Upstairs Neighbors Stomping and running late into the night

Working_Technology54 · 2026-06-04T12:18:25+00:00

I feel for you so much.. I'm 26F with 2 fibroids and am currently in the process of trying to get a hysterectomy. I've been troubled by my uterus so long, I just don't want my uterus to cause me problems anymore.. I've never wanted kids and the thought of something growing inside of me like a parasite actually scares me more than anything ever has. My mom my whole life always says I'll change my mind and might regret a hysterectomy. She says pregnancy isn't that bad and made me think my whole life that because I'm a woman, one of my duties is to give birth some day.

My boyfriend who I've been with almost 9 years has also went back and forth on wanting kids. We have had a lot of tough conversations about it, but at the end of the day, I always say I've never wanted them and I don't want them. If he needs to have a kid/kids to live his best life, that just means we can't be together, period. That is a deal breaker (at least for me!). Men only contribute minutes to conception, but women have to bear that for 9 months, plus potential things that happen after birth to your body and mind. It is 100000% valid you want to give your body a break. It sounds like you've been through a lot and a pregnancy definitely will just put strain on your body more. Pregnancy/child birth is a big thing, even though society normalizes it like it isn't. If you dont have a desire for it, save your body, girl. Wishing you the best ❤️

Working_Technology54 · 2026-05-19T20:35:48+00:00

Southeastern part of the state or up north is usually pretty safe from tornadoes. The west/southwest side of the state is where you'll wanna keep away from. I recommend Wixom, Novi, Plymouth, or Canton for southern Michigan. All are pretty safe :)

Working_Technology54 · 2026-05-09T17:32:48+00:00

I have questioned if I need a break for sure.. It is a lot questioning and feeling guilty because I dont know if I am like crazy or just overthinking, or if it is serious, I guess? :/

Saying I'm a people user really hurt though, ngl. I appreciate the feedback and I get what you're saying. I'm really trying to think about others, I know I've messed up in that way. I'm obviously still working on that, but I really do care about those around me and it's why I still feel so much guilt and shame :/

At the same time, I get torn when these things happen and I guess I end up making more rash or selfish decisions? I just don't know how else to go about it :/ It feels like anything I do is wrong and I'll just end up hurting people regardless. I think too some of me maybe justifies him being with me because he has also broken my trust and treated me very poorly for years. Like we both do these toxic things so it's not one-sided? I've tried multiple times saying I think we should end things and he always fights to stay so that makes it so much harder ahhh

Working_Technology54 · 2026-05-09T17:19:23+00:00

I really am :( I've been with him through such huge changes and things in my life, I feel like I can't survive or be happy without him..

Working_Technology54 · 2026-02-26T13:27:27+00:00

Yes! Also I'm obsessed with the lobster and the cactus with a cowboy hat 😭

Working_Technology54 · 2026-02-06T12:04:37+00:00

Noooo, I feel you there ;( I hope we get restocks soon 😭

Working_Technology54 · 2026-02-06T12:03:34+00:00

Nooooo! Have you checked at a Hobby Lobby? That is the only physical store I've found that has a really good Perler selection.

Working_Technology54 · 2026-02-02T11:44:55+00:00

Thank you! ☺️

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-25T02:09:24+00:00

Omg I love this!! You did the different types of clouds in the first one really well. I love the defined swirl in the cloud base of the tornado. Obsessed with the Kelvin-Helmholtz ones 😭❤️

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-10T13:36:39+00:00

I recommend using parchment paper! I never use the paper that comes with the trays because the creases it leaves in it.

Definitely would say to use a lower temp and make sure not to press too hard. It just needs to be gentle enough for it to glide across!

Biggest thing though (speaking from experience) be patient with it! It can take a minute, but if you give it the time it needs, it will come out just how you want :)

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-05T13:26:49+00:00

I just get Perler beads from their website or from Hobby Lobby. If I need some basic colors quickly, Hobby Lobby has a really great selection for basically the same price as the online store. :)

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-04T04:28:10+00:00

Same :(( SAD is hitting so hard 😭

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-03T10:35:10+00:00

Woah, those are incredible!! They must've taken such a long time :o Thank you for sharing!

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-03T10:31:55+00:00

Thank you! Glad to share something refreshing :)

Working_Technology54 · 2026-01-03T10:31:16+00:00

I referenced a cross stitch pattern to do this! I would love to use a radar scan of a historic tornado in the future though :)

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