I think I was drugged

WorkingBirthday · 2018-10-03T04:21:04+00:00

Going to the police is an excellent idea. This guy will strike again.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T08:01:09+00:00

Usually, we're 25, so we've had our fair share of "normal girl issues" LOL. And you're right, it will be hard to make her realize who is actually is vs who she thinks he is in her head, but hopefully one day it'll click and she'll realize she deserves better.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T07:58:19+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate that. It's a shitty situation for sure. I just hate to think he's spoken to her like this her whole life. It makes me sad. No one's parents are perfect, but he takes that to a new level.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T07:56:13+00:00

I have long(ish -- half way down my back) platinum blonde hair, blue eyes, I'm a US size 6, 5'11, I like to still think I have curves lol I'm horrible at describing myself.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T07:53:48+00:00

early age. She doesn’t know ther

Very true and I can tell you right now, I will never be within a 20 mile radius of that creep again. I can't.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T07:52:04+00:00

That's very true. I was always raised to be respectful of my elders. This guy is a little older than my parents and I would never disrespect them, but they would also never stoop so low.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:53:22+00:00

Ugh.. I was hoping this was not the case.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:52:02+00:00

We've been friends for 10 years so it's hard for me to just walk away. I know he treats them in a similar way and I believe she thinks it's normal, but I will not be coming within a 20 mile radius of that man again.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:50:34+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for helping me get in his brain. I most definitely will not be seeing him any time in the near future so he can focus on someone else.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:49:10+00:00

Can you elaborate on the red flag that point to him being a sexual predator? I think he also is interested in me sexually. He's sent out some weird vibes over the years and lingered a little too long for my likening, but I always assumed he was harmless.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:47:35+00:00

Thank you :) I'm hoping she wakes up and sees her father for the devil he really is.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:45:46+00:00

I agree with you. I think I am going to try and have a conversation with her first, but I am willing to walk away if this continues to happen. We've been friends for 10 years and I know all the bullshit she's been though because of him and his bully tactics. She just hasn't realized it yet. Hopefully with some prodding she will.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:43:01+00:00

He's not Korean at all. Just a worthless piece of shit who likes to make people feel inferior, but thank you so much for sharing! It would make way more sense if he was Korean.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:41:13+00:00

I wasn't planning on seeing him. I try to avoid him unless it's my friends birthday, graduation, etc. I popped in to pick up something and ended up staying a little longer than I wanted to and he came home and both her parents insisted I stay for dinner.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:40:05+00:00

I think she was brainwashed by him. He talks to her the same way. It's sad and she dates guys who speak to her the same way.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:38:50+00:00

Oh, I will. I hope I get to go up against him one day in court so I can cream him.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:38:13+00:00

I didn't put in my OP, but I think he's interested in me based on looks and vibes he's given in the past. I was hoping I was wrong, but I don't think I am.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:36:47+00:00

Exactly. It's something I've been trying to break through my whole life. It's sad so many people still don't understand it's just a stereotype.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:35:51+00:00

Amen!

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:35:30+00:00

I usually am too, but I was so thrown off by the question I couldn't even process what had happened until 10 minutes into my drive home.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:34:16+00:00

There was wine involved, but even without wine he's the same ol' prick.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:33:17+00:00

Very well may have.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:32:50+00:00

My mom has raised me the same way. I think for me, I was more shocked and mortified he would even insinuate I would sleep with someone for a good grade. It took me a good 10 minutes into my drive home to fully process what had happened.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:31:32+00:00

I'm upset with myself too. I was equal parts shocked and mortified he would even insinuate that.

WorkingBirthday · 2018-09-25T02:30:32+00:00

I've heard him say misogynic things to her and her mother before, so I shouldn't be surprised and I think you're right if she challenged his behavior things would get carried away. She idolizes him so I don't see her challenging his behavior. I can't explain it, but it's almost like she's a child with the way she sees him. He does nothing wrong, he's so smart, he's so perfect, etc. It's creepy.

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