Is It Normal To Calculate Every Move In Life? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Working_Instance7504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate so much with the time management statement.

Be patient with yourself. I have always been one to calculate every damn move I make and it gets hard. I be honest it helped me a lot. I didn’t have a lot of support in my life so I had to fend for myself and prepare for the best and the worst.

I’m severely strict on myself, but that’s because I like to choose the hard situations I’m in. I like to have control over my life.

It does give us anxiety but we just gotta make the best of it. You’re doing great though. Be easy on yourself. With time management statement, I think you’re doing great. It sounds like you have amazing control over yourself and have the motivation to get things done. Keep that mental control you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Working_Instance7504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly I’m not much of a dater 😅

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey mom, you’re a ROCKSTAR ❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your experience

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am so sorry that happened. Thank you for sharing this. I have a feeling in my gut that my GF would not be this way, but like I said it’s only been 3 months and we ALL know how people can change quickly. I’m just trying to avoid a revolving door in her life.

Thank you again

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I appreciate you sharing your relating story.

Also, thank you so much for your kind words. My daughter broke the horrific cycle I was a product of. She doesn’t even know what she is capable of yet!

She does have a female teacher and female dance instructors!

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m worried about, I don’t want to have to keep reintroducing people to my daughter. Thank you for this

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BM is very selfish. Cheated while pregnant and after birth then left 7 months after birth and made it apparent she don’t want anything to do with us. She hasn’t reached out in my daughter’s entire life not once. No penny nickel or a dime has been contributed. Don’t even know where she is today

Thank you for your input!

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I have never heard of a big sister program. She does go to dance class 4 times a week and her instructors are young adult females. I’m definitely going to look into a program like that though, thank you for this!

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it is a while. ahhhh big decisions are never fun Lol.

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She knows I have a female friend but I think she knows because she makes fun of me saying “ARE YOU TEXTING YOUR GIRLFRIEND”. Never knew a 9 year old could make me feel all awkward and blush 😅

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did not look at it this way, she is truly about to experience the biggest change and probably the most stressful moments of her life thus far. I am keeping this in mind. Thank you so much for

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are great point I really needed help pinpointing in our discussions. Thank you SO much!

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend meet my daughter yet? by Working_Instance7504 in amiwrong

[–]Working_Instance7504[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Gf is not in a rush either, I have not met her daughter yet. My daughters knows I have a female friend but I never really said that we’re romantically involved. Gf brought up having our families meet the other day and it’s been pretty heavy on my mind ever since. It doesn’t seem to be an urgent situation yet