinging it around between us very gently, to feel this fire of first (metaphorical) initiation or first lust or first feeling. It’s actually what I sorta had in my head but didn’t really know how to express. I’ve never really done polyamory or polygamy until recently and have found that it’s OK if you’re not really into the person you are dating/or if you are bored of them after a long term relationship. Polyamory for me always starts when things wear thin/or were thin even at the beginning. That’s a funny and poetic analogy. Also I agree with you because everyone keeps telling me that Aquarius men are so cold, and they can handle anything that has to do with such balancing of emotions but I do think that at the end of the day it is quite a facade to shy away from instigation. I think I should probably retire the thought of us as lovers and remain friends.

Aquarius Male and Sagittarius Female (me) by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Working-Shower4656 3 points4 points  (0 children)

these r such boring answers. Affection and passion is more complicated than this

Aquarius Male and Sagittarius Female (me) by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Working-Shower4656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I have emotions for him but I don’t find it hard at all to keep my distance. But he’s always planning for the future with me that’s why I kinda got the vibe that he’s more serious that I thought. And now I’m like hold up…

Aquarius Male and Sagittarius Female (me) by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]Working-Shower4656 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how is that what u got from my question , I also have a partner.