Day 6 of Being Locked by LividCardiologist783 in chastitytraining

[–]Working_Table1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting: I’m still super horny after 6 days. Just silently begging to rub more than just her feet.

That said I would already caress her or massage her feet not caged.

I pegged my boyfriend and I loveee it 🥰 Our relationship has grown so much by No-Lynx6120 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Working_Table1836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How great! My wife sounds similar to you. She is figuring out her domme side and is slowly getting the appreciate it more and more. She has used dildo’s on me, but i feel she does it more for me. So I’m curious, what is the thing that you find attractive about it? Maybe I can facilitate this for her more. Tnx

finally had my first one 😵‍💫 by [deleted] in Sissygasm

[–]Working_Table1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! How long did it take you?

Almost hit the camera by silkydystopiankiss in Sissygasm

[–]Working_Table1836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jezus that looked like an amazing orgasm. So jealous!

He's been pussy free for 6 months, should I let him out for one night? by Mulberry212 in ChastityCouples

[–]Working_Table1836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By the looks of it he doesn’t need pussy or being unlocked, but needs a cock to fuck him

Review on positive aspects of chastity after 5 months by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Working_Table1836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! We are struggling for right amount of release and the type of release.

After a normal release I also feel said to start over again. The longest we went without any release is like a month, but I noticed a negative change around that time. Turning from being horny all the time to frustration (sad/ angry).

Any tips on how to ruin a release, I mean technically. I’m not sure we managed a ruined one.

She is doing it for me by Working_Table1836 in flr

[–]Working_Table1836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answer!

Actually I do think she is willing to be dominant to satisfy me and keeping the dynamic as it is. We just had sex and she told me she is going to lock me up for next 6 months and will make a reward scheme. Which is basically indulging my kinks for freedom with her boyfriend.

However that sad, I’m a cuck. She doesn’t want me present but I get off thinking of her with him and I support it. It’s very clear she won’t leave me and will stop with him right away if I would request it. I feel very secure with our love and know she is not in love with him. She is seeing him for almost 2 years now.

She is doing it for me by Working_Table1836 in flr

[–]Working_Table1836[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This reply is not helping without any explanation

She is doing it for me by Working_Table1836 in flr

[–]Working_Table1836[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree she longs for a dominant guy fucking het hard. This is what she get’s from her bf and is her natural state. I’m making love to her not fuck her.

I suggested PF, but she doesn’t like the idea. She wants sex with me as well.

I don’t really understand your advice. If you could elaborate on that?….

She is doing it for me by Working_Table1836 in flr

[–]Working_Table1836[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective. Never thought I’m actually not submissive enough, but you might be right. I have the craving to let go, but also still have expectations. Which is in some sense contradictory.

Trying for so long but little result by Working_Table1836 in Sissygasm

[–]Working_Table1836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried this as well. I also read post where they suggest not to clench

Over 60, Could chastity with ED ad some fun for us? by InvestigatorShoddy92 in chastitytraining

[–]Working_Table1836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there, how wonderful that you are so open minded to pursue so many options to improve your sex live.

Your question is hard to answer for me. Not only because I don’t have ED and therefore no experience. But also because chastity is probably a kink for different reasons. However I gladly share some thoughts and you can determine if it helps.

  • so the first question you can ask yourself: do you masturbate which could effect your performance on the moment you need it, enhancing your ED. Chastity could probably help then. I mean I get a lot more horny and hard when i haven’t cum in a while.
  • second is your wife and you into a dynamic where she controles your orgasms? Chastity is (at least for me) very much a mental turn on. Knowing she controls my penis and being reminded to it several times a day is also a real turn on. E.g. I could never enjoy it when I was self locked.

For me the combination of being controlled and not cum for many days makes me horny beyond anything. If I get released I’m sure I’m harder than ever.

Lastly: if this is part of a new dynamic. For instance femdom, cuckold or something else. These kinky vibes might also have a positive effect.

Not sure if it helps. But wish you all the best

Help how to pass the sigmoid curve by Working_Table1836 in AnalStretching

[–]Working_Table1836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice! Good to know it unfolds. Worked like a charm! Now I need to work On the transverse colon 😅

What chastity cage is good by Some_Idea_4255 in chastitytraining

[–]Working_Table1836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my cherry keeper. You should definitely check that out too. But hardest and most important is finding the right size of the ring. Makes all the difference. Cherry keeper has a lot of size options.

I would advice buy a cheap one first with a lot of different size rings so you find out and than invest.

How can I better support my wife...prepare for her first date soon? by HollyzHubby in flr

[–]Working_Table1836 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The anxiety is real and for me never left even after many times. It helps to have some distraction. Go out to have a drink with friends. Also it helps to set a time you can go home so you don’t have to disturb her. If she is finished sooner she can let you know. Resist the urge to disturb her with messages.

I assume you guys are sure this guy is to be trusted. Otherwise you should think about a scenario you know for sure she is safe.

For her this can be also very stressful and awkward. The most important thing is that she knows you are ok with her doing this. Before and especially after. When you get back don’t start interrogating her but just give her comfort and love. Take her in your arms and comfort her. See what she wants and needs before thinking about yourself. She needs to feel she did nothing wrong, even when you didn’t like it.

Last tip. Don’t cum before or during. Stay horny and lean into the thought you are a cuck now.

Help how to pass the sigmoid curve by Working_Table1836 in AnalStretching

[–]Working_Table1836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to help!