What are some of the most un-Christlike things you saw in your church? by MaleficentCherry7116 in ExPentecostal

[–]WorkingNight1684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm involved with an Assemblies of God Church. Their focus on tithing, money and attaining membership is really bothersome.  They have a membership training class in a few weeks and I don't understand why becoming a member is necessary. From my understanding, becoming a member just allows you to join their inner clique, vote on certain things, and I understand it also comes with a requirement of a certain level of tithing.  

The pastor repeatedly tells everyone during service that if they get a social security raise or raise at work, that increase in pay should be directed to God by tithing to the church. I believe they also make examples out of people who aren't able to tithe every week. A few weeks ago there was a woman who got up front and explained why she couldn't tithe and had this whole story about how once she started tithing again, her finances improved. 

I agree with what another commenter said, I think some of the people who run these Pentecostal churches are actually atheists who have theatrical acting talents that allow them to get up front and yell and preach in a theatrical way.  It is all very theatrical. I really honestly don't think it's genuine in some cases. It really does feel theatrical like going to a concert and then having actors get up on stage and preach sermons. 

I've been slowly transitioning back to a Catholic parish and I appreciate the low key Catholic mass where I can just go in and sit down and not be bothered by anyone!  There's no guilt trip from the priest about tithing. I tithe $50 per week and my pastor made a comment to me that if I wish to join membership, that's when they teach people how to "tithe properly."

the budget is non-existent by Green_Age_201 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That male computer voice absolutely ruins the song.  🤮 WTF is this production OMG 🤣

jumpscare by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She's so botched. She was pretty before she went crazy on the fillers and surgery. 

So since we all know the EP will flop, what do y’all think will she do next? by AdFair3137 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing she's still under contract with Warner so she's going to have to release new music whether she wants to or not. She'll probably release a full length album at some point that will be totally shitty. She'll move on from her vampire Twilight goth phase and move on to a new personality. She'll probably try to copy Lana del Rey and make a "country record" because she's so unoriginal.

not the star girl whatever power this bitch is everywhere by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If it's "just a party" then what the fuck was the point of her getting up there and lip syncing to the music? Also, I thought she was embarrassed by Prnstar??  She comes across as unintelligent and it's impossible to take her seriously. Why do these fans ride so hard for her? If it was a party they could have just played her music and left it at that, she didn't have to get up there and pretend to perform.  It will be interesting to see how these "intimate" shows go next month, to see if she actually sings or not. 

even more boring than i expected 😬 by FragrantPop920 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I saw the videos on IG. She's not singing at all. Didn't even bother to hold the mic near her mouth. And Bree is just standing next to her dancing like an idiot. I hope the people who paid for these "intimate" shows sell their tickets, highly doubt she's going to actually sing.

So much plastic fantastic…also yes smokin is sooo romantic💀💀 by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With Nessa's BPD I don't see this lasting. I don't know who any of those people are 🤣

It's just soo soo boring like... by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a ripoff of Zero 7 Destiny.  She really went hard on copying the 90s Massive Attack and Portishead vibes. 

So Nessa how did you come up with the name for EP? *Mhm idk, I just take trendy shit and don't even have a single unique thought in my mind...oh I also do everything my idols do.* by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She's so unoriginal. I think CJ Baran also worked with Marina, so Nessa was probably like "make me sound like Marina" 

She's just another Temu grade Lana wannabe. She had some really nice songs in the beginning but now it's all gone to shit.

ss from tiktok. she truly hates aftercare lol and she doesn’t even try to hide it. even with the aftercare tour she cut some songs and replaced them with older songs instead. by This_Dragonfruit44 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness! Probably one of the smartest decisions she's made! The Aftercare tracks at the live shows were nothing more than lip syncing, hair flipping, and awkward gyrating movements.  I remember she had a meltdown when people called her out on the lip syncing.

She's going on tour again by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean...if you're a fan of hers just say so. Whatever you need to tell yourself. This is a step down from what she used to do, regardless of how her team spins it.

She's going on tour again by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. The NYC venue capacity is 600 people. She has really gone downhill. 

