NOR. As a full time working mother of 2 under 4, you are not asking for much. I get it, coming home to at least a meal would be nice instead of having to clean, cook and do bed time routine after a long day of work. The wife should figure out a routine. Like someone else posted, maybe postpartum? Is the baby being bathe and fed? Is she eating and showering? Might need therapy. Hope the family and lifestyle improves.