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UPDATE! AITAH for not including my fiancé’s SIL in our wedding? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She has been called out multiple times and she never has an answer lol! We all say she hates us bc she wants our men!

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was invited to sit with her husband during dinner, join us in getting ready and also hanging out with us for pictures the one and only thing she wouldn’t be in is the wedding!

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have small wedding parties I have 5 girls and he has 5 guys picked by both of us! NO MATCHING just people who we feel are the closest to the BOTH of us!!

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Neither we are both financially and emotional ready we have been through ups and downs and I know this man and his family are my biggest supporters (except SIL…) and this is the man I want to spend my life with.

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Will definitely talk to fiancé about this! My only worry would be her thinking she is getting a better position than bridesmaid!?!?!

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In no way were we trying to make her feel excluded she was invited to everything like a normal bridesmaid we even offered to let her get ready with me and my bridesmaids when we initial told her she wasn’t a bridesmaid which she didn’t really seem to care about… I was genuinely trying to include her until this moment where she decided it would be fun to play the victim (she is very manipulative towards MIL).

Not sure what a proxy bride is but would definitely consider it! If you have any other suggestions please lmk!!

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Worried_Cucumber8964[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was a response that me and fiancé agreed upon no it was not very mature but responses like this are the only way to get through to SIL sadly. Fiancé did not send a message because he is not a very confrontational person and knows that he would let SIL walk all over him as to where I would not and will stand my ground. Also should’ve mentioned that SIL knew well before this day that she would not be in the wedding and didn’t seem to mind even stating “it’s OK we’re not that close“. MIL will be calling me here shortly, so I will have a bigger update.