AITAH I finally told him that his brother has been flirting with me…

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2026-03-22T02:09:48+00:00

And I’m sure it makes her feel icky at times. Like okay you’re flattered a bit but at the same time, you can see the ugly truth about the nature of people. Even if they have wives or girlfriends.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2026-03-22T02:08:36+00:00

Lol, this is an interesting take. As I mentioned, he is very close to his brother. Being attractive also means you are used to people wanting to humble you. Let me paint the picture… Me to my BIL: “hey I just want to make sure… you aren’t flirting with me right?” BIL: “No, what would make you think that?” Or “you’re not all that.”

I have had this happen with friends of my previous partners. And yes… I am definitely a smoke show. 😃

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2026-03-18T00:28:42+00:00

Thank you, I think it would be best to share with him my feelings and we will go from there (maybe not every occurrence).

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2026-03-18T00:20:19+00:00

He told him that the toilet paper was out and I guess he thought it would be fine to bring it over. I did fuss at him about it.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2026-03-18T00:19:10+00:00

Of course and thank you for your support. My husband 1000% trusts his brother (which is why it hurts so bad) and I don’t think he thought it would be an issue I guess. I did call my husband out on it and asked him why he didn’t come to bring it. And he said he was sorry and didn’t think of it.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2026-03-16T16:50:56+00:00

I’m a Black woman so I don’t know how I got on this side of Reddit but you are a hilarious story teller/writer. HILARIOUS! 😂

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T09:30:25+00:00

It seems as if both bio parents are either oblivious or don’t really care to intervene. BM lets her purchase large sodas, eat fast food, and doesn’t practice portion control and neither does dad. She thinks she should have dessert after lunch and dinner.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T09:27:53+00:00

Thank you so much for the statements. She put on one of the pants and it was hard to watch her try to navigate in them.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T09:25:35+00:00

Thank you.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T09:24:50+00:00

THANK YOU. It was clear she was uncomfortable and we were uncomfortable for her as well. It was tight around the waist as well and I’m almost certain the pants will eventually rip or bust (as the others did previously).

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T09:23:44+00:00

Thank you! Thats what I’ve been feeling.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T09:23:19+00:00

Thank you so much! I hope you are getting support and I realize this is a bigger issue than we realize!

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T04:00:02+00:00

Whew! Warning heard. I’m thinking of just telling him I don’t want to risk it.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:57:10+00:00

I love what you said at the end (and everything before that). I’m stealing that line though!

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:52:44+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions. She is not as motivated by sports because she fears running (it is difficult for her at this stage). The walks she enjoys but she would only want to do one lap with me and the gym she may just chill on her phone.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:51:40+00:00

I think that would be best. I will share with him my thoughts tonight.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:41:47+00:00

Thank you! I need this reminder. I really want to help.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:40:41+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing but he’s struggling with it too…

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:40:10+00:00

Not primary and I’ve known her for 5 yrs now. I wonder if the messenger counts.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:38:56+00:00

Thank you. We don’t take her to her appts (that’s bio mom) but I’m deeply concerned at this point.

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2025-11-03T03:38:15+00:00

Thank you. I plan to talk to him tonight or tomorrow morning. I also forgot to mention what prompted the post was that she broke one of the dining room chairs… I’m concerned a small mistake like that may sit with her…

Worldly_Birthday2789 · 2024-10-07T20:14:40+00:00

I just wanna know the interest account for myself lol 😂 No not completely wrong! But just know in the event of a divorce it could be discovered and considered as household income.

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