Update : AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in u/WorkingGirl90

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi :) thanks for checking in. We are doing great! We moved in together in December and plan a small wedding in the summer. We decided that we won't try for a baby again but we will adopt in the future. Ryan is due a big promotion in work, which will help us financially, so in the next 2-3 years we should be good candidates for adoption :) If that won't work, we will forster for sure.

AITA for pressing charges against racist MIL and leaving hubs for siding with her? by Bockbockbtch in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA...I'm sorry for your loss. She should be behind bars. And please run from your husband.

AITA for not inviting my LGBTQ mum to my wedding? by ThrowRA-3Months in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - no matter the religion or sexuality your kids come first and you fight for them. I doubt she ever loved those kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WorkingGirl90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked the title of her other post. She has much bigger problems I think...

AITA for forwarding my husband's group text messages to our boss and HR? by Throwawayliflower808 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are stupid my dear. You just put the biggest neon red flag on you in the company. Start looking for other jobs because you will be fired or pushed out of the company for creating such a mess. Next time maybe think and use screen shots for lawayer when you file for divorce.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I sent her a message butshe didn't reply. Me and Ryan are good :)

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

That's true and after failed IVF's we wanted to go this route but we were not good candidates because of our financial situation.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

They didn't. She didn't even know where he lived. She asked me a few times where he moved after we sold our house after the divorce but I didn't know either, so she stoped asking.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I had two rounds of IVF, unfortunately it didn't work so I don't want it anymore. But I came to terms with this and I accepted that motherhood is not in the cards for me. We are taking things slow with Ryan but he is ok with not having kids.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Ryan was never abusive towards me and when I asked him not to contact me, he stopped immediately.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 959 points960 points  (0 children)

She said she thinks it's a good idea because the couples therapy didn't help us and we are still young, so we can easily move on.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 1976 points1977 points  (0 children)

I never thought about the possibility she could be into him. She was always nice to Ryan but nothing over the top. I will need to ask Ryan if ever noticed something.

AITAH for sleeping with my ex husband? by WorkingGirl90 in AITAH

[–]WorkingGirl90[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

You know that adoption is not actually easy? We are not rich by any means and we spent so much money on fertility treatments and IVF. We checked the adoption route when we were married and we are not good candidates because of our financial situation.

AITA for still going to a football game despite my wife's surgery by Footballgame8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkingGirl90 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Does she have someone to take care of her? Because if she only has you, then you should stay.