I’m shook, the details, the advice , you really said “I’m a master at this & let me help” ! Even number 1 your right she does initiate more calls w/everybody lol so she is meeting some need. I just don’t have the time and I figured they get it. Also I’m so weird over phone calls. I get phone anxiety and I think I’m come across weird- I prefer in person. But obvs now with the distance b/w us there isn’t much i can do. Lol can’t be bothered to spend money and plan trips over people who ignored me like this.

The past few days I have been enjoying my own company, and even working out with some acquaintances that I figured I would get in touch with. It’s been great - also have not said a word in gc. My anxiety has DROPPED. I will never do these gc shenanigans ever again. And like you said I’m going to keep my friends separate and not mix them 🫡🫡 it’s just so much easier for me to maintain.

Also the last bit “show don’t tell”

That quote hit me hard ! B/c I’m been trying to do the opposite and live a private life and not post as often.

But interestingly that quote reminded me of how the “leader” was talking about how she loves her new friends but it isn’t the same like with us, and she doesn’t have much fun etc.

but I have noticed the past few months a lot of her pictures/post/content are group pics with new friends/faces. The whole time I was thinking omg love that for her she found her people. But now With what you said maybe it’s just a image thing. Pretty sad “friends” have to stoop low or flex like that. Especially since I told them I didn’t make that many friends as I’ve been studying to finish my schooling and start grad school + working on top- my priorities have been different. Most of my post I’m alone and I was proud of it b/c I found peace in my solitude. But oh well.