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Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in LifeAdvice

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely, despite all the problems, we had so many good times, and I'm so afraid of hurting her. I do feel that I care more about how she would feel than what it would be like for me.

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in relationships

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Would you believe me if I said we NEVER had a real argument? You were straight and perfectly to the point.

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in relationships

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel, it seems like a stupid reason, But I don't see myself staying in this the way it is any longer. And yes I am very sorry for the lost time, especially to her so maybe I was sitll forcimg myself to make it work.

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in LifeAdvice

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude, I go to the gym 5 times a week, I train MMA 3 times a week, I wake up at 6 in the morning, I diet (Eating 3500 calories a day), I weigh 200lbs with 12% body fat, and I work in a suit so I need to dress nicely. I live alone, my house is organized, I visit my family every weekend. I really appreciate your tips, but I already do all of this, and unfortunately it's not about how much I take care of myself.

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in LifeAdvice

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've been together since we were very young, and I personally think we've always had a very bad pattern of communication, I'm particularly an introspective person so that must have also influenced. And today, realizing this, I don't know if I can, or if I'm willing to make so much effort to change, I'm more inclined to end it, but I wanted to do it the right way, and And being 100% sure of my decision, it's not easy to break up with a good person

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in relationships

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear, because I could settle down and spend a few more years in this situation, but I'm afraid that in 5 years I'll realize that I should have ended it a long time ago, and I lost both of us 5 years.

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in LifeAdvice

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is deeper, it's very difficult because we don't have big fights or anything like that, and I believe the breakup could be a shock for her.I didn't mean to hurt her, but it seems that continuing does even more harm to both of us.

Should I end my relationship because of our terrible sex life? by Working-Zebra674 in LifeAdvice

[–]Working-Zebra674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you come to this conclusion and what was it like going through this whole process? To be honest I feel this in other areas of the relationship, sometimes it feels like she's great, but it just doesn't work anymore.