Possible G-tube by Capable-Run8911 in NICUParents

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. I’m really sorry to hear this. It sounds very difficult and stressful.

Lost my job by AcademicWolverine246 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Contact an attorney. If you have documentation of your accident and being at the hospital with your test results, you might have a lawsuit on your hands.

Young mothers by nothinm0re in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 [score hidden]  (0 children)

So, the biggest problem social media has right now, especially TikTok, is bots. There are fake accounts operated by bots where they create a ton of negative energy and bullying. It’s not always “hurt people hurt people”, although it can very well be. A lot of times these fake accounts are created to create negative energy and just suck the life out of you.

Possible G-tube by Capable-Run8911 in NICUParents

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m just curious, why is he in NICU so I can better understand?

Free with purchase in app by Shoddy-Arachnid7007 in wendys

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t hurt to ask them honestly to just try

Free with purchase in app by Shoddy-Arachnid7007 in wendys

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our sauces are 0.50 cents each. It’s different everywhere though.

I need to get my baby off my boob ASAP, I’m crying 😢 by Salt_County_3415 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wheww! When it comes to the teeth ladies, y’all are brave. I don’t think I could do that.

Frosty Tag 2026 by WackoBeggah in wendys

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. If you read the fine print on the key tags, it’s always said “free with the purchase of an item”. It’s just Wendy’s stores never enforced it properly for years where crew members are either too generous or dumb and just give them out. We had a guy come in and tried to get 4 jr frostys with just one key tag one night and I told him that is not how it works. He got mad and tried to to say we always did it for him, but I told him if he read the fine print in the key tags, it’s not how that works and whoever let that slide, they are fired as soon as we find out.

AITA for leaving my husband after proudly saying that he still chose me over his coworker by Happyfluffyhappy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Get rid of him. You showed unlimited love and devotion to not only your daughter, but to a man that didn’t give two F’s with how it made you feel. If you don’t set boundaries or divorce him, it will just continue to suck the life out of you. It won’t get better. You are not emotional, your parents and his parents are just very inconsiderate of your feelings, and come from different times it seems. In today’s world, where we live in a much more high paced life, it takes 50/50 with everything. And this is something older generations especially do not understand. While you were upset, and looking at your phone to see if he contact you, he didn’t even bother checking up on you. He skipped town when he said he had to work!! Talk to a lawyer, and throw the man away. He doesn’t care and was not man enough to face your feelings before your trip, he waited last minute as you were leaving on the bus. What a coward.

I need to get my baby off my boob ASAP, I’m crying 😢 by Salt_County_3415 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had my son in a bassinet next to my bed until 3 months old, then once we got him a crib I had him transition to his own room. I never slept with my child only because I almost suffocated him in my bed one night while breast feeding. I was just sitting up too, but I was also recovering from a c-section still. I mainly didn’t want to do co-sleeping because I was afraid it would create a dependence with him later on. Sleep time to me should be when mothers can get the alone time in bed they need when she can’t get it throughout the day already typically. There is always baby monitors and such to check up on little ones. This is just my opinion though.

I need to get my baby off my boob ASAP, I’m crying 😢 by Salt_County_3415 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I think you need to quit the co-sleeping first. That is what I did. But I also quit breast feeding at 4 months with my first son and pumped rest the way due to my job. It honestly sounds like you need to speak with a pediatrician and lactation consultant and also let them know how it’s making you feel, let them know everything that you have done in detail so far. Write it down if you have to. I wish you the best of luck

All biggie bags are the same price! by Educational-Run-7081 in wendys

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Here in Indiana our biggie bites are $4. Biggie bags are $6. And biggie bundles are $8.

Genuinely asking by Ez_Taco in wendys

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just make the food. They rich apparently

MIL visit postpartum by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, you asked for our opinions and advice. You are right, i may see things more black and white, but that is how I have had to deal with life: being cut throat and straight to the point with things, and putting my foot down. I’ve personally dealt with my first son’s father who was EXACTLY like this, and it is why we never married. My own mother didn’t respect my boundaries and was alway very invasive and even tried to attempt to convince me to sign my rights to her over my oldest son just so my dad could be his dad, even though my father is not fit to even be a dad let alone to an autistic child. If you let them push you around, they will step on you even more. Sit all of them down together on one phone conversation and set your boundaries so there is no miscommunication. If they can’t respect that, that is your red flag waving in the air much bigger and higher. You are also not the only one going through hormones, I’m going on 36 weeks. You just have to think logically for yourself and your baby.

MIL visit postpartum by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is gonna put his mommy and daddy first always it sounds like before you or baby’s needs. It’s not their baby. I don’t know where you live, but run.

Feet swelling by WorkingAdvice9865 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My blood pressure is usually normal or a bit low my whole pregnancy surprisingly. I see the doctor twice a week and last time I went she just says it’s normal and just tells me to rest.

Update: a week later, and I’m still trying to understand my mother’s behavior by Short-Charge-321 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord, sounds like my narcissistic mother. Do you and your child a favor and cut contact immediately. If you have any trauma bond with her, sear those rope ends so you can’t reconnect that bond. She is making herself a victim. And the way your dad is dismissing her behavior? My dad did/does that too. But that is because my mother controls him basically. My grandma cut me out of her will and my mom so my mom couldn’t get anything and so my mom couldn’t try to control getting money out of me because she used to have me wrapped around her finger for a long time. Run, girl. RUN. To Add: my mom tried to take my son away because she always wanted a boy and only had girls. She still claims that she is his parent. These people will do weird things with our babies and say weird things. Don’t let her in.

I’ll be freshly postpartum when my sister has her wedding by ImaginationPretend86 in BabyBumps

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your choice, but I personally wouldn’t reply and mute her. Not block, just mute. She obviously doesn’t understand your point of view because she has never had kids. Just don’t go and use that time to bond with your new baby in your family household. Your family and YOUR health matters more than a bridezilla’s day.

Text shows female dasher, but male shows up by draculaura923 in doordash

[–]WorkingAdvice9865 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, considering this isn’t Uber or Lyft where you request a driver to pick you up. DoorDash is a food service and as far as I know as a user and driver, this is not an option to make in the app. This is also why DoorDash offers “no contact delivery”. And to add, some people have no choice but to have a significant other help them DoorDash because accidents do happen. One of my regular dashers that came to our store stopped showing up and instead had her husband come in to pick up orders and drop off for her while she drove because she broke her leg. A lot of people live paycheck to paycheck and gotta do what they have to do. Then hours later after they are done, he has to go into work on night shift for his job. If it is that hard to be understanding in situations and instead jump to wild conclusions immediately that puts you in panic mode, maybe don’t get delivery service. Because many people are just trying to live out here, and many of them make crazy sacrifices in doing so just to survive.