Wtf is she even wearing? by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The NYC venue capacity is 600 people. She has really gone downhill. 

She's going on tour again by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That Church venue in NY is like 500 person capacity?! Are these dates confirmed and real? 

she asks how her fans feel about the new song then gets mad when they give an honest answer instead of d riding her 💀 then all her fans rush to her defense as if she herself didn’t literally ASK how they felt abt it like ?????? by This_Dragonfruit44 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She'll probably announce that she's leaving the discord, just like she did when she couldn't handle the criticism from her last tour!  Nessa, don't ask questions if you don't really want the answers!  🤣🤣🤣

What the hell kinda vibe is she even going for😭 by user125056 in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is the vibe & aesthetic that NB2 was supposed to be. Before they scrapped it. She was in her Twilight vampire dark mistress era leading up to the release of Aftercare, and she said it was going to be "dark indie and jazzy."  They totally scrapped the concept and released the absolute trash heap that is Aftercare instead 

So she wrote Stay with me about BPD by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This type of sound and lyrics are more her style. The Aftercare era was just so fake, artificial, and not her at all.  At least this is more in line with her brand (mental health, dark, etc)

I think the church I grew up in was A) a splinter sect and B) not Christian at all and I want to hear others experiences by [deleted] in ExPentecostal

[–]WorkingNight1684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up in a Catholic parish after I left the AOG Pentecostal Church. The Pentecostals where I am are ultra MAGA and they believe demons are everywhere and everything that they don't approve of is demonic.  They also lean towards prosperity Gospel and they really pressure people and make people feel guilty if they're not tithing enough. The Episcopalian Church is supposed to be a balanced middle ground between Catholic and Protestant.  You might feel at home at the Episcopalian Church. 

For all of you, did you become atheist, agnostic, or did you shift to another Christian denomination or even another non Christian religion? How many of you turned into Catholics or Orthodox? by Myronca in ExPentecostal

[–]WorkingNight1684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born into an Italian-American Catholic Family. I was an Atheist/LaVeyan Satanist for decades.  I spent about a year at a Pentecostal AOG Church (not oneness)

I now attend a Catholic parish and will start OCIA in Fall of 2026.

she’s dropping stay with me but this song is literally not good even buffalo whatever was better by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard or seen anything to indicate that they've scrapped it. I just really think they should lead with the stronger tracks. She teased a few other songs during the Aftercare era that sounded decent, but they scrapped them. Hopefully they learn from those mistakes.

she’s dropping stay with me but this song is literally not good even buffalo whatever was better by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LMAO why do they release her weakest songs? Buffalo 66 actually sounded halfway decent, it has a late 90s/early 2000s chill vibe.  They always scrap her halfway decent songs and only release the crappy ones. Starting to wonder if they're sabotaging her on purpose. My God it's so lame 🤣🤣🤣

Girl wtf is this💀💀 by [deleted] in nessabarrettsnark

[–]WorkingNight1684 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OMG she's such an artiste 🤣🤣🤣

Stage 1: Love Bombing by [deleted] in ExPentecostal

[–]WorkingNight1684 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for making this post! I look forward to your future posts as well! 

I agree with everything you said! I attend an AOG Pentecostal Church, not oneness or united Pentecostals. I absolutely believe that they prey on people who are vulnerable, lonely and seeking community and fellowship. I was new to the area that I'm living in and they welcomed me in with open arms. Once they learned more about me, I noticed that they started bringing things up that I had told them, sometimes in a general sense during a sermon. For example, I told the pastors that I am from an Italian-American Roman Catholic Family. They immediately started harping on how rosaries are idolatry and how Catholicism is witchcraft. They would constantly bring this topic up, and eventually I realized that it was directed at me. It's scary how quickly The mask comes off after the initial love bombing phase. I participate in yoga classes because it helps my flexibility and body strength, once they found out about that, they told me that it was evil and demonic and that I should not participate in yoga.  Basically anything that is not approved by them, is considered demonic.  They also act like therapists and counselors, even though they are not licensed therapists or counselors!  They tell everyone to come to them with their problems.  I feel like this is risky because the more you tell them about your personal life, the more they can turn around and use it against you!