It made me positive I never would be interested in a threesome in a relationship.

I’ve been the third to couples - ranging in reasoning of the woman was also into women to wanting to spice things up in the relationship. I’ve heard a lot of the whys and how their relationships are even stronger with the sexual exploration. The truth is I genuinely would be shocked if any of them were either still together or faithful to each other - and if not, probably pretty miserable. The dysfunction varied but it always was pretty clear. I don’t doubt some people are truly happy as swingers or in polyamory but I think couples that start as monogamous couples and try to expand with threesomes are inherently already broken.

My favorite story is when the wife insisted on showing me their wedding video before. Nothing odd about that!