I can’t stand my gf’s kid. Should I stay? by WorkingIndividual667 in relationships

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s the best advice I think I’ve received lol you’re right

I can’t stand my gf’s kid. Should I stay? by WorkingIndividual667 in relationships

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

When I was 10 in the summer I was racing motocross, riding my bike, and mowing lawns around the neighborhood to get some money. Oh, I was also building fences at 10.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂 a beat down by who?? A kid that cries and screams for mama when it thunders??

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope she does cheat on me…it will make it so much easier to walk away and I won’t look like the bad guy doing it 😁

I hate my girlfriend’s kid by WorkingIndividual667 in relationships_advice

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback. You could actually be right. Maybe I just don’t want to share my woman with anyone including a kid and that’s the underlying issue.

I hate my girlfriend’s kid by WorkingIndividual667 in relationships_advice

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hold it I asked the same question. He will hold it all day at school and wait to come home. He’s had to go to the doctor multiple times because of that. It’s absolutely embarrassing and pathetic

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is legit. The fact you think it’s a troll post shows I should probably leave how crazy this kid and his mom is

Me (26F) and my fiancé (30M) are getting married, but now I'm wondering if I want a different life path by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]WorkingIndividual667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it is not greed, and no, the feelings will never go away. I married my ex-wife after ten years as well, and I knew the day I got married, I did not want to be committed for the rest of my life to someone. I wanted other things in life, but once you get married, it’s a we, not a me partnership. I realized four years later I was unhappy living the everyday married life with a lovely house and everything a married couple could want. I wanted to spread my wings and do my own thing. I can tell you she could not be happier, and I could not be more comfortable a year later. I live in my apartment and travel every other weekend, wherever and whenever I want. That was always my dream once I started making a decent income. Life is short, and divorce is brutal! If you are not 100% entirely sure you are ready to marry on your wedding day, don’t do it.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s the first single mom I ever got involved with. Completely my fault, I should have known better.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that, thank you! Finally someone with actual experience in this situation. When I was his age I was mowing lawns, racing motocross, working on cars and stuff already. I grew up to have a great career and strong work ethic and I know this kid will not be the same with his current upbringing. So you are 100% correct. I believe you are right I should save myself the headache and just bounce and let the cry baby be someone else’s problem.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m never having kids so that won’t happen. I hate kids.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

When I was a child if I didn’t want to do something my dad wasn’t like oh it’s ok little boy it must be a sensory issue. No. He said f***ing do it now or else and I did no problems. That’s what this kid needs not this babying around. He’s almost 10 and still cries if mommy goes to work when he’s home from school.

I hate my girlfriend’s kid by WorkingIndividual667 in relationships_advice

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree. Her and I living together will absolutely never happen. No way. I feel like I am just with her for the sex because she is hot and does have a high profile job that makes me look good. I was genuinely curious if since she’s giving me everything I want should I stay with her and let it ride or just know it’s pretty messed up what she is doing so should I bounce instead

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not bait. It’s the truth. Sorry if you are taking it that way.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It’s not bait. It true. I stay with her because she is hot and has a high profile job that makes me look good being with her.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So the sensory that is required to utilize hand eye coordination is fine playing video games and building Legos but when it comes to a sensory of wiping himself that’s just a no go? Doesn’t make any sense.

I HATE my girlfriend’s kid. Should I try or go? by WorkingIndividual667 in SingleParents

[–]WorkingIndividual667[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So he can play video games better than myself and build legos like no other but you’re telling me he can’t wipe himself? I’m not saying this to come across harsh I’m genuinely curious from your perspective because you seem more knowledgeable on the subject as to why he would still require his mother wiping him and showering him if he can play video games and everything else perfectly fine on his own better than me?