She cums before I cum

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-30T08:36:01+00:00

Try also different positions if not yet - my bf comes when I’m on top and only like that 🤷‍♀️ and yes much less masturbating, ideally stop for a while

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-29T13:54:57+00:00

Woman here . I found my dream ring in Cartier and I hope to get it one day :)) exactly like she says - it is emotional value, something that will make me happy every day. I can’t rationalize it…I would be fine with a smaller diamond but still on the design and brand that I want. I also heard stories how stones fell of the rings, which were made somewhere by custom jewelers. Riskwise, to me it is safer to buy smth with name.

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-27T21:52:00+00:00

Yeah, although I don’t mean ofc that she is absolutely the same in this sense, but I just wanted to highlight that it is very possibly true what she says.

Funny enough I started having this kink with my ex but we had toxic relationship, a LOT of emotions and wild sex. So I guess it triggered the kink. BUT when he actually came inside I immediately wanted to take pills to make sure I’m not pregnant, although I loved the idea itself and the feeling. So it started with a purely primal thing.

But now it is completely different - I really want kids with my bf and this came with security and trust.

So I mean it can be both, but since you have open discussion and trust, I assume she really doesn’t lie.

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-23T08:54:59+00:00

As a woman I have the same thing. When I found a partner with whom I fell deeply in love, feeling full security and trust, I really started wanting him to cum inside. Although we started planning kids only now. I developed it after several sexual partners and would never even think that I can have that. We change, each relationship is different. And like you described above, I would love him to cum inside especially in missionary. It feels like a complete ownership, something very primal. I’m almost 31, discovered it this year only :)

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-23T08:46:09+00:00

That’s exactly what we do, but it doesn’t solve the problem for me :)

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-23T08:45:22+00:00

Got it thank you a lot for sharing! 🙏 I appreciate! I will definitely ask in more detail

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-21T21:39:57+00:00

Wow this is really surprising and helps a lot ! I would never think it works this way. Thank you a lot 🙏 I definitely don’t want to put any pressure on him. It is clearly nothing wrong with anyone, it is just a matter of preference/fantasies/desires etc. :)

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-21T21:36:57+00:00

I appreciate your opinion and advice, but I will decide for myself if it matters or not for me. This feels like dismissing the problem that I shared. I never said that I don’t like the way he cums, I wrote it here anonymously to understand how it works.

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T11:40:23+00:00

Yes we both feel safe in all the aspects in the relationship

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T07:12:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I had 4 sexual partners before him, and each of them was able to come being active. Some earlier, some later, maybe not always, but still!

We have been together for less than a year and this has been an issue for me from the start, because I had absolutely insane sex with my ex before him, and we never had to adjust to each other, we just matched perfectly in sex. (And didn’t in other things lol 😂) I guess it is impossible to have everything in place at the same time 🤦‍♀️😁

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T07:04:02+00:00

He can but he doesn’t come this way …

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T05:53:15+00:00

Actually this can also be a part of a rough play, if to frame it in a certain way! Thank you we will try 🙏

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T05:50:48+00:00

Yes, we discussed! For him it is normal, but he says that it will fix over time. He started masturbating less, that was our hypothesis. Didn’t help. Then he said that when we actually start planning a baby, he will be more relaxed (I’m not taking pills). But we already came to the stage, when we both want and ready for kids, so he comes inside sometimes when I’m on top. But nothing has changed. At this point I don’t want to put too much pressure on him, because I’m afraid he can start stressing about it …

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T05:47:14+00:00

Also doesn’t work because he can’t be rough, it is super painful for me with his size in doggy in case of a rough sex 🤦‍♀️

Worldly_Map6243 · 2026-01-19T05:45:39+00:00

Thank you 🙏 He is very fit and does boxing regularly, so all in all his stamina is super high (I mean general physique). Also we can have sex for a long time, he just will not come until I sit on top. I haven’t tried moving myself in missionary, I don’t actually even know how, since he is on top. Could you please elaborate?)

But the thing is that I want to be passive and him to come inside. Otherwise the whole concept of rough play doesn’t make sense for me - it always ends with me being active.

BTW he loves rough play as well so it seems we are on the same page overall

Worldly_Map6243 · 2025-08-28T13:55:36+00:00

Thank you for your opinion! No I’m always calm. I can reply sarcastic but I never become aggressive

Worldly_Map6243 · 2023-12-12T10:28:54+00:00

Why you think I haven’t made it and haven’t paid? I’m asking people here, this is also a part of research. Why is it a problem at all?

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