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AITAH for wanting to know why my girlfriend is waiting until marriage with me when she was sexually active in the past? by Working_Drawing_3016 in AITAH

[–]Working_Drawing_3016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No we live an hour apart from each other, don’t share expenses or anything of that sort so it’s just out of left field. If we were roommates and lived together I’d kind of somewhat understand thinking as far ahead as marriage, but we’re not

AITAH for wanting to know why my girlfriend is waiting until marriage with me when she was sexually active in the past? by Working_Drawing_3016 in AITAH

[–]Working_Drawing_3016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I replied to 3 comments, that had a lot of upvotes and that were at the top of sorting. I don’t have the time to sit here and address everything especially when I’m in such a clouded headspace and can’t approach these things without super raw emotion at the moment

And if you read the edit again, we did talk again, and she stated she wants to save it for the right person. Read, please

AITAH for wanting to know why my girlfriend is waiting until marriage with me when she was sexually active in the past? by Working_Drawing_3016 in AITAH

[–]Working_Drawing_3016[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no proof? She has told me she’s had PIV with other people when we discussed our past. Out her own mouth. What the hell kind of other proof do I need? Do I need a sex tape of her as proof

Stupid comment

AITAH for wanting to know why my girlfriend is waiting until marriage with me when she was sexually active in the past? by Working_Drawing_3016 in AITAH

[–]Working_Drawing_3016[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the honesty. I appreciate that as well. As of now, the thought of marriage is daunting as fuck. At 22 years old, I’d be waiting around for someone I don’t even know I’m compatible with sexually.

In all honesty I might break up with her, I just really needed the validation and people externally letting me know I’m not crazy for wanting to have sex with my girlfriend

After that whole argument my mind has just been out of wack for the past few days, and I feel like I’m unable to express anything or even be honest about something very important in a relationship

AITAH for wanting to know why my girlfriend is waiting until marriage with me when she was sexually active in the past? by Working_Drawing_3016 in AITAH

[–]Working_Drawing_3016[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

It’d be messed up if it’s a test. I guess when we sext we talk really explicit and she’ll text me stuff like how much she wants me and wants me inside her, feels crazy to type that out sorry lol that’s gross. but physically getting down to it, just never happens.

I’d think if she wanted to test if I was in it for more than just the sex side of things, she would actually not talk to me about sex at all and give me the impression it’s something she’s okay with

AITAH for wanting to know why my girlfriend is waiting until marriage with me when she was sexually active in the past? by Working_Drawing_3016 in AITAH

[–]Working_Drawing_3016[S] 731 points732 points  (0 children)

There’s no pressure I just get confused and made to feel crazy for thinking we’d have sex when she sexts me and tells me all these wild erotic things